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When exercised sex Marriage becomes meaningless Therefore, it is haraam in all religions As taught in the teachings of Islam...
And this leads to the disintegration of the family |
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In my country, folks arent legally required to marry at all.
Family, is what you want it to be. Definition is no longer as limited. Family can be a circle of very close friends who choose to share their struggles, and triumphs with each other. I dont think its been disintegrated but you can make one youre happy with. |
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But the family is the society and it is the unity and the state High rate of divorce resulting from disrespect.The family remains a family friendly friendship
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I'm not clear on your post. It sounds like you are saying sex is bad, as it disintegrates the family unit. Yet if you don't have sex, you won't have a family unit.
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But the family is the society and it is the unity and the state High rate of divorce resulting from disrespect.The family remains a family friendly friendship |
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But the family is the society and it is the unity and the state High rate of divorce resulting from disrespect.The family remains a family friendly friendship So you are saying there is no disrespect in an Islamic Marriage? Because if even hope to state that to be true, I would ask you what your definition of the words marriage, respect, family unit actually are. What are your definitions of the words and how.do they differ from mine? |
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Edited by
msharmony
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Mon 05/06/19 01:44 AM
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When exercised sex Marriage becomes meaningless Therefore, it is haraam in all religions As taught in the teachings of Islam... And this leads to the disintegration of the family I had to look up haraam, which means forbidden. Are you saying that withholding sex in marriage is forbidden and makes marriage pointless? In Christianity, it is also forbidden to withhold sex in a Christian marriage. However, the guidelines of both husband and wife are many fold and it becomes meaningless if the spouses are not following the entire thing in which husband and wife cherish each other and in which case withholding would not be desired. In Christianity, it is proscribed that each man and each woman have their own spouse to avoid being consumed in lust. But it is not forbidden to decide not to have sex. The original design in The Bible was not marriage, but man and woman as one creating a family, where they are helpmates to each other. Marriage then, was taken to be following the original design of family and the instruction for living IF one is going to have sex. The Bible, or as Islam may call it, "The Book", says also that it is best, even moreso than marrying, to completely abstain. |
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What I mean is to be loyal to your wife.
You should have sex with your husband or wife and not all the girls. Sex is intrinsic in the marital relationship, I personally can only practice sex with my wife |
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When exercised sex Marriage becomes meaningless Therefore, it is haraam in all religions As taught in the teachings of Islam... And this leads to the disintegration of the family I had to look up haraam, which means forbidden. Are you saying that withholding sex in marriage is forbidden and makes marriage pointless? In Christianity, it is also forbidden to withhold sex in a Christian marriage. However, the guidelines of both husband and wife are many fold and it becomes meaningless if the spouses are not following the entire thing in which husband and wife cherish each other and in which case withholding would not be desired. In Christianity, it is proscribed that each man and each woman have their own spouse to avoid being consumed in lust. But it is not forbidden to decide not to have sex. The original design in The Bible was not marriage, but man and woman as one creating a family, where they are helpmates to each other. Marriage then, was taken to be following the original design of family and the instruction for living IF one is going to have sex. The Bible, or as Islam may call it, "The Book", says also that it is best, even moreso than marrying, to completely abstain. We all love sex ,But we must apply the teachings of religion God says in the Bible the Koran sorat Al-Israe aya 32"لا تقربوا الزنا انه كان فاحشه وساء سبيلا "it means 'And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse ,Indeed ,it is ever an immorality and is evil as way' This is to give great value to women,This divine message is addressed to both women and men. With respect to all opinions |
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But the family is the society and it is the unity and the state High rate of divorce resulting from disrespect.The family remains a family friendly friendship So you are saying there is no disrespect in an Islamic Marriage? Because if even hope to state that to be true, I would ask you what your definition of the words marriage, respect, family unit actually are. What are your definitions of the words and how.do they differ from mine? Marriage is to be faithful and faithful Islam calls for tolerance Among all people and husband and wife. .. It is forbidden to have sex with another woman other than your wife Well women are like men in judgment |
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I have a problem with the word "disintegration". Who's gonna judge, if anyone is integrated or disintegrated? In or out? Disintegration means, excluded from a group of people. Without forgiveness, without mercy, and without brotherly love?
Thanks be to God, for Judgement Day is up to Jesus Christ. He knows the truth about us. In Him is forgiveness, mercy and love. |
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