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Topic: UMMMMMMM
longhairbiker's photo
Thu 01/31/08 09:49 PM
I think you should keep dating him. And you should keep letting him play you. I feel you should keep the stress and drama levels up there. Is that what you wanted to hear? I don't think so. You're much better than this. Tell him to kick rocks. He don't have feelings for you. Hello? Or that's the vibe I'm getting. Move on thank me later.

Brenda_Darling's photo
Thu 01/31/08 09:59 PM

I think you should keep dating him. And you should keep letting him play you. I feel you should keep the stress and drama levels up there. Is that what you wanted to hear? I don't think so. You're much better than this. Tell him to kick rocks. He don't have feelings for you. Hello? Or that's the vibe I'm getting. Move on thank me later.


Yepp yepp exactly what i wanted to hear...LOL..NO it wasnt...but puting it into those words...helped me see what i was doing to my self....If he keeps his promise and calls me...I'm DONE..he can either lose my number or he can call me when he wants to come see ME not the other way around...

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Thu 01/31/08 10:02 PM
just don't talk to him anymore.He's a player.You already know this.What has you confused? There is No reason not to let it go. Move on.Good luck!drinker drinker

KennethP5206's photo
Thu 01/31/08 10:02 PM

OK... Bear with me in my attempt to put this into words....

WHy is it that we can fall for some one with only seeing pictures and talking to them and just when we think they feel the same way about us...POOF its back to the ex...

I really like this guy and i thought he liked me too...or thats what he said...we've been talking for about a month now, and suddleny on the day we were suppost to finally meet face to face. he gets back with his ex. he says its a saftey thing cuz he didnt think i was gonna come see him. but i've offered to walk over 6 miles to see him(I dont drive and he doesnt either) and the only reason i didnt was because he didnt think it was safe for me to do that...so i didnt...and i found a ride to see him but suddlenly me calling was a bother because he was hanging out with his ex and they had gotten back together..and now hes confused because he doesnt know if he wants to stay with his ex or break up with her because he likes me too...Now i dont want to be the reason he breaks up with her. but i dont know what to do...should i stand aside and not talk to him anymore, or just be friends with him? or should i try and make him see how i feel and how this affects me? I dont know if anyone else has been through this or not...and some advice would be nice....

I think maybe he was married all along and didnt expect for you to come over..Then when you called and told him you were going to come over he's like Oh..Crap...so he had to tell you he was with his ex...I think it's his wife

JaceKnows's photo
Thu 01/31/08 10:05 PM


OK... Bear with me in my attempt to put this into words....

WHy is it that we can fall for some one with only seeing pictures and talking to them and just when we think they feel the same way about us...POOF its back to the ex...

I really like this guy and i thought he liked me too...or thats what he said...we've been talking for about a month now, and suddleny on the day we were suppost to finally meet face to face. he gets back with his ex. he says its a saftey thing cuz he didnt think i was gonna come see him. but i've offered to walk over 6 miles to see him(I dont drive and he doesnt either) and the only reason i didnt was because he didnt think it was safe for me to do that...so i didnt...and i found a ride to see him but suddlenly me calling was a bother because he was hanging out with his ex and they had gotten back together..and now hes confused because he doesnt know if he wants to stay with his ex or break up with her because he likes me too...Now i dont want to be the reason he breaks up with her. but i dont know what to do...should i stand aside and not talk to him anymore, or just be friends with him? or should i try and make him see how i feel and how this affects me? I dont know if anyone else has been through this or not...and some advice would be nice....

I think maybe he was married all along and didnt expect for you to come over..Then when you called and told him you were going to come over he's like Oh..Crap...so he had to tell you he was with his ex...I think it's his wife


You cynical bastard!







Yeah, that's the FIRST thing I thought of, too... <sigh> Seriously.

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Thu 01/31/08 10:06 PM


I think maybe he was married all along and didnt expect for you to come over..Then when you called and told him you were going to come over he's like Oh..Crap...so he had to tell you he was with his ex...I think it's his wife



He's only 20...i doubt he's married...I'm sure his friends would have told me when we talked...But then again...maybe they wouldnt.. He's going to the curb...ITS TrASH DAY AT BRENDA_DARLING HOUSE!!!!!!!!!

