Topic: Can someone explain?
lovesflowerstoo's photo
Tue 12/18/07 08:58 AM
Okay...I know I'm not stupid but where in the world do you see your "mutal matches" when it says you have a new one? How does anyone know that they are? I don't see where you wink, kiss, or whatever it is to get their attention execpt for emailing...is that what I need to do? Then, who really makes the first move? Me or you?

kojack's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:00 AM
goto search then set what you want for distance, etc. hiit mutual match and go from there.

eskimo_nell's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:00 AM
dunno i'm confused about that?grumble grumble

lovesflowerstoo's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:02 AM
Thank goodness I'm not the lone ranger out here...thanks for the reply...

Amalie's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:03 AM
i just email them.....I am just straight forward i guess!

no photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:04 AM
go to search and then below it there is diffrent options go to mutal matches...

cajunwhitetiger's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:20 AM
lately i just let the ladies make the first move. dont know why either lol
glasses glasses

no photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:22 AM
I think it means both of you have indicated interest. From there I think you have to take control.

mgilligan's photo
Tue 12/18/07 10:49 AM
Mutual match is a jsut a way to let you know that someone you found "interesting" also found you interesting. As far as making a move you can wait and see if they will do it or you can take the initiative yourself. This site doesn't do either for you. However its nice to note that if you you see them as a mutual match then they see you so simple email saying "Hey I saw we are both matches and wanted to say hi" is usually enough for starters. Hope that helps

no photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:42 PM
alaways you.

It may be lie.

Regards
S.H.Durai (From India)

Jeepinfool's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:45 PM
yes, love when you get a mutual match it is under the orange heading strip that says mutual matches,it means that you and that person have checked out each other in the "find mutual matches", and so you or him need to make the next move

76c3heater's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:52 PM
I personaly don't like the way that works, so I avoid that whole thing bigsmile

Dragoness's photo
Tue 12/18/07 09:57 PM

Okay...I know I'm not stupid but where in the world do you see your "mutal matches" when it says you have a new one? How does anyone know that they are? I don't see where you wink, kiss, or whatever it is to get their attention execpt for emailing...is that what I need to do? Then, who really makes the first move? Me or you?


You go into mutual match and view profiles, you check, yes, no or maybe. Men go into mutual match and do the same thing. If both of you check yes or maybe the person will show up in your mutual match section of your account page. You will get emails saying someone want to meet you, this means someone checked yes or maybe to your profile. But unless you both check yes or maybe to each other you will never know who it is, it is anonymous. Hope that helps.

SMsixx's photo
Wed 12/19/07 02:51 AM

I personaly don't like the way that works, so I avoid that whole thing bigsmile


Agreed...

no photo
Wed 12/19/07 03:09 AM
Im mnot making anything...............they must make the first move or I will have to kill themindifferent noway laugh

no photo
Wed 12/19/07 03:10 AM
ok Im already bored with this game......when do I get ot kill them??huh

Jtevans's photo
Wed 12/19/07 03:13 AM

ok Im already bored with this game......when do I get ot kill them??huh




pushover!:tongue: laugh laugh

no photo
Wed 12/19/07 07:16 AM
I agree,The best men make the first move....:smile: