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How did he treat you during the relationship and why did you break up on bad terms? I would consider that before thinking about getting back with him. I understand about being lonely but sometimes it is better to be alone than to be mistreated. See thats it he hated my job we always fight and i broke up with him cause he got drunk and called me a Bit#$! we never had good comunication and he was not very loving lol It was bad and i know if i go back all the trust issues and yelling and anger will be there i'm confused ver. my last boyfriend who was wayyyyyy to nice i think my system wants some bad but i can't go back there again i was miserable...........but the sex was good! lol Sounds like you just answered your own question. If it,s going to turn out to be the same way it was before then why put yourself through it. For Petes sake get a vibrator if you want good sex lol i don't need a vibrator hahaha i personaly don't beleive anyone needs it that bad for one if ya need to get off you know what ya like lol Don't knock it till you try it |
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I guess my question would be what has happened to make him change from the non-loving, disrespectful jerk he was before? And do you feel this is a real change or just temporary to get you back into his life. I would think long and hard about this before heading down that same road again. I think I would rather be alone then to settle for less than you deserve. I say keep looking, your prince is out there you just haven't found him yet. =) Sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs but in the end it will be all worth it. Good Luck sweetie!
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How did he treat you during the relationship and why did you break up on bad terms? I would consider that before thinking about getting back with him. I understand about being lonely but sometimes it is better to be alone than to be mistreated. See thats it he hated my job we always fight and i broke up with him cause he got drunk and called me a Bit#$! we never had good comunication and he was not very loving lol It was bad and i know if i go back all the trust issues and yelling and anger will be there i'm confused ver. my last boyfriend who was wayyyyyy to nice i think my system wants some bad but i can't go back there again i was miserable...........but the sex was good! lol Sounds like you just answered your own question. If it,s going to turn out to be the same way it was before then why put yourself through it. For Petes sake get a vibrator if you want good sex lol i don't need a vibrator hahaha i personaly don't beleive anyone needs it that bad for one if ya need to get off you know what ya like lol Don't knock it till you try it I agree! 
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I guess my question would be what has happened to make him change from the non-loving, disrespectful jerk he was before? And do you feel this is a real change or just temporary to get you back into his life. I would think long and hard about this before heading down that same road again. I think I would rather be alone then to settle for less than you deserve. I say keep looking, your prince is out there you just haven't found him yet. =) Sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs but in the end it will be all worth it. Good Luck sweetie! I know he has not changed i don't know what my issue is! lol damn men anyhow i can honestly say i don't care bout him that way anymore...i think its my hormones gettin in the way it has been way to long sense i have done the deed thats cause i'm a picky on who i sleep with and i don't sleep around i have to be with the person ad care bout them before i can have a sexual relationship with them |
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Yea a vibrator won't do me any good i'm a total clit person
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The thing is that people ask for advice, and then when they get it they don't listen.
Listen to the people that have been down that road and have lived through the same thing. One time when I was younger, I was standing in the bathroom using the bathroom at a urinal. Someone had written above ...You now hold your future in your hands. I never realized how true that was, and women that goes for you too. So quit thinking with your%%%% and use your head. You know down deep that it is not going to work, and you even said so yourself. So don't do it. Don't put yourself through that misery again. Listen to all your friends here at J.S.H. |
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The thing is that people ask for advice, and then when they get it they don't listen. Listen to the people that have been down that road and have lived through the same thing. One time when I was younger, I was standing in the bathroom using the bathroom at a urinal. Someone had written above ...You now hold your future in your hands. I never realized how true that was, and women that goes for you too. So quit thinking with your%%%% and use your head. You know down deep that it is not going to work, and you even said so yourself. So don't do it. Don't put yourself through that misery again. Listen to all your friends here at J.S.H. I will  i'm not going back there!
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Then go with option 2...run don't walk to Lovers Lane and get yourself a very nice toy. Great stress relievers and only you will know you have one. Trust me on this, they work wonders!
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The thing is that people ask for advice, and then when they get it they don't listen. Listen to the people that have been down that road and have lived through the same thing. One time when I was younger, I was standing in the bathroom using the bathroom at a urinal. Someone had written above ...You now hold your future in your hands. I never realized how true that was, and women that goes for you too. So quit thinking with your%%%% and use your head. You know down deep that it is not going to work, and you even said so yourself. So don't do it. Don't put yourself through that misery again. Listen to all your friends here at J.S.H. I will i'm not going back there! Good......You will find a descent man, your a smart and pretty girl. You deserve better...Don't you?
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Then go with option 2...run don't walk to Lovers Lane and get yourself a very nice toy. Great stress relievers and only you will know you have one. Trust me on this, they work wonders! lol thanks ill give it some thought but i'd much rather have the real thing lol |
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The thing is that people ask for advice, and then when they get it they don't listen. Listen to the people that have been down that road and have lived through the same thing. One time when I was younger, I was standing in the bathroom using the bathroom at a urinal. Someone had written above ...You now hold your future in your hands. I never realized how true that was, and women that goes for you too. So quit thinking with your%%%% and use your head. You know down deep that it is not going to work, and you even said so yourself. So don't do it. Don't put yourself through that misery again. Listen to all your friends here at J.S.H. I will i'm not going back there! Good......You will find a descent man, your a smart and pretty girl. You deserve better...Don't you? yes i know i do!
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Sometimes when we are lonely we are willing to "settle" for things when we really shouldn't. We look at an old relationship and think..wow you know it really wasn't that bad, when in fact if it wasn't that bad we would still be in it.
I think you need to sit down and do what I always do..write down what was good and what was bad about the relationship. If the bad out weighs the good..then you really need to keep walking. You said something about no communication..without communication you are in deep trouble. I believe that communication is what keeps the relationship together. Plus you have to have trust. Do you trust this man? It just seems that theres a lot that needs to be worked on. I think any relationship is hard BUT when you break up and then try years later..its NEVER the same. People change and usually the whole relationship is strange. If you couldn't communicate back then, why do you think you could now? I think you really need to search deep in yourself and figure out why would you take him back? Is it because you are so lonely and afraid of being alone? That won't happen, just be patient...your time will come!!
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My last girlfriend slapped me around and called me a b*tch all the time. I love pain, and she loves me again...she said so....and we got back together...same result, only this time I just was there for a good f*ck all the time. I was okay with that. I like to be mentally and physically abused. Yeah, broke it off with me, but damn it....I would go right back again if she called me.
 If the above sounded silly to you, then GOOD! It should. Sounds like you answered your question already, but I just wanted you to read that, maybe laugh, or get pissed at me, but you get the point of it right? If that above, what I wrote, was that silly and stupid and dumb.....then HELLO!!!!!!!! 
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