Do women really want a soulmate and a friend? When do you know that the
man your with is, or is not?

I believe that most do truely want to find and have that special
someone, that soulmate and to be happy. I'd say they've know they've
found one when there the happiest and don't want to let that special
someone go...

Womean really do want their soul mate-I think men really do too for that
matter.
Oddly enough I think it does start out on a friendship level and grows.
After all "falling" is an accident. I do not want to fall in love I want
to grow in love.
When you really care eniugh about someone to make sure their needs are
met- with out ignoring your own needs I think you know.
There is a balance and while you are always thinking of good things to
do to show that person you care, it's not work.
Its like second nature. It is easy to give to someone you see genuinely
cares about you and gives back.

I think that woman want to find their soul mates, I know that for me it
is important. I believe that it is something that grows and develops
but I think that when you find that perfect someone that there is just
this gut feeling that this is it, this is the one.

I think women think they want their soul mate, but they have no idea
what that might be. So it's like driving around in a strange city
without a map.

I would definitely want a soul mate. I'm sure it's a wonderful feeling
having that one special person to spend your life with.

Soul mate to me is that someone who you never stop getting those
butterfly feelings for. Someone who even though you have not been
together for at least 10 years, you wake up in the middle of the night
after a dream about them which happens atleast 3 times a week.

soul mate is someone who is always in your heart and mind and know
matter what goes on in life, you are destined to be with them
eventually.

i think a soul mate is a person a woman or a man who when they are
together it doesn't matter what they are doing
wether it be walking along a beach or just sitting on the couch watching
tv and they are communicating and sometimes you don't even have to say a
word and you know what the other is feeling

i know i do. i dont know what gals want i guess everbody wants something
different.

Well I think greeneyedlady has it to the T I agree with her all the way.

I'm told and I can truly say it's true You never know a guy until you
truly live with them or atleast hang around them. I'm still looking for
my soulmate and it's possiable that I have find him only time will
tell:)

I believe that there is a soul-mate for everyone. I believe I found
mine. We have been together for almost 7 years and I wouldn't give it
up for anything. Trust me when I say he's out there somewhere. Just
keep looking and if you feel you have met Mr. Right, don't hesitate to
snag his ass up. You'll know when you find him. I can't explaine the
feeling but you'll know it when it hits you.

Good words Green and Mimi

i know that i am looking for more than just a friend when i consider
getting into a long term relationship with someone. being friends with
them is also important but i also want some kind of deeper connection
with them or it doesn't seem to mean as much. friends with benifits does
not cut it for me and does not work relationship wise.

i think part of the problem is that not everyone will connect with you
on that level and some people get tired of searching for them and they
settle

to answer the question, yes i think women really want a soulmate at some
point in their life

I don't want no damn soulmate!! JUST KIDDING!! I've already found mine,
and she's the best thing thats ever happened to me. I'd probably be dead
or worse by now if I hadn't met her when I did. Sometimes I find it hard
to understand the expression "everything happens for a reason", cuz I've
been through some sh*t, as I'm sure all of you have. But in some wierd,
almost perverse way, it does. I went through major crap with my baby
momma, lost my job, my place to live, my license (that was my bad, DUI)
and thought my life was goin down the drain. Then, on the only night I
could use my cousins computer, I was in some chat room. This girl IM'd
me thinkin I was one of her old friends. I informed her that I wasn't,
and we just started talkin. It turned out we knew some of the same
people, went to the same places, and had the same interests. We both had
enough guts to meet each other, and well........I proposed to her a
month later on her birthday. I was so nervous I didn't even open the box
the ring was in! We've been married since 4-20-01, and I wouldn't trade
it for the world. Have faith, please. It will happen, but even if it
comes to you, you still have to reach out and grab it while it's there.
Don't let it slip away. If you did let it slip away, you'll find
another. It may not happen like mine did, but it'll happen.

Damn, I didn't even answer the question! Yes, both sexes want to find
their soulmate!! OOPS

WELL FOR ME, I WOULD FIRST HAVE TO FIND A "MATE" WHO ALSO
POSSESSED A "SOUL", THEN WITH MY LUCK, SHE WOULD ONLY WANT TO
TAKE MINE!!!!!!!!!! LOL.

BUT YES, I BELIEVE EVERYONE WOULD WANT TO FIND, A PERFECT FIT!!!
BUT TO BE REAL, NOTHING IN LIFE, WILL EVER BE THAT "REAL".....

THE BEST WE CAN DO, IS TO COME CLOSE TO EACH OTHERS "DREAMS" !!

Yall know me pretty well by now and know some of the hell I have lived,
but through it all I knew there was someone out there for me , if you
want to lable it soulmate then by all means do so.Red is right even when
you see them you still gotta reach out and grab em, I know I did. Peace
and smiles yall!!

I found my soulmate, but he died, so I don't know if I will ever find
someone like him, but will find someone who cares and loves me for who
Im, and can also be a good friend,,,