I do not have anything against people whom choose to relax by smoking weed, I am just wondering if it is a reason to end a relationship in which one person does only does it once, twice a year , the other does it 2 three times a day?
I have struggled with this before and I am not a pot smoker, I find it makes some people lethargic, I find it hard to get emotions out of someone who is always high lol

It bothers me because i like to get things done, i find it cause some laziness

If you're asking, I'm thinking it's bothering you more than you care to acknowledge

no i don't think that is a reason. I dated a pothead and he really did just calm himself down. It wasn't a major issue with me.

That is a tough one... I used to date a guy who smoked pot and one of the reasons I dumped him was because of it. He hid it from me and I was a senior in college getting a criminal justice degree. That didnt look too well on my personal life so I ended it. That and we were having other problems as well.

I USED TO SMOKE POT UNTIL I HID MY STASH...GOD I WISH I COULD REMEMBER WHERE IS WAS!!!

On the other hand if it's an issue with you for whatever reason (like money or anything else) then i agree with her!

you can still get cancer from smoking pot

Did it, loved it, Hate it now. 2 whole people make 1 whole relationship. Drugs are a waste and a sign of lost focus (personal experience). Plus , you may not 'have a problem ' with it, but the law does. Willing to risk trouble for pot is the first sign of addiction or negative 'pressure' from that relationship which sparks the use of it. Waste, waste, waste, is all it is and ever will be.

I say this out of love, anyone can do better without it and should fevently avoid those wrapped up in it exept to intervene or help that person out of it.

Is he legal? is he a prop215,senate bill 420,ect?If he needs it that is one thing,but no matter what he should be more into you.A partner should always take your emotions in to consideration.If he is a pot smoker,drinker,football junkie or whatever he should fullfill your needs first.Then if he wants to do whatever,at least do it when your not around or it doesn't affect you or your time together.I like to play card games,video games,ect. But I wait until my partner leaves.A couple does things as one.Who ever you date make sure he cares about you more than drinking,smoking,football or anything else.I'm not hear to judge,but I do like to tell someone when I think they are going down a bad road.And everyone should be treated with respect.TRUELY Kenny

Like Chris Rock says, if your woman is a crack head, you gotta be a crack head, if your woman goes to church, then you gotta go to church, or else it AIN'T GONNA WORK.

Now you know that's the truth.

NEVER SMOKED BUT PUFFED LIKE HELL TO KEEP IT LIT

The cat picure fit too well, I laughed goood.

What was the question?????

Lighten up, there is a million better excuses than that minor detail to end something.

minor detail.

God made pot... so how is it bad? Chinese riddle for ya.

Here in Illinois, if you were driving a car with him as passenger, and you got pulled over for whatever reason, and he had a "little" pot in his pocket, you could lose your car, and possibly face arrest as well. Is it worth the risk ?? BTW, if it were legal, I'd be smokin a big bowl right now. (never learned how to roll)..

Actually only you can decide that...but I dumped someone because of that reason. Yep he was calm...in fact maybe to calm..he showed no emotion at all!!
Guess what people...pot is addictive!! Yep...I like that..pot is a herb, how bad can it be? Give me a break!!

Don't compromise your own standards when it comes to dating, unless it involves something you've never experienced before (in regards to who you have dated). If you found potsmoking to be a problem, don't date potheads.

God made all the poisons on this earth...how bad can they be...sheeesh!