KennethP5206's photo
Thu 01/31/08 10:08 PM



OK... Bear with me in my attempt to put this into words....

WHy is it that we can fall for some one with only seeing pictures and talking to them and just when we think they feel the same way about us...POOF its back to the ex...

I really like this guy and i thought he liked me too...or thats what he said...we've been talking for about a month now, and suddleny on the day we were suppost to finally meet face to face. he gets back with his ex. he says its a saftey thing cuz he didnt think i was gonna come see him. but i've offered to walk over 6 miles to see him(I dont drive and he doesnt either) and the only reason i didnt was because he didnt think it was safe for me to do that...so i didnt...and i found a ride to see him but suddlenly me calling was a bother because he was hanging out with his ex and they had gotten back together..and now hes confused because he doesnt know if he wants to stay with his ex or break up with her because he likes me too...Now i dont want to be the reason he breaks up with her. but i dont know what to do...should i stand aside and not talk to him anymore, or just be friends with him? or should i try and make him see how i feel and how this affects me? I dont know if anyone else has been through this or not...and some advice would be nice....

I think maybe he was married all along and didnt expect for you to come over..Then when you called and told him you were going to come over he's like Oh..Crap...so he had to tell you he was with his ex...I think it's his wife


You cynical bastard!







Yeah, that's the FIRST thing I thought of, too... <sigh> Seriously.



I wasn't being cynical, I was being serious.

Brenda_Darling's photo
Thu 01/31/08 10:12 PM




OK... Bear with me in my attempt to put this into words....

WHy is it that we can fall for some one with only seeing pictures and talking to them and just when we think they feel the same way about us...POOF its back to the ex...

I really like this guy and i thought he liked me too...or thats what he said...we've been talking for about a month now, and suddleny on the day we were suppost to finally meet face to face. he gets back with his ex. he says its a saftey thing cuz he didnt think i was gonna come see him. but i've offered to walk over 6 miles to see him(I dont drive and he doesnt either) and the only reason i didnt was because he didnt think it was safe for me to do that...so i didnt...and i found a ride to see him but suddlenly me calling was a bother because he was hanging out with his ex and they had gotten back together..and now hes confused because he doesnt know if he wants to stay with his ex or break up with her because he likes me too...Now i dont want to be the reason he breaks up with her. but i dont know what to do...should i stand aside and not talk to him anymore, or just be friends with him? or should i try and make him see how i feel and how this affects me? I dont know if anyone else has been through this or not...and some advice would be nice....

I think maybe he was married all along and didnt expect for you to come over..Then when you called and told him you were going to come over he's like Oh..Crap...so he had to tell you he was with his ex...I think it's his wife


You cynical bastard!







Yeah, that's the FIRST thing I thought of, too... <sigh> Seriously.



I wasn't being cynical, I was being serious.


i think he was being sarcastic about the cynical thing...cuz he does end up agreeing with u....although i dont...but whateve...the boy's going to the curb anyways

unsure's photo
Thu 01/31/08 10:21 PM

From what I'm gathering here...everyone has basicly told me that i'm setting my self up to get hurt...maybe not now but in the long run...so for once in my life i'm not gonna bend over backwards for some one else... I'm not going to play this game with him....I'm gonna tell him i'm done...he can either lose my number, or call me if he wants to COME See me...and not me go out there...Thanks for all the help...


I think you should tell him you are done BUT I don't think you should tell him that if he wants to come see you or call you! I think you should just tell him this plain and simple..I am done, get rid of my number and don't call or don't come to see me at all! I think he never broke up with his girlfriend and when it came time for you to come and see him, he had to make up some excuse. His friends would never tell you if he had someone in his life...why would they? They are his friends!!
You deserve someone that will treat you with respect. Move on with your life, there are plenty of guys out there.

jellybean1021's photo
Thu 01/31/08 10:29 PM
I am with Kenneth-I think he was married all along, and never thought you would go through with it.

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