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Topic: You know what I wish???
brandijane's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:40 PM
Edited by brandijane on Sat 01/05/08 12:42 PM
I wish that the two guys that I have been talking to in the last week would tell me why they just up and quit talking to me... am I that ugly?

no photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:43 PM
why dont you ask them???

brandijane's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:44 PM

why dont you ask them???


I tried, but they don't resond.. so I guess I will just forget about it....
Never mind

Dragoness's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:45 PM
I hear that happens all the time here so I guess move on and forget them. No reason to dwell on it. If they don't find you attractive or whatever it isn't personal, there will be someone who will, that is the way I think of it anywayflowerforyou

brandijane's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:47 PM
Thanks! I appreciate the kind words!

DebbieJT's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:48 PM
theres some game players on here hun...had a couple of nasty experiences but theres but theres some nice people too so kepp smiling hunflowerforyou

Dave2722's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:49 PM
No, you are not ugly... all true beauty comes from within a person.flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:49 PM
yeah--you just gotta be careful --

brandijane's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:50 PM

theres some game players on here hun...had a couple of nasty experiences but theres but theres some nice people too so kepp smiling hunflowerforyou


I am! It just kills me! Some people that think they are going to "get" something... and when you tell them to slow down... they SPEED away! Oh well! Thanks! flowerforyou

blancalatina's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:51 PM
I have experienced that myself. If you're not giving them all they want, they leave. Taking it slow is NOT a bad thing.

brandijane's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:51 PM

No, you are not ugly... all true beauty comes from within a person.flowerforyou



So sweet! blushing flowerforyou

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:51 PM
well sorry that has happen but it does every day sad but true heck I have it happen all the time actually figured if they make it past a week I'm doing good. I no longer let those things bother me the way I look at it its there loss not mine and glad they showed there true colors quick lolflowerforyou

brandijane's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:54 PM

well sorry that has happen but it does every day sad but true heck I have it happen all the time actually figured if they make it past a week I'm doing good. I no longer let those things bother me the way I look at it its there loss not mine and glad they showed there true colors quick lolflowerforyou


I guess you are right! I just got out of a 14 year marriage to a man I knew less than a year... I widh we would have dated a LOT LONGER - We would have never gotten married... Oh, I stayed for the kids... WHICH YOU SHOULD NEVER DO!!!

DebbieJT's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:55 PM
alot use theses sites just for some fun which is fair enough...havent got a problem with that...its the honesty before it thats annoying...say it how it is then the other person can say yes or no...you know where you stand then

brandijane's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:56 PM
Yeah, I guess I am glad that they "proved" themselves "unworthy" before it got too far!

newwaters's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:56 PM

I wish that the two guys that I have been talking to in the last week would tell me why they just up and quit talking to me... am I that ugly?


Guys in general have problems with closure.

The dehumanizing seeming anonymity of the net amplifies this behavior.

Close the text book and read the cover: Some guys are just jerks.
bigsmile

brandijane's photo
Sat 01/05/08 12:57 PM


I wish that the two guys that I have been talking to in the last week would tell me why they just up and quit talking to me... am I that ugly?


Guys in general have problems with closure.

The dehumanizing seeming anonymity of the net amplifies this behavior.

Close the text book and read the cover: Some guys are just jerks.
bigsmile


AMEN!!! LOL laugh

randy912's photo
Sat 01/05/08 01:00 PM
Just let things happen as they may , God will send you the right one for your life , someone who will love you unconditionally and forever ,,, hang in there hun , it's all well , I have had similar experiences and it is better to find out now than when you are married or such... I pray for God to send you someone nice .. and you are not ugly ... bye , Randy

brandijane's photo
Sat 01/05/08 01:03 PM

Just let things happen as they may , God will send you the right one for your life , someone who will love you unconditionally and forever ,,, hang in there hun , it's all well , I have had similar experiences and it is better to find out now than when you are married or such... I pray for God to send you someone nice .. and you are not ugly ... bye , Randy


Awww... Thanks! blushing Chat with me anytime!
blushing flowerforyou

Oshana's photo
Sat 01/05/08 01:13 PM

I wish that the two guys that I have been talking to in the last week would tell me why they just up and quit talking to me... am I that ugly?



It's kind of like being in the Yahoo chat rooms...

Guys come in and if you are quiet they start iming you or sending cam offers and if you say no or don't respond they boot you out of the room. All you can do is put them on ignore and move on. Or get one of the yahoo chat clients that allows you to turn ims off or be selective of who you accept ims from. flowerforyou

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