Topic: Hard not being a Father
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Thu 08/18/22 02:22 AM
Always wanted to be a father or even step dad and it breaks my heart I'm not. Can see some lovely mother's and father's here

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Thu 08/18/22 02:52 AM
nakakatakot ka kasi

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Thu 08/18/22 03:22 AM
Are you an Uncle? If so that’s good too. Too many people are in a hurry to become one thing or another so give it time and I’m sure you will.

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Thu 08/18/22 04:06 AM
Your photos are showing : )
Never give up.

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Thu 08/18/22 10:15 AM
Yes have 3 beautiful nieces and nephew,I hope so I'm getting on a bit now thanks mate

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Thu 08/18/22 10:16 AM

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Never give up.
my photos are showing? What how sad I am? Thanks sweetheart x

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Mon 08/22/22 05:26 AM
You shall be a wonderful father one day.

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Mon 08/29/22 10:04 PM
I feel your pain. There is nothing better than being a father. I had the most beautiful twin girls who turned 8 in January. Shortly after my wife at the time played me for a fool and the next thing I knew, my whole life disappeared infront of me. She took off with the girls and just went AWOL for a month. I was totally frantic, but to find out we are separated, no discussion. thousands of miles apart. House, vehicle, kids, wife. All gone and just abandoned me. Needless to say with her debt in my name. Had to wash, fold and pack up that whole house on my own. Very traumatic and I still have all their things. and she just remains to block me, dishonesty is what creates this and people use children as emotional weapons, it's so sad, don't be one of those, it must always be about the children. I'm in therapy now, but all I can say, cherish every moment. Empty quiet alone house is not something I would wish on my enemies.

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Mon 08/29/22 10:58 PM
If you have daughters then why does it say on your profile you have no children and are widowed? :thinking:

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Sat 09/03/22 07:03 PM
A bit personal, but anyway. They lost their father when they were 1, since then, I raised them. Don't over analyze or assume. Not everyone is scammers or bullshitters. And to be brutally honest, after having such a traumatic scam of a relationship, she is pretty is much dead to me. Reason, she fled and conned me for 5 years and then just went AWOL. No contact. Just like that, my whole life gone in an instant. Is that good enough? Are you on here as a nosey one or actually trying to find someone.

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Tue 07/22/25 03:06 PM
Iv recently seperate from the mother of my 2 youngest my daughter turned 2 in February and my son turned 1 in April. Iv watched my mates go through similar and it shattered me watching them fall apart. I found out roughly 3 months into our relationship that my ex had cheated on me all the while she treated me like her worst enemy Push pull Push pull relationship. The whole relationship. Once my daughter was old enough to eat and sleep through the night I was dumped and then ghosted. I had no contact wth my daughter at all. Then she found out about my son. A month and a half before she was due to have my son she begged me to come home so I did with out a second thought! I missed my girls and put the way my ex was acting down to "depression".. the same thing with my son as with my daughter.... but she did it spitefully jumped in the car while I was in the toilet.... took my kids with out a goodbye.... and ghosted me once again.... my daughter then almost 2 was shattered as she was my little shadow..... I was cut off no explanation nothing kick in the nuts..... nothing..... so I gathered my dignity and any amount of courage I had left.... and walked away..... 2 and a half months later she messages me out of the blew carrying on at me for moving 5 hours away with out telling her !!! Like ****ing seriously ! She pulled that shot on me.... wanted to sort us out blah blah blah..... long story short each time she left me SHE WAS WITH A NEW MAN!!! She only ever came back to me because she was lonely after they dumped her because they found out she was cheating on them also...... it's been nearly 9 months and she still won't let me speak to my babies as if I'm the **** **** that ****ed her over......

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Tue 07/22/25 03:12 PM
I feel you my brother trust me I feel you I went through the same **** :heart:. Chin up yeh keep on swinging 🥊 Your a soldier