a guy is hinting that he wants to meet, we live REALLY far away, and I'm not so sure, I can defend myself, so I'm not scared, I'm just not so sure about it.

Good luck with your decision lady Not much advice here sorry.

irf uy are scared of him then it wouldnt b wise to presue that realationship

If you're not ready to meet him yet then don't do it hun.

Have him come to you.....then you will be in your own territory, might feel more comfortable. But if you are unsure...then don't do it.

yeah, i think personally that you should wait it out, untill you know enough about the dude to meet him... thats how my friend and i met... and i wouldent trade him for the world.
we waited till we felt comfotrable and then we met, i bought some friends with me when we met so that i wasent so scared. if you need to, make it into a girls weekend, and meet up with him "accidentally..."

If u are not sure about it, then dont do it, im with Twitch, LDR's sometimes work, but , becareful, good thing can turn bad quickly. Ur friend in Pa.

Well, can you make sure the first meeting is in a public place? If you have to fly there, maybe rent a car so you do not have to rely on him for transportation? If he is really interested in you, he shouldn't take any offense at you wanting to do whatever it takes to make you feel comfortable. JMHO.

What are you unsure about?

how far is really far?

not one to put a damper on anyone's joy of course..
but i feel that people should really get to know each other on these sights first before an actual meeting..and then only in a public area.
now speaking strickly whereas the statistics are conserned,it has been proven that these sights and chatlines are a breeding ground for men who wish to cause some form of violent attacks against women.
now of course i am not saying that this will be the cause here of course..but it's always a sure and safe bet to be prudent and cautious..but needless to say the final choice remains yours..
be well
and safe

what do you know about him have you spoken on the phoneor just on here make sure when and if you do decide that you are 100% sure about him

if u r not sure tell him u need more time.maybe yall can web cam 1st

Don't go there. If he wants to meet you that badly, have him come to where you are. This is always the safest way for a woman to protect herself and not get into a possibly dangerous situation.

yes have him come to u babe, u know if it feels right or not, tell people where ur meeting etc if u do, give them a call in the loos so they know ur ok, u'll know if it right 4 u good luck xx

All good advice but whatever you decide, be safe

NO, NOT SCARED. NOT.

If not scared... then what? Have you talked on the phone? Exchanged photos? Chatted with your cam on?

I see a lot of people say have him come to you... meeting halfway and in a public place is usually the best way to go all around for both parties.

Are you going to state what you're unsure about?

I say go 'balls out' and do it....take all the 'precautions' you will need--live it up!

my rule is this.......pics sometimes are not current so I always ask for web cam...I have one and would not hesitate to let someone view me ....although my pics are recent I have found some dishonesty and deceitfulness...not good...anyway I have also met some great friends...then after web cam....I prefer to talk on the phone for some time ....you can tell a lot from that about a person and if they are too cheap to call ya.....then that is not a go!!!!!! Anyway good luck in whatever you decide....I take my time....not in a hurry