Catch I took care of your stutter, I mean repeat posts lmao

i was married to a black man for 13 years but when i got back into dating white guy would come up to me before a black guy it has been like that all my life,

Its always the opposite for me... black guys approach me more. Black guys or men over 40... I don't care about skin color, so its never an issue, but I do kinda wonder sometimes why white men under 40 don't normally say much to me...lol. I have dated mostly white men, but not only. It is rare for me to see a black man I find attractive though, simply b/c i have a thing for blonde hair and blue eyes...

lol have have a thing for black hair and green eyes blue is alright too........lol

Light eyes are my main thing... Hell if I see a black guy with naturally light eyes I find it rather beautiful, b/c its so rare.

HAHA, I have dark hair and green eyes...lol, too bad we're not lesbians.

I have dated mainly black men......but i have dated other races too..it doesnt matter as long as they treat you well .....but anyway what i was gonna say is that one of my boyfriends use to get called a "sell out" because he dated mostly white women or women of "lighter" color....and the black women would get mad that us white women were "taking" their men....Well i wasnt "taking" anything!!! He chose to be with me because we were good together!!! so maybe this is happening to you (the OP) just in reverse!! Good luck! Who cares what others think?? They just jealous gurl!!!

I don't think race is important at all! I have always told my boys to date the one who treats them well.
My best friend has a daughter who is bi-racial, talk about a beautful girl. The funny thing is my boys had no clue, they always thought she just had a nice tan Why? I have told my boys that colour is not important!!

Do what you want and date who treats you well. If you prefer white men, then date white men. There are so many flavors out there, why just stick to one?

thanks for all the good input, thats just what my sister says, im from trinadad and there thats all you see is white n black couples.

hehe

I like a little vanilla every now and then myself hehe

Chocolate+vanilla

Isn't that a twist cone?

I'm going to tell you why. I for one come from san fran where everyone dates everyone so this is how i believe. To see color as Preferrence is obserd. You should judge by the person heart, of course you need a little stimulation! lol but you should never limit your love to people. I'm in school for Psychology( my love lol)and was good at it from the start. I can read between the lines pretty good. There are reason for the whole " i love white people" thing (not racise, my step dad is white and my sister is half white)
The media or tv portrays them as like godly figures that do no wrong. All the biblical movies are stared with white's which would be incorrect judging that the region is middle eastern,all the hero's are white, war stories are of only white, and ect.. these thing are not done on purpose because the person who makes them are white, so thats what they see or as you can say thats there views. To be a black man in america is hard cuz of ower sterotypes. So to say you dont dates us and be black is like joining that side of "black man is bad" or whatever the issue is. Second i see that you have "blond" hair! are you not proud of being black?umm these things say alot about you. I know as "African Americans" were completely lost seeing that the plantations tripped us from ower roots so that we couldn't rebel against them.White people didn't do this cuz they didn't like us! no no they were being smart and having someone else do the work for them. So anyone thats races has fallen for the controll they used to controll there slaves, Africans sold slaves and owned some as well. Point is know who you are and do the "real history". Willy Lynch is a start. Have a good day

I say, if you find someone who can treat you the way you desrve to be treated, and that makes you feel the way you want to feel, then black, white, latino, asian makes no difference at all.

Hell...I am not limiting myself to only Caucasian women. To do that would be silly because there just very well may be a true love for me that isn't a white woman.

I don't see anything wrong with it.

I've been seeing a black woman since January.

She has also had a preference for dating white men.

I wasn't looking specifically for a black woman to have a relationship with, but something clicked and we're very happy it did.

Welcome and goodluck

I'm a woman who apparently only marries assholes so we all have our quirks.good luck to you.

HEY ME TOO !!!!!