Topic: Doesn't anyone talk anymore
Justme's photo
Wed 11/17/21 11:33 AM
Do you ever send a message and get ignored?
Just a simple courtesy reply would be something.

 Ꮢ Ꭷ Ᏸ ɨ Ꮑ's photo
Wed 11/17/21 12:10 PM
Yes i got several times in starting when i was new, slowly got experience in chatting site's.
Now have the positive vibes, as the person maybe not interested or having a bad mood as lot spammer messages to keep going on or either we failed to approach our message in proper way.. not just hi or hello need some more to addon in message intros:slight_smile:

All The Best :thumbsup:

Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 11/17/21 01:00 PM
You might hear a few times, that 'no answer is the answer'.

I personally don't agree with this, because a simple 'I am not interested in you. Please leave me alone' does not take long.

pumpilicious 💕's photo
Wed 11/17/21 02:29 PM
Um, ( in my case) unfortunately in responding it leads them on more and I've ended up with hostility. To the point I've had to block.

I dont answer many, sorry if its rude but I can't stand the anger anymore


Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 11/17/21 02:33 PM

Um, ( in my case) unfortunately in responding it leads them on more and I've ended up with hostility. To the point I've had to block.

I dont answer many, sorry if its rude but I can't stand the anger anymore




If things get nasty, block and report are the only options.

But nobody has the right, to cause anger to a nice and sweet gal anyway :cry:

pumpilicious 💕's photo
Wed 11/17/21 02:37 PM
I do, but still...someone told me to die the other day, that stung a bit.

Ty for concern flowers

maybwecan's photo
Wed 11/17/21 03:50 PM

I do, but still...someone told me to die the other day, that stung a bit.

Ty for concern flowers


sigh...unfortunately that probably will not be your last encounter with such a jerk/a---hole...proof that some survive the genepool screening...however, I sense you will bounce and carry on


take care flowers

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 11/17/21 04:19 PM

Do you ever send a message and get ignored?
Just a simple courtesy reply would be something.


A simple courtesy would be not complaining in public because someone who doesn't know you declined to respond to you.



Ava Adore's photo
Wed 11/17/21 05:09 PM
I reply to all messages. If anyone starts asking weird things, or are just plain rude, I'll let them know.

pumpilicious 💕's photo
Wed 11/17/21 07:18 PM


I do, but still...someone told me to die the other day, that stung a bit.

Ty for concern flowers


sigh...unfortunately that probably will not be your last encounter with such a jerk/a---hole...proof that some survive the genepool screening...however, I sense you will bounce and carry on


take care flowers

Sure you're right...
Thank you, you also! flowers

Slim gym 's photo
Wed 11/17/21 08:00 PM
who has the audacity to tell ya things like that .... .... what a nerve .. and totally ignorant ..... Only option is to report and block ... You did the right thing !!!

Jodie's photo
Thu 11/18/21 09:02 AM
It’d be nice to chat, n sometimes you can..until they ask for funds in some manner

Larsi666 😽's photo
Thu 11/18/21 09:46 AM

I do, but still...someone told me to die the other day, that stung a bit.

Ty for concern flowers


Whoever said such a nasty thing, should be hit by a lightning noway

Rod b's photo
Thu 11/18/21 10:03 AM
Do you ever send a message and get ignored?
Just a simple courtesy reply would be something.

It's standard for most females not to reply and it's not confined to this app. I totally agree with you, a polite refusal is better than silence. however, look at this way, if the lady is too busy, or not interested, yet doesn't show the courtesy in replying, is that really a female you would wish to date? Her silence actually speaks volumes about her personality, best avoided