Topic: Am I on the wrong site?
Fade2Black's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:39 PM


First, I thought it was for single (heterosexuals) only, and it turns out marrieds/attacheds are on here, I guess shopping, too. Now it turns out gays are on here? What the heck? No offense, but is there a site where someone like myself (heterosexual and single, not attached) can truly go to possibly meet a male that is the same?

Dear! You just have to take your chances. It is a crap-shoot on the internet. You will get the same where ever you visit. This is actually the best site I have been on. Usually people are vulgar and way to forward on other sites.


I agree :tongue:

feralcatlady's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:41 PM
Everyone has a right to Love.......And when I am asked religion wise about it...I will speak the truth...


But nobody is anybody else's judge and I think all should heed that.

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:05 PM
Wow, didn't mean to upset people. That's one reason I opened a thread just for GLBT. So we could talk openly without offending others. Believe me, most GLBT are very respectful of others and would never just "hit on anybody." I am very moved to see so many come to our defense. My sincerest thanks.

feralcatlady's photo
Thu 01/17/08 07:22 PM

Wow, didn't mean to upset people. That's one reason I opened a thread just for GLBT. So we could talk openly without offending others. Believe me, most GLBT are very respectful of others and would never just "hit on anybody." I am very moved to see so many come to our defense. My sincerest thanks.


Will always have your back Sharon.......I love ya madly......and this is a hetrosexual woman....just loving a lesbian....and proud of it.

Dragoness's photo
Thu 01/17/08 07:28 PM

First, I thought it was for single (heterosexuals) only, and it turns out marrieds/attacheds are on here, I guess shopping, too. Now it turns out gays are on here? What the heck? No offense, but is there a site where someone like myself (heterosexual and single, not attached) can truly go to possibly meet a male that is the same?


?????All you listed is what is in the world. Whatnoway you want a discriminatory site that does not cater to all people, only a select few?noway

feralcatlady's photo
Thu 01/17/08 07:33 PM


First, I thought it was for single (heterosexuals) only, and it turns out marrieds/attacheds are on here, I guess shopping, too. Now it turns out gays are on here? What the heck? No offense, but is there a site where someone like myself (heterosexual and single, not attached) can truly go to possibly meet a male that is the same?


I think I missed the memo that said this was "Just Say Hi To Heterosexual Singles"...Hmm...If you are an adult and you can make your own choices, you can choose with whom you interact. Last time I checked, I noticed PLENTY of heterosexual, single men on this site with whom you can choose to talk.



This is wrong on so many levels............

no photo
Thu 01/17/08 07:38 PM
well if this is the wrong site for you then deactivate. every time i see you post it's bashing this site and the people on it. if it's that bad sign up for a new site and be on your way.

sweetjeep's photo
Thu 01/17/08 07:54 PM


And as for gays, as long as THEY read someone's profile BEFORE they hit on them,,cool, or if they hit on anyone and that person says NO, they should leave THEM alone..
But THAT go alone with everybody here not just gays..




If we are still talking about this I just want to add one more thing. I have been approached by men on this site, who want to hook up. I try to be very respectful and polite and tell them that I am interested in dating women. I would never hurt anyone's feelings intentional. So, I guess what I am trying to say it goes both ways on reading the profiles.:smile:

HMontana's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:05 PM



First, I thought it was for single (heterosexuals) only, and it turns out marrieds/attacheds are on here, I guess shopping, too. Now it turns out gays are on here? What the heck? No offense, but is there a site where someone like myself (heterosexual and single, not attached) can truly go to possibly meet a male that is the same?


I think I missed the memo that said this was "Just Say Hi To Heterosexual Singles"...Hmm...If you are an adult and you can make your own choices, you can choose with whom you interact. Last time I checked, I noticed PLENTY of heterosexual, single men on this site with whom you can choose to talk.



This is wrong on so many levels............


