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| Topic: ...you'd think the problem is me... | |
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Edited by
asoftcorenerd1984
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Fri 05/24/19 09:17 PM
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Here i am again on another dating site that clearly wont yield one reply, must less organically started by her.
I still hope to find someone on one of these sites but perhaps I should try different avenue such as these forms by building chemistry with common people in a more indirect approach so here I go... I been ghosted by a number of women (only chatted not dated) Who professed a strong interest and passion in me. At first they would make all kinds of time talking to me for hours. This sometimes but lasts for either a few hours few days few weeks or sometimes months. Regardless this will all end the same, talking to me less and less In many cases I have concluded that I was the other guy in their flailing relationship, but there are a few cases I think that they literally were not dating anyone else and they were just using me as someone to talk to to pass time. This among many other issues is why I've been single for the last decade only having one girlfriend which only lasted a year and a half. It seems like the common denominator is me however as I go on and I don't mean to sound narcissistic I'm starting to think it's not (completely) me it's the pool of people I'm surrounded by is the way Society is Remember we're dealing with people who are still single beyond the age of 25 (usually there's a reason - failed relationships/friendship can damage people) I'm not really doing too much wrong except that I may be misjudging how to maximize my advantages because I'm so honest to play games. Are there any women out there who are or knew someone who did this did not date anyone else but talk to other guys just to talk to them had no intention of meeting them but may Promises of wanting to meet him maybe just to keep the guy talking to him if so why is this the case? |
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Bro, no I don't agree that you are the problem, I have experienced the same chatting for hour days on end with it ending when they ask for money or gift cards and the continued guilt they attempt to pay on you when you say no. I doubt there actually any real woman seeking relationships on here..... Each and everyone a gold digger
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Yeah, you just gotta weed out the game players and time waste, hard to do on here I know, but I guess being patient is the answer, bless, I hope so anyhow...
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Edited by
Tom4Uhere
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Sat 05/25/19 02:10 AM
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Here i am again on another dating site that clearly wont yield one reply, must less organically started by her. I still hope to find someone on one of these sites but perhaps I should try different avenue such as these forms by building chemistry with common people in a more indirect approach so here I go... I been ghosted by a number of women (only chatted not dated) Who professed a strong interest and passion in me. At first they would make all kinds of time talking to me for hours. This sometimes but lasts for either a few hours few days few weeks or sometimes months. Regardless this will all end the same, talking to me less and less In many cases I have concluded that I was the other guy in their flailing relationship, but there are a few cases I think that they literally were not dating anyone else and they were just using me as someone to talk to to pass time. This among many other issues is why I've been single for the last decade only having one girlfriend which only lasted a year and a half. It seems like the common denominator is me however as I go on and I don't mean to sound narcissistic I'm starting to think it's not (completely) me it's the pool of people I'm surrounded by is the way Society is Remember we're dealing with people who are still single beyond the age of 25 (usually there's a reason - failed relationships/friendship can damage people) I'm not really doing too much wrong except that I may be misjudging how to maximize my advantages because I'm so honest to play games. Are there any women out there who are or knew someone who did this did not date anyone else but talk to other guys just to talk to them had no intention of meeting them but may Promises of wanting to meet him maybe just to keep the guy talking to him if so why is this the case? Okay? Ya gotta remember that these dating sites are merely tools. Like any tool, there is a rhythm to optimal performance. I found the woman I am currently with thru M2. Her profile alone was not what put us together. I had to change my expectations and accept her as she is before anything happened. Our first meet at McDonalds was a no show on her part but I was open and accepted her anyway on the second meet. Per profile, she was not a choice but face to face, we hit it off. We hit it off because I had no expectations she needed to 'fit' for me to 'see' her as the person she actually is. |
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Hi guys...In my opinion, it all depends what age group are you into.
With an age difference bigger than 10/12 years, you're asking for trouble. There could be exceptions, obviously, but in general, no. Too many guys like to go after the young ones, regardless of their own age. And there is no reason really for a younger woman to feel attracted by a guy 25, 30 years older. Other than financial considerations, of course. We all have heard of the older guys ditching their spouses for that "trophy wife". What I'm trying to say is that at certain age, you have to stay within your age group to avoid these "scam artists". And this is true for both sexes: I'm sick and tired of looking at women's profiles, in their early or middle 60's, to find out they want a guy from his 40's or 50's. I can understand why they do it, but those guys are chasing the younger women...why they would go for an older woman..??? Eventually, everything will come down to $$$$... And last...but not least: why do you guys keep on chatting and chatting...??? After a few messages back and forth, the way to go is the phone...and if things go well, move to a face to face meeting. The longer it takes to meet in person, the lesser the chances that that will happen. Cheers. |
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Yeah, you just gotta weed out the game players and time waste, hard to do on here I know, but I guess being patient is the answer, bless, I hope so anyhow... 
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Weed’em and reap
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...you'd think the problem is me... I just had to drop by to say your Title gives me the giggles ;-) |
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Edited by
Mike6615
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Sun 05/26/19 03:58 PM
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No, the problem is not him. It's the price of gold--about $1284 an ounce now. I live just outside the Superstition Mountains, where I searched for The Lost Dutchman's Mine for about 26 years (no, I didn't find it). So I'm a former gold digger myself!
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asoftcore, from what you've written, it seems that you've only talked online or phone and never met anyone in person? I think it is common for men and women to talk with several different people at the same time. You have to be realistic. Are you talking with someone hundreds or thousands of miles away?
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