Topic: older women or younger?
Joseph's photo
Thu 08/11/22 06:52 PM
Me personally love older women and prefer their experience and maturity over the younger women!Any reason why I should be trying to find a woman who is younger?I mean, What can you offer that an older mature woman can't.?

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 08/11/22 07:45 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Thu 08/11/22 07:45 PM
Maturity does not always come with older age .

Get to know the person as an individual, then you know.

Joseph's photo
Thu 08/11/22 09:43 PM
Maturity does not always come with older age .

Get to know the person as an individual, then you know.

I do think that older women are more experienced and from my experience being with a woman 13 and a half years older than me,I experienced thing's never have I felt ever before!

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 08/11/22 10:08 PM
Sounds to me like another young guy who watches too much MILF porn and thinks "older women" will be an easy lay.

delightfulillusion's photo
Thu 08/11/22 10:57 PM

Sounds to me like another young guy who watches too much MILF porn and thinks "older women" will be an easy lay.


:clap:

Gia's photo
Thu 08/11/22 11:41 PM
You're the same age as me. Yes I looked.

I use to prefer older men for the same reason. Now I find them bossy and set in their ways if I go to old. A younger man is more care free and will let their hair down. Fun to chill with, but stay awhile you start noticing the age gap if it's to big (if it's long term). Personally I really vibe best with people my 37-55 depending on maturity. By 50 We're both done having kids and they've gone through similar life experiences and are more understanding. I can appreciate both. Older men have wisdom that I enjoy.

My mom's 77 year old friend was dating a 44 year old guy. I said go get it girl. Lol more power girl, just tell him to take an easy on her. He ended us bugging her for money a few days later. I think at a certain age, if you're intentions aren't good leave them alone.

Gia's photo
Thu 08/11/22 11:44 PM
You're both adults and if that's what both parties are into go for it.

MDJ's photo
Fri 08/12/22 07:38 AM
agree with That
older women are bold , confident, Experience, More organized and more sensible with rationale approach , high emotional stability all these traits can easily found in older women

lonely guy's photo
Fri 08/12/22 07:53 AM
age doesnt matter to me at all.

I am 100% about attitude. which means great personality, and clean speaking mouth, not polluted by this world, slightly old fashioned. but age, race, size isnt important to me.

however my expectations are almost unrealistic so I will probably be alone for a long time, but I will not socialize with women that like to speak appropriately as normal talk.

Randy 's photo
Fri 08/12/22 01:06 PM
I can give my experience as an older guy. I get 90% likes from 30 years old and I am looking for someone closer to my age.
Age difference matters to some people. It matters to me. I don't date more than five years older, or more than maybe fifteen years younger. For me, part of compatibility is about being at the same stage in life. Our kids are grown, we are settled into our careers or retired, we understand the same pop culture references from when we were in high school, etc. I'm at a point in my life where I would not want to date someone who still had kids living at home. That's my personal preference. For many other people age is not a factor in dating.

Randy 's photo
Fri 08/12/22 01:06 PM
Edited by Randy on Fri 08/12/22 01:07 PM


Gia's photo
Fri 08/12/22 03:30 PM

I can give my experience as an older guy. I get 90% likes from 30 years old and I am looking for someone closer to my age.
Age difference matters to some people. It matters to me. I don't date more than five years older, or more than maybe fifteen years younger. For me, part of compatibility is about being at the same stage in life. Our kids are grown, we are settled into our careers or retired, we understand the same pop culture references from when we were in high school, etc. I'm at a point in my life where I would not want to date someone who still had kids living at home. That's my personal preference. For many other people age is not a factor in dating.


I don't know where you live, but here prices of living are outrageous. it's not always feasible to live on your own. I shared with my adult children and they help with their autistic brother since my husband passed. Plus it takes a village and gives the younger two male role models they need.

