Topic: opinions needed
obillyo's photo
Mon 01/21/08 05:58 AM

A friend of mine says cheating is ok because it helps a relationship grow....however I think much differently lol
anyways just want some opinions do you think seeing other people while your with someone is ok??
probably thinks intercourse is the only way to have sexlaugh

Moondark's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:09 AM
Nope, not okay. Cheating is bad. That rational is just an excuse to have more than one person.

As far as open relationships go, I've known a few people who had open marriages. Every one I've seen ended badly, one way or another.

About the only place that it can work is a Poly relationship. A small group relationship, sure, an over simplification. But even then, it often doesn't go well. Secondaries are more likely to have issues with it. After all, no one wants to be second, everyone wants to be the most important person to their significant other.

DebbieJT's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:17 AM
how can cheating help a relationshipe,,wheres the trust in that

monsta1187's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:17 AM
r u serious thats the dumbest thing i have ever heard in my life

rebecca1210's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:17 AM
Cheating is NEVER ok!

AllenAqua's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:18 AM
that's why they call it "cheating", because it's wrong...and in my opinion, an open marriage is not a real marriage, only an extended booty call...

Starhawk's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:18 AM
Nope.... But there always issues.........

tonylee52's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:22 AM
one word answer. NO

TheMagicalMatt's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:26 AM
Cheating is fun! just dont get aids.

obillyo's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:28 AM

Cheating is fun! just dont get aids.
...ya...ok jay leno....noway

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:32 AM
No!

Moondark's photo
Mon 01/21/08 06:33 AM

that's why they call it "cheating", because it's wrong...and in my opinion, an open marriage is not a real marriage, only an extended booty call...


Watching people in them, I wonder if it is two people trying to see just how much they can get away with. Like a kid pushing the boundaries with the parents. Everyone always get hurts. I don't understand why so many people want to try it.

AllenAqua's photo
Mon 01/21/08 07:04 AM


that's why they call it "cheating", because it's wrong...and in my opinion, an open marriage is not a real marriage, only an extended booty call...


Watching people in them, I wonder if it is two people trying to see just how much they can get away with. Like a kid pushing the boundaries with the parents. Everyone always get hurts. I don't understand why so many people want to try it.


To me it seems that in this fast food world we live in, it's just another sign of the times. No one seems to really think things through, it's always about me,me,me...Meaningful relationships require work,dedication and thoughtfulness...way too much work in today's gimme,gimme gimme, world...

no photo
Mon 01/21/08 07:05 AM
Cheating is not ok, for at least a couple of reasons. It can tear a person's heart up, plus you could get major diseases.

no photo
Mon 01/21/08 07:06 AM
To me it seems that in this fast food world we live in, it's just another sign of the times. No one seems to really think things through, it's always about me,me,me...Meaningful relationships require work,dedication and thoughtfulness...way too much work in today's gimme,gimme gimme, world...


That's exactly why I'm considering not even bothering to date at this point. drinker

no photo
Mon 01/21/08 07:21 AM
I cheated on my Blow Up Doll and she left me!!!brokenheart sad noway grumble laugh

chuck366's photo
Mon 01/21/08 07:23 AM
I can t handle one woman never mind 2

Moondark's photo
Mon 01/21/08 07:24 AM

I cheated on my Blow Up Doll and she left me!!!brokenheart sad noway grumble laugh


Did she commit suicide and puncture herself? laugh

freakyflow's photo
Mon 01/21/08 07:37 AM
Edited by freakyflow on Mon 01/21/08 07:38 AM
I know this is sick but.....this guy i knew come home to his girlfriend after a "extra" long night at work and she wanted to suprize him at the door with removing his pants and dropping to her knees he seemed very unforth coming for her and when she asked why he said: No im just surprized thats all. And let her contiue what she was doing. Later that night being guilt struck he told her he was not at work but with some gal he met at the gas station and they had sex.. He never even showered after. And she thought of what she did at the door for him....

now just think about how you would feel if someone did that to you before you cheat

Moondark's photo
Mon 01/21/08 07:40 AM
Yeah, I went over to the home of the guy I was seeing once. I was dropping off some german food I made him. The bedroom smelled strongly of sex. I never understood when people wrote that instories until that moment. I wondered if he had he stashed in a closet or something. Later on, I learned he was seeing 4 of us at the same time.