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Topic: UGHHHH (frustration)
lonelyredheadgirl's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:12 AM
i started a new job today and there is only 4 people who work in the location i do. (U-Haul) my manager is mega-hot and very interesting. i went through two interviews and a couple of phone conversations. i am 100% attracted to him. today he needed me to try on a large uniform shirt to make sure it fit before he ordered me some. so instead of going upstairs to get the one they had he took me in the garage and took his shirt off so i could try it on. i had to have been blushing. he is so sexy with that 6-pack!! it fit and he put it back on and unbottoned and unzipped his pants to tuck it in. later we got into a discussion of tattoos where we showed each other ours. that ended us up in the garage again with his shirt off and my workshirt off (tank top underneath). he flirted with me like all day. but i am afraid to make a move because he is my boss (he is only 25) and i am not sure what his response would be or what his intentions are. what should i do. i really wanna see what would happen.

Unstoppable21's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:14 AM
definetly go for it and make the move.


Wonderbread's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:15 AM
Honestly, it'll never work, cause something will happen to screw it up. I was in a management position and dating an employee and my boss found out and i almost got fired for it. Then they got transfered to a different store and the animosity just started from there.
Becareful.

Youngbutready's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:17 AM
sounds tricky...i would play it out a little bit more before you make a move...and try and get a better feelof what's going on in his head

lonelyredheadgirl's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:18 AM
i dated a boss once before. we were together for 4 years and had a child but now we do not even speak. i was 16 when i met him. see i am grown up now and so is my boss. he is the one that runs our location so we wouldnt get in trouble but i just dont know what he means by his actions today

Adeph's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:23 AM
Just remember, you might have to seem him everyday, all day as it is. Add to that seeing him a lot outside of work and you or he might get bored and uncomfortable pretty quickly

no photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:26 AM
Not to rain on you're parade but theres a reason why most companies frown on work relationships especially when it comes down to fraterization with managers and subordinates. Sorry. Ur playin with fire and he is too

lonelyredheadgirl's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:26 AM
i dont think i would get bored with him not with his body. not to mention that he always has something interesting to say. he is an ex marine which is awesome and he is into trucks and some other things i am into.

lonelyredheadgirl's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:27 AM
oh kev... we havent actually even approached the subject of dating or anything close to that. i just really wondering what were his thoughts behind his actions

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Tue 01/08/08 01:38 AM
lol. Its called running game.


oh kev... we havent actually even approached the subject of dating or anything close to that. i just really wondering what were his thoughts behind his actions

lonelyredheadgirl's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:39 AM
i actually really doubt he is running game otherwise he would have done more. i can usually sniff out guys like that

Wonderbread's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:45 AM
you know, if you make something idiot proof, someone else just makes a better idiot.
people evolve everyday, so he could be on to you, and seeing how far he can get.

lonelyredheadgirl's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:46 AM
he barely knows me. this is all brand new. yesterday was the first time we spent actual time together

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Tue 01/08/08 01:48 AM
Duh..Taking his shirt off in another room to try on lol. He wouldnt have tried this if you were not sending him signals to do so..


you know, if you make something idiot proof, someone else just makes a better idiot.
people evolve everyday, so he could be on to you, and seeing how far he can get.

lonelyredheadgirl's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:54 AM
i hadnt even been around him all day when he did that. i was outside moving trucks and he was inside with the customers. why does it always have to be the females fault. if you look at the situation he was the one sending the signals and i liked the signals i am not gonna apologize for nor regret anything that happened yesterday

CallMeYours's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:54 AM
I agree. This is all so new and exciting but, only time will tell if there is something more to it than what is on the surface now

singleaunt's photo
Tue 01/08/08 01:59 AM
Personally I don't think you should swim in the company pool, cause if something bad were to happen it will make the work enviroment all akward

lonelyredheadgirl's photo
Tue 01/08/08 02:01 AM
well i would rather take the risk and have something bad possibly happen than never take a chance and possibly pass over "the one" you never know who it will be

Mossop's photo
Tue 01/08/08 02:02 AM
Think he is just trying for a quick leg over....Nothing long term.

Mossop's photo
Tue 01/08/08 02:06 AM
Don't be taking in ! New girl at the office...Who can score first...Sorry but thats how it works in many places

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