So while you were cookin up something nice for him he was cookin up his own thing.. nice and men wonder why some women a bitter! lol

cheating is wrong no matter how you look at it

I think your friend bumped there head way to many times

Cheating is the best way to destroy a relationship not help it.

But than again my definition of cheating is having a romantic or intimate relationship with someone other than your spouse. Some people think that having close friends that hang out together can be called cheating if the other is unaware of it.

Nobody wins in a cheating situation

Everyone who cheats should be cheated on by someone they really care about so they can feel the emptiness and pain. Problem is, most cheaters never care enough about anyone else to be really hurt. Cheating destroys. It's always wrong.

If there's both agree to have an open relationship, that's fine, but cheating is not ok.

I love how people try to justify their wrong doings.

That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard..

Make a relationship grow?...That's one of the fastest way to destroy one!!

utter lack of respect for another person.

...and i'm sorry fella, no such thing as an 'open' relationship-
thats just the feel-good term for being a skank-nasty-ho-bag.

heres my two cents, cheating is cheating, defining it just means your concidering it. if you want to cheat, cheat, if you are not sure if that person is for you, talk to them and maybe an arrangement can be met, were you can see other people, and still maintain a relationship with that person. going behind their back is not just cheating, its telling that person that not only do you not respect them, but you are willing to drag them along, in your sick game and make them feel worse. i recently had this happen to me and i'm telling you, i hate that person for it, and wish to never hear from them. thats my two cents, do with it as you please, just be conciderate of the other person when making your choice

Absolutely not OK, unless of course I am the one she is cheating with.

Then ...........

LOL

it's bad,bad,bad,and bad

It did my marriage a lot of good! I have been divorced for three years. My advice is that if you are in a relationship with someone and are interested in others, then you do not really want to be with that person!

Where is that gong show buzzer when you need it.

Nope.

Definately not a good answer, Michael.

Just say NO to cheating...

Wrong Wrong and Wrong..

Never ever,Never Ever,No way,Not even once!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cheating is never okay. There are some that think the "grass is always greener on the other side", so they never seem to be able to settle with just one. Then, there are those that see so much candy in the candy shop that it becomes overwhelming for them to choose. Different issues.

The first has low self-esteem and probably doesn't like/love themselves enough to see the "beauty and perfection" in the imperfection of their best match. In other words, there are events that happened to them earlier in life which may have led to issues with commitment and trust.

The other is perhaps unsure of who they are, what they want, and what is important to them in life. Without focus, all that is left to go in is the superficial. Where does that get anyone? Some fun and excitement at first, but, in the end, it just turns out to be hollow and meaningless.

These types of individuals need to do some serious work on themselves, first, before they engage in any serious type of relationship. Otherwise, it is not fair to their significant other or to the couple, itself. These kinds of problems aren't a "couples' problem" at the root - they have more to do with characterological flaws of one of the partners.

And NO....I abso****inglutely DO NOT think seeing other people while you are with someone is okay, in my humble opinion. Not unless your significant other knows and explicitly approves it.

I like that rule. A pity so many do not go by it.

This only works if both individuals are committed to the relationship and want it to work. If they truly are willing to do the hard and painful work of tearing down and rebuilding. The relationship will never be the same again after infidelity. Trust must be earned back and the problems which led to the infidelity must be worked through by each. Each person is responsible in most cases of infidelity. The rebuilding is not easy and it brings up very difficult feelings for each.

Of prime importance, everything about the affair(s) must be disclosed and the partner must solemnly agree to have no more contact with the one they cheated with immediately. Then, they must stick with it. Without that, your chances of regaining trust or rebuilding are nil and you might as well walk away, move out, or get out those separation papers.

For those who work hard and are totally honest, it can make the original relationship better and stronger. It is worth it. But, NOT because of the cheating. Because it forced the couple to be brutally honest with each other and examine their relationship dynamics, expectations for themselves and each other, where they went wrong, and where they need to go next.

I heartily agree. And, sometimes it is hard for some to **** or get off the pot.