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Topic: Age?
sweetnspicy4u's photo
Thu 01/17/08 11:21 PM
Ok guys, question, does age make the woman. Ya know, some look at the age and looks and not the woman. I don't mean like 20 yrs age difference either! No way! not going therelaugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 11:24 PM
glasses age doesnt make that much of a difference if the chemistry is right.glasses

DrX's photo
Thu 01/17/08 11:25 PM

Ok guys, question, does age make the woman. Ya know, some look at the age and looks and not the woman. I don't mean like 20 yrs age difference either! No way! not going therelaugh


I'm confused on what your asking

BeckaLeann's photo
Thu 01/17/08 11:25 PM
as far as i'm concerned age doesn't make the guy it's just a number i've found guys older then me and younger that i get along with perfectly

ThreeFeetOfHair's photo
Thu 01/17/08 11:27 PM
i try to only limit the age range to people i think i would have stuff in common with. there may be a lot of super hot 45 year olds there that are amazing people inside and out, but I don't think i'd be able to connect and identify with them or them with me. The same goes for dating a 20 year old. i just couldn't relate. besides the fact that that would seem like I was robbing the cradle. (i'm 30 btw)

no photo
Thu 01/17/08 11:33 PM
It's a number, like shoe size is a number, or height is a number, or your license plate has a number.

People say, "Age relates to maturity!" but I have seen more cases where that's NOT true than cases where it is.

Everybody is different, everybody is an individual. Let everybody make their own personal decisions about age, and whatever other criteria they use, without being judged for it.

But at the same time, sometimes you may miss out on a really great person because they were a year too old or an inch too tall. So, if adhering to arbitrary standards is more important than giving people a chance, that's fine, too -- you just have to be OK with whatever the results are.

robinlynn42's photo
Fri 01/18/08 12:06 AM
whatever makes u happy and u can work things out then go for it.

sweetnspicy4u's photo
Fri 01/18/08 12:18 AM


Ok guys, question, does age make the woman. Ya know, some look at the age and looks and not the woman. I don't mean like 20 yrs age difference either! No way! not going therelaugh


I'm confused on what your asking
just that sometimes age differences can make or break a relationship, or they may not be attracted to someone because of the age difference

YourLove1's photo
Fri 01/18/08 12:57 AM
age is just a number .. anyone that looks at age for love , dont know anything about love .. my Dad was 24 when my mom was born ...

no photo
Fri 01/18/08 01:03 AM
I like to play "Lets count our wrinkles"laugh laugh laugh

lonelyshorty's photo
Fri 01/18/08 01:12 AM
No it doesnt make the woman. I'm 20 and the majority of the guys that have contacted me are at least 9+ years. I am mature for my age and I have been told so. I look like I'm 17 because I'm so short but I most of the time I act like I'm older than 20.

no photo
Fri 01/18/08 01:23 AM
<------been cursed with young looks!!!grumble grumble grumble grumble

maraskia74's photo
Fri 01/18/08 01:29 AM
lol there was 22 between my partens my dad was older

there was 11 between my husband and i he was older

were divorced now but it had nothing to do with age

no photo
Fri 01/18/08 08:17 AM
To a point. I am 45 and would date a women from about 30-50. I think anything younger would be hard. Unless the women is VERY mature and not TOO wild.

ladyliz1417's photo
Fri 01/18/08 08:20 AM
Age doesnt make any difference unless he is older than me. Just cant relate to older guys.

oldsage's photo
Fri 01/18/08 08:24 AM
Extreme age differences are the only age boyhers me.
Have dated ladies younger than I.
Some were just a fun arm candy thing, when to young.
They said they would go out, so we went to dinner & strolled the Old Market area. Knew it was nothing more than fun.
Mid 30's on up to ?? depends on the person.
Everyone says, I have never acted my age.

rara777's photo
Fri 01/18/08 08:28 AM

Extreme age differences are the only age boyhers me.
Have dated ladies younger than I.
Some were just a fun arm candy thing, when to young.
They said they would go out, so we went to dinner & strolled the Old Market area. Knew it was nothing more than fun.
Mid 30's on up to ?? depends on the person.
Everyone says, I have never acted my age.


Well said oldsage

Softtail70's photo
Fri 01/18/08 08:29 AM

Ok guys, question, does age make the woman. Ya know, some look at the age and looks and not the woman. I don't mean like 20 yrs age difference either! No way! not going therelaugh

flowerforyou I know you directed this quetion to the guys...but I have dated men much younger...and some were more mature than men my age...Age should not be a factordrinker

WhoIAm's photo
Fri 01/18/08 09:57 AM
Tough one. I don't think that age really matters, but generally speaking, I am attracted to guys who look around the same age that I look. I look younger than I am, so I'm generally attracted to younger guys.

stevex86's photo
Fri 01/18/08 10:03 AM

Tough one. I don't think that age really matters, but generally speaking, I am attracted to guys who look around the same age that I look. I look younger than I am, so I'm generally attracted to younger guys.


Ditto, but I have seen some very hot, younger looking older ladies as well. Age is a number placed by society and has less to do with ones actual physical age then what our expectations of someone at that age are.

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