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Topic: marriage or live in relation?
Haseeb125 Joined Mon 03/30/20 Posts: 3	Sun 04/19/20 06:11 PM
i think live in relation

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21249	Mon 04/20/20 01:19 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose.

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Mon 04/20/20 03:25 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose. Yep... And it makes it easier for women to do exactly the same thing.

Rahul Joined Fri 12/28/18 Posts: 22	Mon 04/20/20 03:35 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose. Lolzzz 🤣

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Mon 04/20/20 03:46 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose. Yep... And it makes it easier for women to do exactly the same thing. Indeed, hihi. All the more reason to not want that type of relationship. Too based on nothing for me. I can't do the based-on-nothing thing. I'm an "all in" woman, so I want a guy like that too.

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Mon 04/20/20 03:48 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose. Yep... And it makes it easier for women to do exactly the same thing. Indeed, hihi. All the more reason to not want that type of relationship. Too based on nothing for me. I can't do the based-on-nothing thing. I'm an "all in" woman, so I want a guy like that too. As do I!

Rahul Joined Fri 12/28/18 Posts: 22	Mon 04/20/20 03:49 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose. Yep... And it makes it easier for women to do exactly the same thing. Indeed, hihi. All the more reason to not want that type of relationship. Too based on nothing for me. I can't do the based-on-nothing thing. I'm an "all in" woman, so I want a guy like that too. What do u mean "All in" can u elaborate that plz

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Mon 04/20/20 05:11 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose. Yep... And it makes it easier for women to do exactly the same thing. Indeed, hihi. All the more reason to not want that type of relationship. Too based on nothing for me. I can't do the based-on-nothing thing. I'm an "all in" woman, so I want a guy like that too. What do u mean "All in" can u elaborate that plz I mean, going for a relationship and a partner 100%. No doubts, no holding back.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Mon 04/20/20 05:12 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Mon 04/20/20 05:13 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose. Yep... And it makes it easier for women to do exactly the same thing. Indeed, hihi. All the more reason to not want that type of relationship. Too based on nothing for me. I can't do the based-on-nothing thing. I'm an "all in" woman, so I want a guy like that too. As do I! I know, hihi. When it comes to these matters we're very much alike. (That's also why I quoted you in it and not just Rock's post :) )

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Mon 04/20/20 05:22 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose. Yep... And it makes it easier for women to do exactly the same thing. Indeed, hihi. All the more reason to not want that type of relationship. Too based on nothing for me. I can't do the based-on-nothing thing. I'm an "all in" woman, so I want a guy like that too. As do I! I know, hihi. When it comes to these matters we're very much alike. (That's also why I quoted you in it and not just Rock's post :) ) Thanks, and I knew you knew, hihi I just wanted to be sure everyone else knew too, haha. :)

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Mon 04/20/20 05:33 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose. Yep... And it makes it easier for women to do exactly the same thing. Indeed, hihi. All the more reason to not want that type of relationship. Too based on nothing for me. I can't do the based-on-nothing thing. I'm an "all in" woman, so I want a guy like that too. As do I! I know, hihi. When it comes to these matters we're very much alike. (That's also why I quoted you in it and not just Rock's post :) ) Thanks, and I knew you knew, hihi I just wanted to be sure everyone else knew too, haha. :) Hahahahahaha, it should suffice to say "We're Taurus!!!" lol. I think most Tauruses want a solid commitment. We're also represented in Tarot by Hierophant, which stands for commitment among other things. Funny enough it's also the card I like least, hihi. Because there's this priest. Grrrrrrrrrrr. Lol. Fortunately I have a few Tarot decks with more acceptable Hierophant cards :p I digress. Commitment it is, and marriage, I'm up for that too

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Mon 04/20/20 06:19 AM
Live in, makes it so much easier to just tell her to GTFO, if she's no longer serving a useful purpose. Yep... And it makes it easier for women to do exactly the same thing. Indeed, hihi. All the more reason to not want that type of relationship. Too based on nothing for me. I can't do the based-on-nothing thing. I'm an "all in" woman, so I want a guy like that too. As do I! I know, hihi. When it comes to these matters we're very much alike. (That's also why I quoted you in it and not just Rock's post :) ) Thanks, and I knew you knew, hihi I just wanted to be sure everyone else knew too, haha. :) Hahahahahaha, it should suffice to say "We're Taurus!!!" lol. I think most Tauruses want a solid commitment. We're also represented in Tarot by Hierophant, which stands for commitment among other things. Funny enough it's also the card I like least, hihi. Because there's this priest. Grrrrrrrrrrr. Lol. Fortunately I have a few Tarot decks with more acceptable Hierophant cards :p I digress. Commitment it is, and marriage, I'm up for that too Hahaha, the Hierophant is my least favorite too! Perhaps I have commitment issues, even though that is what my higher self and heart truly desires. Exploring what that meant in the past and healing that part of me, along with changing how I see commitment will most definitely help. I want commitment, and marriage... the alternative does not work for me.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21249	Mon 04/20/20 06:38 AM
I have no issue with commitment. I just see it as foolish, for anyone to commit to someone they do not know extremely well.

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1709	Mon 04/20/20 06:40 AM
Both are way to dangerous; a weekend guest is ideal!!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Mon 04/20/20 06:43 AM
I have no issue with commitment. I just see it as foolish, for anyone to commit to someone they do not know extremely well. Yes, it can lead to pain. That's why I'm quite selective with whom I date, hihi. If that results in few dates, I'm fine with that too.

justaokguy Joined Tue 06/23/09 Posts: 170	Mon 04/20/20 07:58 AM
Do to financial rules and regulations alot of older people can't marry even if they would want to.

cajunman59 Joined Sun 01/10/10 Posts: 318	Mon 04/20/20 08:59 AM
Had both, same results. Don't keep her properly entertained and the poop hits the fan. She never seems to know exactly what that entails IDK The result is her gaining weight and becoming this major drama queen; there's the door, hun. I'll stick with the occasional weekender.

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Mon 04/20/20 09:18 AM
Do to financial rules and regulations alot of older people can't marry even if they would want to. That tends to be true for those who collect social security, I believe the US still goes according to combined income if you're married? If so, that would mean a loss in income when you get married.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Mon 04/20/20 09:34 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Mon 04/20/20 09:36 AM
Do to financial rules and regulations alot of older people can't marry even if they would want to. That tends to be true for those who collect social security, I believe the US still goes according to combined income if you're married? If so, that would mean a loss in income when you get married. It's similar over here. If I was to move in with a man who had normal pay I'd lose my benefit. For older people with '67+ yrs benefit' it's different. Then you don't get 2 full benefits, but more than enough to make a living. After all, you then don't have to pay rent for 2 houses etc. either.

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Mon 04/20/20 09:45 AM
Do to financial rules and regulations alot of older people can't marry even if they would want to. That tends to be true for those who collect social security, I believe the US still goes according to combined income if you're married? If so, that would mean a loss in income when you get married. It's similar over here. If I was to move in with a man who had normal pay I'd lose my benefit. For older people with '67+ yrs benefit' it's different. Then you don't get 2 full benefits, but more than enough to make a living. After all, you then don't have to pay rent for 2 houses etc. either. Ah good point about housing expenses. I think it pretty much balances out fairly well and you'd still have enough to live off of. Plus the benefit of being married is if something happens to your spouse, you're taken care of. Not so if you're just living together. I guess where there's a will, there's a way. I'd still rather be married with less income, than to be living together to have more income.