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Something and sometimes we just think of the things which are too sophisticated but does not know what we are really doing. I me, myself I am a thinker and seeker of things especially facts about human tendency and behavior which makes us even more categorized than others. I have never been in a relationship or friendship but have friends. What I want to say is that we should be knowing ourself because what we treat ourselves like we Treat others or our loved ones be calm be understanding be relaxed enjoy little moments make them bigger and be honest towards your partner never dich them nor let your glimpse with him/her go bad or wrong. And last but not least be a limit breaker in terms of your works and achievements.
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Tue 09/11/18 09:02 AM
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Shockingly few guys I have chatted with on these dating sites know themselves....never gave *any* thought to what their interests are..ot what their hobbies are...or what makes them *them*..
I've actually had some say "Well, I never gave that any thought.." They all seem to be cookie-cutter...stamped out en masse...all the same...  I have been a searcher, learner, inquirer since I was a kid.. Done quite a bit of introspection and know who I am and what I like and cannot live with/ will not allow in my life. |
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Shockingly few guys I have chatted with on these dating sites know themselves....never gave *any* thought to what their interests are..ot what their hobbies are...or what makes them *them*.. I've actually had some say "Well, I never gave that any thought.." They all seem to be cookie-cutter...stamped out en masse...all the same... I have been a searcher, learner, inquirer since I was a kid.. Done quite a bit of introspection and know who I am and what I like and cannot live with/ will not allow in my life. this 
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In my opinion, there are many people that don't really know themselves.
They "think" they do but when push comes to shove, their delusions of who they think they are, isn't who they actually are. You can't be honest with others if you can't be honest with yourself. |
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It takes curiosity and deep self analysis of one's thought patterns, heart patterns and emotional patterns to know oneself.
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By now if y'all don't know my interests, then there's no point in going any further. Raise your hand if you know at least 2 of my interests.
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Edited by
Argo
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Tue 09/11/18 11:50 AM
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Shockingly few guys I have chatted with on these dating sites know themselves....never gave *any* thought to what their interests are..ot what their hobbies are...or what makes them *them*.. I've actually had some say "Well, I never gave that any thought.." They all seem to be cookie-cutter...stamped out en masse...all the same... I have been a searcher, learner, inquirer since I was a kid.. Done quite a bit of introspection and know who I am and what I like and cannot live with/ will not allow in my life. this well, bully for the two of you... i'm sure there are absolutely no men on this planet capable of achieving such introspective grandeur as the two of you have.. #immacookiecutter edit: Pardon my bad manners, i was a lilbit riled up..  Welcome to Mingle, Adibill ...enjoy the camaraderie !!! lol |
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Edited by
Riverspirit1111
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Tue 09/11/18 11:38 AM
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Shockingly few guys I have chatted with on these dating sites know themselves....never gave *any* thought to what their interests are..ot what their hobbies are...or what makes them *them*.. I've actually had some say "Well, I never gave that any thought.." They all seem to be cookie-cutter...stamped out en masse...all the same... I have been a searcher, learner, inquirer since I was a kid.. Done quite a bit of introspection and know who I am and what I like and cannot live with/ will not allow in my life. this well, bully for the two of you... i'm sure there are absolutely no men on this planet capable of achieving such introspective grandeur as the two of you have.. #immacookiecutter Well that sucks... here I was going to totally disagree and you're saying it's true   Hiya Argo  OT... Welcome to Mingle |
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#iamnotacookiecutter
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Hiya Argo Hi River  heard any good *introspective blonde* jokes lately ??? hahahaha |
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Hiya Argo Hi River heard any good *introspective blonde* jokes lately ??? hahahaha Hahaha, no not lately! I'll let you know if I do though 
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Hwllo Adibill1995
Welcome to Mingle2 Good introduction and best wishes
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One part of knowing yourself better, is looking at the feedback you get from people surrounding you, methinks.
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Something and sometimes we just think of the things which are too sophisticated but does not know what we are really doing. I me, myself I am a thinker and seeker of things especially facts about human tendency and behavior which makes us even more categorized than others. I have never been in a relationship or friendship but have friends. What I want to say is that we should be knowing ourself because what we treat ourselves like we Treat others or our loved ones be calm be understanding be relaxed enjoy little moments make them bigger and be honest towards your partner never dich them nor let your glimpse with him/her go bad or wrong. And last but not least be a limit breaker in terms of your works and achievements. Welcome to Mingle Adibill1995 I really like what you said, especially what I highlighted. I very much agree. A lot of people say "treat others like you want to be treated" but if we aren't good to ourselves and treat our self good, then we won't be treating others good either. Even if we think we are. Knowing your self and taking responsibility for who you are and what you do is really the key and a good thing. |
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Something and sometimes we just think of the things which are too sophisticated but does not know what we are really doing. I me, myself I am a thinker and seeker of things especially facts about human tendency and behavior which makes us even more categorized than others. I have never been in a relationship or friendship but have friends. What I want to say is that we should be knowing ourself because what we treat ourselves like we Treat others or our loved ones be calm be understanding be relaxed enjoy little moments make them bigger and be honest towards your partner never dich them nor let your glimpse with him/her go bad or wrong. And last but not least be a limit breaker in terms of your works and achievements. Get about 10 years or so of marriage under your belt then write another " the way it should be" message Lol...Ahh..greenhorns..life is wonderful...until you leave the toilet seat up one too many times |
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Best of luck.
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the problem is there are wayy too many bots on this site and not enough real people.. for example i live in pennsylvania yet nobody ever logs on from PA its always other east coast states
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the problem is there are wayy too many bots on this site and not enough real people.. for example i live in pennsylvania yet nobody ever logs on from PA its always other east coast states There are a lot of bots but... Could be...you're messaging random women and they aren't responding because they don't know you..  That's why (some) people post on the forums, to hopefully get to know each other so it's not so awkward if we talk privately. 
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the problem is there are wayy too many bots on this site and not enough real people.. for example i live in pennsylvania yet nobody ever logs on from PA its always other east coast states I agree.. There are no huys in my age range within 100 milesd of me that have been online and active ~recently~. I have pages and pages of guys show up in my search, only to click on their profilre, and each and every one ..."Last seen over a month ago".... There may be 2-3 that *are* active...but they are not my types. It's sad... |
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