I'm just saying think about the factors. You maybe shutting the door on an opportunity, because the person lives with their children. Here 1-2 bedroom apartment goes for $1800-$2100, my 4 bedroom house $3500 if I was to move into it today. Food is through the roof. Buying in the millions so that isn't an option either.

lonely guy's photo
Fri 08/12/22 03:45 PM


I can give my experience as an older guy. I get 90% likes from 30 years old and I am looking for someone closer to my age.
Age difference matters to some people. It matters to me. I don't date more than five years older, or more than maybe fifteen years younger. For me, part of compatibility is about being at the same stage in life. Our kids are grown, we are settled into our careers or retired, we understand the same pop culture references from when we were in high school, etc. I'm at a point in my life where I would not want to date someone who still had kids living at home. That's my personal preference. For many other people age is not a factor in dating.


I don't know where you live, but here prices of living are outrageous. it's not always feasible to live on your own. I shared with my adult children and they help with their autistic brother since my husband passed. Plus it takes a village and gives the younger two male role models they need.

I'm just saying think about the factors. You maybe shutting the door on an opportunity, because the person lives with their children. Here 1-2 bedroom apartment goes for $1800-$2100, my 4 bedroom house $3500 if I was to move into it today. Food is through the roof. Buying in the millions so that isn't an option either.


not all places are expensive, I have 3 homes all fully paid for, plus 2 tracts of rural land, I worked my butt off to pay for in my younger days, I know how to eat cheap, and I have play toy cars, like 4wd, and convertible camaro, plus economy, vans and trucks, and Harleys, nice tractor, then have older muscle cars. so as I have commented, attitude is all I look for, I am doing well financially, dont need anyones help, but mostly scammers here, & real ones dont appreciate a real old school BIKER, that is also a Gentleman.

no photo
Sat 08/13/22 04:12 AM

Me personally love older women and prefer their experience and maturity over the younger women!Any reason why I should be trying to find a woman who is younger?I mean, What can you offer that an older mature woman can't.?




Why not post your comments in an established 'Older vs Younger' post and go from there. waving

Vergi's photo
Sun 08/14/22 12:29 PM
I can give my experience as an older guy. I get 90% likes from 30 years old and I am looking for someone closer to my age.
Age difference matters to some people. It matters to me. I don't date more than five years older, or more than maybe fifteen years younger. For me, part of compatibility is about being at the same stage in life. Our kids are grown, we are settled into our careers or retired, we understand the same pop culture references from when we were in high school, etc. I'm at a point in my life where I would not want to date someone who still had kids living at home. That's my personal preference. For many other people age is not a factor in dating.

As an older woman I would have liked to have someone a little closer to my age, but unfortunately most are already established and done with having kids around. Unfortunately life doesn't always goes the way you planned, being a widow with 2 grandchildren having to live with me, doesn't make things easier. Responses I get on my profile are mostly younger guys and I often wonder if they even read my profile information.

Vergi's photo
Sun 08/14/22 12:35 PM
age doesnt matter to me at all.

I am 100% about attitude. which means great personality, and clean speaking mouth, not polluted by this world, slightly old fashioned. but age, race, size isnt important to me.

however my expectations are almost unrealistic so I will probably be alone for a long time, but I will not socialize with women that like to speak appropriately as normal talk.

I do get what you mean. In a way it's flattering that younger guys like me, but often they start talking about things I'm not comfortable with, when we don't even know each other. Maybe I am out of this world, but I'm not accustomed to this way of communicating.

lonely guy's photo
Sun 08/14/22 08:27 PM

I do get what you mean. In a way it's flattering that younger guys like me, but often they start talking about things I'm not comfortable with, when we don't even know each other. Maybe I am out of this world, but I'm not accustomed to this way of communicating.


well I work where I hear bad language everyday, men & women, so many think it is acceptable, but to hear lewdness, profanity is a major turn off, & I refuse to date anyone that talks improper, & yes I know things slip, but as a rule keep it clean. i dont want to hear any cussing, as well as lewdness.

then I expect a great heart & attitude, with them looking to help others, and a follower of Christ.

yes a tall order, but I will not accept less on this. my first wife thats deceased was, my ex gf was. I have a female best friend that does, but not interested in dating me, I asked before I joined here. so I know it exists. and I will be alone, before I date anyone speaking bad. I would walk out of a date, or leave, and definately would never have a second, and this is just because talking like a sailor, not being sexual to me.

most people not seen anything like me, which is probably great, lol.