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Topic: The laws of attraction
Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 02/23/21 07:15 AM
I'm not attracted to beautiful looking women.
I'm a realist and like a woman who is naturally beautiful despite her flaws.
Make up and hairstyle repulses me most of the time.

Shower fresh is more appealing to me than date prep fresh.
I also don't care for dyed hair or fancy dress.
I'd rather smell a clean woman than a perfumed one.

At my age, the human body has defects.
I prefer women who look their age.
A lil 'let go' on muscle tone.
Natural posture, some wrinkling, sagging boobs and a bit of grey hair.

If a woman looks too young for her age, either naturally or artificially, it is difficult for me to relate in a loving manner.

Life can be pretty hard on the human body and a woman who looks too good is a contradiction to nature.
Either it is fake or that woman has had everything done for her and has been isolated from the stresses of real world experiences.

I'm also not attracted to model skinny.
At my age, women naturally have a bit of chub.
Chances are good she helped raise her children.
That usually leaves a physical stamp on her body.

no photo
Tue 02/23/21 12:01 PM
I'm not sure that some of you got the point. We all have preferences WHATEVER they might be. Obviously, whatever we find attractive is as diverse as the billions of people on this planet.

I was taking about someone that is in "your wheelhouse" for want of a better expression. And yet you are somehow left cold.

Rock's photo
Tue 02/23/21 12:12 PM
Pffffft...

I'm the reason life is stone cold.


Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 02/23/21 01:31 PM
I was taking about someone that is in "your wheelhouse" for want of a better expression. And yet you are somehow left cold.

If ya think about it, that is related to preferences.

I encounter many beautiful women which I do not find attractive at all and can't imagine why others do?
I encounter common looking women which I find very appealing yet most people would not give a second glance.

I've encountered women who look good at first yet I lose interest in them quickly.
I've also encountered women who I found uninteresting then slowly I find them enticing.

It all has to do with personal preference.
It also has to do with expectations and assumptions.

Some women remind me of women I knew and my expectations are biased because of my past experiences with that other woman.
If the past experiences were bad, it reflects on the how I accept or reject them.

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 02/23/21 03:48 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Tue 02/23/21 04:07 PM
Most Men are Visual humans. Doesn't matter what Age

they are. Most not All.

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