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Topic: WHY?? I'm Confused!! MEN....
yourgirlnj Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3	Sat 01/26/08 08:34 AM
Why is it, that you men, will add someone as a favorite and as a friend, but never write them, even when they write you!!! Whats up with that??? Arghhh!!

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Sat 01/26/08 08:36 AM
been there, done that..it will get better..get in the forums, tell about yourself, etc..you'll make friends..

randy912 Joined Thu 10/26/06 Posts: 405	Sat 01/26/08 08:38 AM
I have had the same thing to happen to me to , don't understand it neither... I would email you back .. Randy

ImDavid Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 1400	Sat 01/26/08 08:38 AM
It's not only the men.... women do that too. It's just human nature or shyness... who knows.

Sexyklp4U Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 3377	Sat 01/26/08 08:40 AM
It's not only the men.... women do that too. It's just human nature or shyness... who knows. very true..i used to take it personally..i try not to anymore..

68chevy Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 6926	Sat 01/26/08 08:41 AM
It happens to us men also. You can delete the people from your friends and favorite list if you don't want them there.

2much4u Joined Wed 09/13/06 Posts: 1164	Sat 01/26/08 08:41 AM
because people have other things to do than to be on here all day

COOK53 Joined Sat 11/03/07 Posts: 108	Sat 01/26/08 08:47 AM
I EMAILED A MAN FOR 2 DAYS.HE SEEMED SINCERE.HE ASKED FOR A TESTAMONIAL WHICH I WROTE ,SINGING HIS PRAISES. TURNED OUT TO BE A WHACK-JOB.NOW EVERY WOMAN IS GOING TO THINK HE'S WONDERFUL. I TRIED TO DELETE IT ,BUT CAN'T. ALSO I LIVE IN MASS. AND SOME GUY FROM CALI. ASK ME TO PUT HIM ON MY FRIENDS LIST. NEVER HEARD FROM HIM BEFORE...DELETE,DELETE,DELETE!!! I CHECKED OUT HIS PROFILE,HE HAS 755 FRIENDS.WHAT'S UP WITH THAT??? I WISH PEOPLE WOULD ACT LIKE ADULT'S AND STOP BEING SO NEEDY.

KennethP5206 Joined Wed 03/07/07 Posts: 2082	Sat 01/26/08 08:48 AM
Why is it, that you men, will add someone as a favorite and as a friend, but never write them, even when they write you!!! Whats up with that??? Arghhh!! Could be after adding you, they met someone and don't have time for you anymore.

CaptainSpaz Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 636	Sat 01/26/08 08:48 AM
because people have other things to do than to be on here all day I'd have to agree. Even on MySpace I don't communicate much with friends there regardless of how good friends we might be, my real focus is on people I meet regularly offline.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 01/26/08 08:50 AM
Why is it, that you men, will add someone as a favorite and as a friend, but never write them, even when they write you!!! Whats up with that??? Arghhh!! I know the answer. Cause said man was scorned by some woman in the past and now he is seeking his ultimate revenge upon the female species......and this is his avenue to do it! The sting of adding as a friend and never replying. OUCH! I think the world is coming to an end.

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Sat 01/26/08 08:50 AM
I have done that ..if I don't chat with someone for awhile on my friends list or matches list...I just delete them but, I'm still their friend ,if they want to chat figured I was saving space. I pretty much will talk to anyone...I guess I have 5,000,000 friends here! and would be a looooong page!

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Sat 01/26/08 08:52 AM
because people have other things to do than to be on here all day are you insane?? other things to do????? not a chance!!!!!

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Sat 01/26/08 08:53 AM
Why is it, that you men, will add someone as a favorite and as a friend, but never write them, even when they write you!!! Whats up with that??? Arghhh!! I know the answer. Cause said man was scorned by some woman in the past and now he is seeking his ultimate revenge upon the female species......and this is his avenue to do it! The sting of adding as a friend and never replying. OUCH! I think the world is coming to an end. lmao!!

EstrellaNegra Joined Wed 09/05/07 Posts: 239	Sat 01/26/08 08:53 AM
I EMAILED A MAN FOR 2 DAYS.HE SEEMED SINCERE.HE ASKED FOR A TESTAMONIAL WHICH I WROTE ,SINGING HIS PRAISES. TURNED OUT TO BE A WHACK-JOB.NOW EVERY WOMAN IS GOING TO THINK HE'S WONDERFUL. I TRIED TO DELETE IT ,BUT CAN'T. I think if you really wanted to delete this guy's testimonial you can delete your profile and it would delete the testimonial. You can then activate another profile yourself and everything will be clear.

ZacharyRyan Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 3166	Sat 01/26/08 08:53 AM
maybe they didn't like what you wrote them? maybe your grammar sucked? WHO KNOWS!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 01/26/08 08:55 AM
My thoughts are they want to save your face for future staring contests!! Ive also noticed they are rarely in the forums.....if at all!!

Fiammetta Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 7	Sat 01/26/08 09:01 AM
I've had a few guys do that to me but I usually won't add them unless I have already talked to them. I don't really see the point.

yourgirlnj Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3	Sat 01/26/08 01:25 PM
THANKS ALL FOR THE ANSWERS!! lOTS OF INSIGHT GIVEN ON THE MALE MIND ...LOL

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sat 01/26/08 01:26 PM
because people have other things to do than to be on here all day You don't have to be on here all day to be courteous. I say if you are not interested in communicating, don't ask me to add you to my friends.