Topic: Depressed dark desires
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Thu 07/19/18 05:37 AM
Can someone talk about the anxiety depression dark dirty desires people living with

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Thu 07/19/18 05:39 AM
yes. a licensed psychologist. scared

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Thu 07/19/18 05:42 AM

Can someone talk about the anxiety depression dark dirty desires people living with


You are a young guy.. young guys have those dirty desires...if you didn't ...then you would have a problem.

you're fine..

Dr. Greeneyes

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Thu 07/19/18 06:31 AM
*Looking at my empty coffee cup*

Maybe I need more caffeine..? *confused look*

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Thu 07/19/18 06:34 AM
Maybe there's a 976 number you can call.


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Mon 07/23/18 12:35 AM
Hi all of us undergoes to painful situations like break up,loss of someone and many more but if that heartbreaking situation will change your daily routine like you lost interest to certain things which made you entertained before,dont want to socialize .Then I think you need to seek for help like talk to your friends and share your problem so that they can comfort you but if you cannot handle the ßituation anymore then much better to asl for professional help to prevent to worsen the situation..
HAVE NICE DAY AHEAD..

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Mon 07/23/18 06:54 PM
Everyone develops dark secrets over the long course of a human life. That is the result of the taboo and judgement that people connotate with certain subjects in our society.
An example : Many men are bisexual and hide it from their wives because they are scared that she will leave them. So they turn to the internet to write about their fantasies and sooner or later their laptop is open, the wife goes through their search history and a breach of trust has taken place between both parties, all of a sudden. Things like this could have been avoided if subjects like this were more open for discussion in our society. But they are not, so people search outlets to canalize their feelings with regards to these kinds of subjects.
Another example : Some people have been sexually abused and hide it out of shame and fear. They live their lives as broken people suffering day after day. Wondering if they have done everything in their possession to avoid this from happening. They blame themselves for it. Because it’s taboo in our society. Because it’s still seen as shameful. Not open for discussion.

Another example is transgender people. Because science still lacks a decent and generally accepted explanation with regard to how gender dysphoria develops / manifestates itself, there is still a lot of judgement for trans people. So people hide it, try to conform to the gender role they were assigned at birth, try to do what society expects them to do, while slowly dying inside. Ultimately later in life it becomes unavoidable to act on the desire to be able to be yourself, who you truly are. And so one transitions. Caitlyn Jenner is the perfect example of this with her come out at 65.

Other examples of living with a dark secret include : hiding a murder out of guilt / shame / inwillingness to face your deeds.

The vast majority of people will have lived with a dark secret by the time they reach old age.
It’s simply unavoidable because of the way humanity is programmed. Because of how society is programmed with its quick judgement and prejudices.

Anxiety occurs when the adrenal glands start producing more stress hormones like adrenalin. The body thinks it faces a situation of danger and becomes restless. The “ fight or flight “ mechanism.


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Tue 07/24/18 10:54 AM

Maybe there's a 976 number you can call.




What are they?

Seriously, topics like that are too delicate to be discussed over the phone or on social media.

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Wed 07/25/18 06:14 PM

Can someone talk about the anxiety depression dark dirty desires people living with




Why are you connecting anxiety and depression with dark, dirty desires?



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Wed 07/25/18 06:19 PM
i thought we were talking about dark fantasies here oops

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Wed 08/08/18 10:17 AM
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Wed 08/08/18 01:48 PM
What about them? Its all a bit subjective isn't it. How do you define dark and dirty, are they negative descriptions. What's dark and dirty to you may not be to some 1 else. And when you find the person who shares these feelings with you, it will probably help. You sound like maybe you have some guilt regarding it. Its not really possible to comment further.

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Wed 08/08/18 02:27 PM

What about them? Its all a bit subjective isn't it. How do you define dark and dirty, are they negative descriptions. What's dark and dirty to you may not be to some 1 else. And when you find the person who shares these feelings with you, it will probably help. You sound like maybe you have some guilt regarding it. Its not really possible to comment further.


Dirty is negative alright. But dark is only a negative label, connected to fears, most people have. They can not see in the dark, so they get insecure. But for me darkness is mysterious, which is positive for me.

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Wed 08/08/18 02:37 PM
Edited by Tom4Uhere on Wed 08/08/18 02:38 PM
Ha!!!
My dark desires are certainly not 'depressed' but they are 'suppressed'.
As they need to be and should be.
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However, when I die, the flying monkeys WILL be released.
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