Topic: Advice For Men...
kolhauszer's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:06 PM
if this keeps up..i have no doubt that the mods will lock it up people...just saying

TheShadow's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:06 PM
lol I guess that why most of us are on this site HU? lol That mean women to by the way:tongue:

Michael1978's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:07 PM
yeah, I guess so, LOL... at least most of us

cuzimwhiteboy's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:08 PM
To be clear. This was advice for men, and not eunuchs?

jtitol's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:08 PM
learn from mistakes

TheShadow's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:09 PM

learn from mistakes
It's easy to give advice but does one listen to once advice?

carebear2344's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:11 PM
I got that from a blog a while back I thought id share it..It wasn't my thoughts or anything I just posted it to see what other people thought..

jtitol's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:12 PM
all time when the same mistakes are made for years

kolhauszer's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:12 PM
ohhhh..hi mis lulu..ok its safe then...miss lulu is a modulater....lollollollol...as you were people..this is very entertaining

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Thu 01/17/08 05:14 PM
Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Thu 01/17/08 05:15 PM


now this is indeed a great post...one of the best, TWO ladies with TWO DIFFERENT OPINIONS on how to give advice to men..isnt it great that we can state whats on our minds without be-littleing one another?...


lol, i'm not giving advice to men...not really.

i just don't play little games. i say what i mean and ask for what i want.


BINGO!!! WE HAVE A WINNER!!! bigsmile drinker drinker drinker flowerforyou

stevex86's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:14 PM
Remind me never to send any of you a Halmark card. I wouldnt be able to handle the criticism.

TheShadow's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:14 PM

all time when the same mistakes are made for years
Good to know :smile: but if it's taking years id be a little worried lol. Don't get me wrong. I just like to have a little fun. Not meaning anything by this:wink:

jtitol's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:16 PM
all right glasses

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Thu 01/17/08 05:22 PM
I liked it!

lulu24's photo
Thu 01/17/08 05:23 PM

Remind me never to send any of you a Halmark card. I wouldnt be able to handle the criticism.


heh...i prefer the snarky cards...hallmark ones make me hurl.

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Thu 01/17/08 05:26 PM
Personally.. Making these concessions ~so to speak~ for someone I care for, takes no mind reading skills... does not require I become someones b!tch. I'm pretty self assured of my manhood. No one can take that away from me, emasculate me... unless I choose to let them. Being attentive and caring does not do that.

There is a difference between a woman playing games and a woman wanting to be treated as a woman, or having some womanly quirks and character flaws. Men have their own set of quirks and flaws they gotta put up with too...

If you are a man and believe that you don't have any quirks or character flaws that she is overlooking... Good luck with that.

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Thu 01/17/08 05:35 PM

Personally.. Making these concessions ~so to speak~ for someone I care for, takes no mind reading skills... does not require I become someones b!tch. I'm pretty self assured of my manhood. No one can take that away from me, emasculate me... unless I choose to let them. Being attentive and caring does not do that.

There is a difference between a woman playing games and a woman wanting to be treated as a woman, or having some womanly quirks and character flaws. Men have their own set of quirks and flaws they gotta put up with too...

If you are a man and believe that you don't have any quirks or character flaws that she is overlooking... Good luck with that.


Can we clone you?????laugh

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Thu 01/17/08 05:46 PM

Personally.. Making these concessions ~so to speak~ for someone I care for, takes no mind reading skills... does not require I become someones b!tch. I'm pretty self assured of my manhood. No one can take that away from me, emasculate me... unless I choose to let them. Being attentive and caring does not do that.

There is a difference between a woman playing games and a woman wanting to be treated as a woman, or having some womanly quirks and character flaws. Men have their own set of quirks and flaws they gotta put up with too...

If you are a man and believe that you don't have any quirks or character flaws that she is overlooking... Good luck with that.
drinker

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Thu 01/17/08 06:59 PM

Personally.. Making these concessions ~so to speak~ for someone I care for, takes no mind reading skills... does not require I become someones b!tch. I'm pretty self assured of my manhood. No one can take that away from me, emasculate me... unless I choose to let them. Being attentive and caring does not do that.

There is a difference between a woman playing games and a woman wanting to be treated as a woman, or having some womanly quirks and character flaws. Men have their own set of quirks and flaws they gotta put up with too...

If you are a man and believe that you don't have any quirks or character flaws that she is overlooking... Good luck with that.


Ummm, you call this "concession"???


"When I walk away from you mad
[ Follow me ]

When I push you or hit you
[ Grab me and don't let go ]

When I start cussing at you
[ Kiss me and tell me you love me ]

When I ignore you
[ Give me your attention ]

When I pull away
[ Pull me back ]

When I look at you with doubt
[ Back yourself up ]

When I say that I like you
[ I really do more than you could understand ]

When I say it's over
[ I still want you to be mine ] "

The other things are ok, but these point some really specific "problems" and a very "unhealthy" mix in a relationship.

It has nothing to do with "manhood" or "masculenity"..it has to do as being a "person". Gender does not not matter. Neither a man nor a woman would want these particular things for a healthy relationship.

So no "reading between the lines" because those lines speak for themselves. happy

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Thu 01/17/08 07:02 PM
Men should just read my mind...........and bring me the pond fronds!!! The End.bigsmile drinker