Do the guys who don't believe in paying for dates also let the woman change the tire when you have a flat?

Is the tide turning again?
Decades of complaining for equality now they want to go back or just cherry pick the good bits

Hmmm... I'd have to know just how good your bits are before answering that

Not on a PG site.

The bits you don't want to pay for

Don't include me in on this ... I don't mind up with gifts in hand. And I don't mind not getting gifts either... it's the way you treat each other that matters most to me.

Right answer,
I'm just going to the bathroom,
Get the bill, I'll meet you at the car

Nah, I call AAA and have them change the flat.

Anyway, who said anything about guys not believing in paying for dates?

I just saw an AAA commerical. What happened to people changing their own tires. I've noticed a lot of men call someone to do "mans" work for them. They have their grass cut, cars washed, homes painted etc. It never occurred to me to hire someone to do those things and I'm a woman. Why have a man if he isn't good for anything? Would you want a woman who doesn't cook, clean, buy griceries, do laundry?

Do the guys who don't believe in paying for dates also let the woman change the tire when you have a flat?

I just saw an AAA commerical. What happened to people changing their own tires. I've noticed a lot of men call someone to do "mans" work for them. They have their grass cut, cars washed, homes painted etc. It never occurred to me to hire someone to do those things and I'm a woman. Why have a man if he isn't good for anything? Would you want a woman who doesn't cook, clean, buy griceries, do laundry?

I just saw an AAA commerical. What happened to people changing their own tires. I've noticed a lot of men call someone to do "mans" work for them. They have their grass cut, cars washed, homes painted etc. It never occurred to me to hire someone to do those things and I'm a woman. Why have a man if he isn't good for anything? Would you want a woman who doesn't cook, clean, buy griceries, do laundry?

you are stretching it ETW, who said anything about not paying for dates?
the question or what the OP is saying is she believes that a man's affection for the woman is based on what he spends on her , things he buys her or expensive places he takes her.

why you would equate changing a flat for a woman to dating?

I for one dont believe in overspending on a date when Im getting to know someone, that doesnt mean Im cheap , because my last girlfriend we went away on weekends a lot, Ive taken her to Martha's vineyard for the weekend to Vegas, to Canada ( Niagara Falls, Toronto , Ottawa and Montreal) to vacations places like Bora Bora, jamaica just to name a few.

Im not going to take a date to those places as I dont know if the dates will turn into a relationship, but once Im in the relationship that is a different story I will spoil her because well she would be worth it.

I don't think she said it equals affection. She said that's what she wants. A lot of women my age are sick of sitting home and cooking for a man. We feel like it's time to enjoy life. We've done without so our family could have things and we feel it's our turn to get some of the things we want.

We want a man who still wants to go out and have fun. We don't want a couch potato that a lot of men our age are turning into. We don't want a man who has financial problems where everything is still unaffordable.

A guy I went to school with wanted to date me a few weeks back. He has 4 underage kids. He was one of those who wants the stay at home dates. I just don't want to be strapped to that.