hello everyone my name is Brent it's my first night on my first night here at the house by myself in a long time freshly out of a long-term long-term committed relationship and was pointed in this direction so here I am

what does the blue check by their names or the green star by your name mean? and what is up with all these people in the first three girls that messaged me as soon as you say something to them they send you a website to go to and it's pornographic website? I'm on a dating site looking for either long-term or a one-night stand or whatever it is im looking for I'm most surely looking for the real thing not a computer screen

Welcome to Mingle...

I suggest you read the new member starter guide...and set filters to ward off unwanted contacts...

No need to go offsite to communicate with anyone...messaging is free here...if they insist, then they are fake and only want personal information like your email address and phone number...

good luck

Welcome to Mingle, Brent.

Welcome to the asylum known as mingle.

I wish you the best of luck here.

Sounds like you're on the app. The check and star are a visual indicator of how much a persons profile is filled out.

I think the check is at least 30% and the star is at least 70% comllete.

Good luck and be careful

hi can I come her

Also, like the gentleman said,I am new here. I am 3 weeks only and nobody answer my message. Only fake profiles answer me immediately. I am from Puerto Rico. The only ones available are females outside of my country. The females of my country, all of them are log out for months. If possible to work a relation ship with other female outside of my country.

Just joined today. Looking for someone to talk with. Community to hang out with, oh hell, I don't know, Just getting out of the rut I've been in for a while.

So Hello, I'm Jennifer, nice to meet you all.

Welcome to the asylum known as mingle.

I wish you the best of luck here.

Just drop it in 4 wheel drive and mash on it.

Woman driver, you never know what you will get. Bawhahahaha.

Hi Jennie, it's best to start your own thread, best of luck anyhowz..

Yup be careful the dating side is 80% cam girls, good luck. I've given up after 3 days...lol
The forum is mostly American and I'm on the other side of the world.
Will rather meet woman at pubs and events.

80% cam girls? Really? I've never seen any in the years I've been here
Bear in mind women are not shown women, unless they want a woman of course.

They ask you to add them on Google Hangouts then send you picture of them naked. Then they ask you to go to their site where they do their camming.
You might have not seen it cause they mostly after men :)
These are girls between the ages of 21 and 30 mostly.

As I said: Bear in mind women are not shown women...
On a free site you always have lots of things you're not looking for, including men looking for sex, many of whom are in a marriage. No point whinging about that. Accept it, ignore, and move on. Lots can be gained here by setting up good email perimeters. (Distance, age and so on).
That's why I stay away from free dating sites.
Mingle is different, I'm here for the forums. I'm thousands of kilometers away from the US so there's no point. I look for love on Dutch dating sites.
But the forums are good, lots of nice people here :)

You 100% correct it is what it is. Happy to just use this site as a forum chat
Not desperate to date right now, will focus on that part more when I move to Australia in December..