I would agree that my post was sarcastic and glib. I was irritated at the message of the original post, because, as has been said, this site seems to be open to anyone and all should be welcome. I was making a point that RomanticSoul could communicate with anyone she chooses - and can ignore that which she finds to be undesirable.

Because of whatever "space" I was in at the moment, I was flip and didn't offer a more helpful, urbane approach to this situation.

So I would agree that the tone of my post was less than helpful, but I would disagree that it was "wrong on so many levels".flowerforyou

ellgee1976's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:09 PM

I think my computer just growled at me.


it did..i heard it

laugh laugh laugh laugh

briank66's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:12 PM

First, I thought it was for single (heterosexuals) only, and it turns out marrieds/attacheds are on here, I guess shopping, too. Now it turns out gays are on here? What the heck? No offense, but is there a site where someone like myself (heterosexual and single, not attached) can truly go to possibly meet a male that is the same?


Not a chance... Welcome, to the land of fruits & nutz smokin

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:14 PM
Me me me can I put my foot in my mouth. Please?

hikerchick's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:21 PM
You guys all did a pretty good job of covering this and didn't leave much for me to say. I guess I don't get what the problem is? It's not like there is a limited amount of space on here. And people whose preferences may be different from yours may like this site for the same reasons that you do. So why should they be excluded just because they don't want the same things that you want? I don't even come close to understanding that.frown

no photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:23 PM

I have and WILL always have my own ISSUE'S with the MARRIED people who come HERE to LOOK for ANOTHER. Hey, if THEY met and got together here, and just HERE for FRIENDS, cool,if two married folks come HERE for friends,,cool..
BUT if ANY of THEM just want to TRY and pick-up ANOTHER.
THATS WRONG in my book, period.
And as for gays, as long as THEY read someone's profile BEFORE they hit on them,,cool, or if they hit on anyone and that person says NO, they should leave THEM alone..
But THAT go alone with everybody here not just gays..

I have a issue with THIS SITE, NOT becoming a XXX rated site. I believe in how and why JUST SAY HI started..
Van had an idea and with Mikes help.
They invented THIS PLACE for ALL of the human race to use w/o any prejudice's and "FREE"...How COOL was that, and IS THAT!!!

If anyone doesn't like anyones color race, or sex prefrences,
then maybe THEY should find another site to meet people on?

Im NOT being an a$$hole, just REAL with life and JSH.:heart:



Amen to that, my friend:smile:

SharonM45458's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:24 PM

First, I thought it was for single (heterosexuals) only, and it turns out marrieds/attacheds are on here, I guess shopping, too. Now it turns out gays are on here? What the heck? No offense, but is there a site where someone like myself (heterosexual and single, not attached) can truly go to possibly meet a male that is the same?

Well at least the homosexuals are Single (since we're not allowed to marry) lmfao!

hikerchick's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:27 PM


First, I thought it was for single (heterosexuals) only, and it turns out marrieds/attacheds are on here, I guess shopping, too. Now it turns out gays are on here? What the heck? No offense, but is there a site where someone like myself (heterosexual and single, not attached) can truly go to possibly meet a male that is the same?

Well at least the homosexuals are Single (since we're not allowed to marry) lmfao!


hopefully that will change in time too.

andreajayne's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:27 PM
If you have to say no offense, you know you are offending someone. Why does it matter if people on here are married and looking for friends, or they arent the same as you? I am neither gay, nor married and took offense to what you said.

hikerchick's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:29 PM

If you have to say no offense, you know you are offending someone. Why does it matter if people on here are married and looking for friends, or they arent the same as you? I am neither gay, nor married and took offense to what you said.


applause flowerforyou

ellgee1976's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:32 PM

If you have to say no offense, you know you are offending someone. Why does it matter if people on here are married and looking for friends, or they arent the same as you? I am neither gay, nor married and took offense to what you said.


amen

andreajayne's photo
Thu 01/17/08 09:44 PM
thank you, to the both of you!