It's possible...anything is possible - but the reality is, there's a more likely chance that a kid would be in the way, and complicate things more than if the child wasn't there. I see a lot of women's profiles that say "my kids come first" (which should be the case) but that may as well say " any dude that dates me will always be, at the very best, 2nd banana".

I think it's also equally dependent on the dude and the child. I went out with a woman that I was really into, but one of her kids was a turd. Knowing it was a package deal, I was forced to walk away. I think complicated scenarios like that will come up, so it's best to take to your time getting to know someone. Chemistry might be there, but the time will allow you to know what position the dude will take

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Is it possible to find a partner here who will love you and your child? Has anybody? I've only been here for more than a week and I say that we could have the nicest introductory talk and then when they learn I have a daughter the conversation just dies a sudden death lol

here i the netherlands i havent met any men that mind me having 5 kids at all.
its no problem. i am the one that is picky. because I have children and wouldnt want to bring the wrong person around them

it is entirely possible. Single fathers suffer the same responses from prospective girlfriends/wives, but it is much harder for a woman to find a good man. You are correct in telling your date about your children. Weed out the "guys" from the men before you waste time and emotion on them. Be proud of your children and yourself. A good man will see the truth for what it is, welcome it, and gravitate toward it. Children are NOT baggage. Other issues are and we all have baggage.

"Of course,most of us men love children. I would happily take on a child if I was in a serious relationship with her mum. If love it x"

First of all - speak for yourself. We don't love children, we tolerate them - and that's even if we want to do that. You can say that most men love their OWN children, but not somebody else's. If you give any man a choice of the same woman with someone else's kids or childless, most will go with the childless. Who the hell are you trying to fool?

Secondly, children ARE baggage. Not a nice thing to say, but truth isn't always clean. Single women with children are a consequence of something - and that part alone is baggage, not to mention that now you hafta jive with more than one personality if it goes beyond one or two dates.

The point you got right is, we all have baggage. Dating in your mid thirties and beyond is figuring out if you're gonna deal with the potential partner's baggage

Is it possible to find a partner here who will love you and your child? Has anybody? I've only been here for more than a week and I say that we could have the nicest introductory talk and then when they learn I have a daughter the conversation just dies a sudden death lol