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Topic: Not So New, But New
lilith401's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:06 AM
Well, I think that lately here I've been pretty vocal in this section. I got an e-mail today that inspired me to change my profile, for a variety of reasons. Any comments, suggestions, input? flowerforyou I'm not interested in propaganda or what you would do if you were me, by the by.

As I'm a golden rule follower, I expect you to be sincere in your comments. Thank you!

Scinn's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:09 AM
Firstly, congrats!! drinker

Secondly, everything looks good..right on the up and up. happy

AHK's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:11 AM
Happy for you. I guess all I could say is that there are forums for friends to talk. My understanding it that this is a dating site. And, if I found someone I'm not sure if I would put myself out there. Kind of a waste of time to read your profile. Sorry - honest.

no photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:11 AM
Look's and sound's great and the writing is wonderful bigsmile

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:15 AM
AHK: So.... as this is a dating site you think that those of us who have found someone should deactivate and go away? If this is primarily a dating site, why is there an option for us to select we want to meet friends?

OR..... should I....

Stay away from the threads about dating? Or new members...? Just because I am dating? Hmmmmmm. I find that perplexing, honestly.

I apologize that my profile was waste of time for you to read, but I hope that you continue to take the time to waste your time out of the same respect for others that you showed to me.

Blackfox- thank you. I see you often in the threads. flowerforyou

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:16 AM

Well, I think that lately here I've been pretty vocal in this section. I got an e-mail today that inspired me to change my profile, for a variety of reasons. Any comments, suggestions, input? flowerforyou I'm not interested in propaganda or what you would do if you were me, by the by.

As I'm a golden rule follower, I expect you to be sincere in your comments. Thank you!


The only thing I see wrong (and I wouldn't have said it if you didn't ask and admit that you love grammar, etc.) is that with in should be within... but then you know that because of your previous sentence, so it must be a typo :wink:

"I have the ability, with in my job, to be constantly reminded of how wonderful my life is in comparison to where it could be."

Oh, and I thought your profile was lovely... and congratulations!

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:17 AM
Well I have read many of your comments and although many times brutaly honest, I happen to agree with a lot of your statements. Now that I know you work closely with criminals I see we have a lot in common. You pushing em through the justice system and me aiding and abetting them lol. Seriously nice profile

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:18 AM
Good catch on the typo.... OMG I'm SOOO embarassed! laugh

And thank you, I'm pretty thrilled. I was hoping that those that read it would understand why I am still here and in knowing that sharing good experiences is a needed thing in an area that is frought with bad experiences and/or negativity.

AHK's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:19 AM
Wow, sorry noway - just being honest as you asked - whatever chord I struck , didn't really mean to. Anyway I will be careful next time when I choose to be honest. Just know - no offense intended. Good luck.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:21 AM

Good catch on the typo.... OMG I'm SOOO embarassed! laugh

And thank you, I'm pretty thrilled. I was hoping that those that read it would understand why I am still here and in knowing that sharing good experiences is a needed thing in an area that is frought with bad experiences and/or negativity.


I agree... and yes, being as attractive as you are, you're bound to disappoint lots of men checking out your profile... such is life. This is JustSayHi.com, not JustLoveMeAndMarryMe.com... laugh

no photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:21 AM
The best one I've seen. Period.

I left you a little something....!

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:22 AM
:heart: :heart: AFTER LOOKING AT YOUR PROFILE I CANT HELP MYSELF.:heart: :heart: IM MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOU love love

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:23 AM

Wow, sorry noway - just being honest as you asked - whatever chord I struck , didn't really mean to. Anyway I will be careful next time when I choose to be honest. Just know - no offense intended. Good luck.


AHK-- See, I'm now wondering if you did read my profile. I am not at all offended and am asking you serious questions. If you choose to take direct questions as confrontational, I find that equally perplexing as your original statement.

I took your comments to be honest and was sincerely asking you to answer my questions in response. This is a forum, yes? To discuss things? Try taking me in this way: a poser of questions, requesting that you respond! Nothing more, nothing less. You take me way more seriously than I take myself... possibly! laugh

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:24 AM

The best one I've seen. Period.

I left you a little something....!

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


Ahh... Lex. smooched You know what that means to me, coming from you. Thank you, thank you, thank you! flowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:37 AM
Hi sweetie. Well first off I'll say I'm so glad you are already my friend! And that you are in love with a guy who was my friend before he met you. And you put a smile on his face again. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

As to your profile, I knew I liked you for a reason ... love the beach/ocean. Everything about it. woot woot!

Your profile is great .. as you are *hugs*

AHK's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:41 AM
I did read it, and it was beautifully written and shows that you are not only eloquent, but a romantic as well. A wonderful combination. And, I read and appreciated your comments on my question as well. You took the time and that shows who you are. I just looked frm my perspective and I am here to make a special connection not to have someone to chat with from accross the country. Just my thing and my bad in projecting that onto you.

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/06/08 11:53 AM
Fade-- Trust me, it is my utmost pleasure to put a smile on his face. flowerforyou Really... anytime! laugh

I am also glad we are already friends. I am a bit peeved I'm not on the east coast anymore, because I can't put that corny a*s line in my profile about long romantic walks on the beach and all that jazz. laugh



I did read it, and it was beautifully written and shows that you are not only eloquent, but a romantic as well. A wonderful combination. And, I read and appreciated your comments on my question as well. You took the time and that shows who you are. I just looked frm my perspective and I am here to make a special connection not to have someone to chat with from accross the country. Just my thing and my bad in projecting that onto you.


AHK: Thank you, and trust me I do understand where you're coming from. I hope you took some positivity from it as well... I truly wish you find that special connection. I believe I posted to a thread you started earlier this morning...

I know I found my connection when I stopped looking for one and thought I'd at least end up with a friend. Was I thrilled he lives in Oregon.... hecks no! But better a love in Oregon than none in Ohio is all I say. Distance is not a barrier, it's an obstacle. Those can be overcome.

I appreciate your candor. smokin

no photo
Wed 02/06/08 01:35 PM
Edited by Jistme on Wed 02/06/08 01:45 PM
Uhhhh.. I'm not sure if I understood... Does this mean you're taken?

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/06/08 02:41 PM
OFTLOG---- Do you people see what I am dealing with here??laugh

Zewi's photo
Wed 02/06/08 02:42 PM
i love your profile!!! keep it the way it is!!flowerforyou

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