So I clicked on that mutual match button thing. Where it shows you people's pictures and you pick yes, no, maybe? Can someone tell me why it's showing me women??!!?!?!?

Im not positive but I think it has something to do with your search preferences

have you changed the settings to male..if not you will get both sexes...go into settings its all there

I think it's broken....

Had the ? the other day..When all my critera was set for men.The onlyt thing I can figure is that anybody is allowed to email me..Even though I'm just looking for a man I have female friends as do many women..SO thats where I figure the clitch is.

that happens to some people, sometimes

yep....you gotta change the settings....

It's because Mirror wants to be your Mutual Match, and he hasn't decided whether he's male or female yet today!

Got it. I clicked on search and it said I was a male. Oh well, I found out my friend back home has a jsh account. Brought her up as one of my matches! lol. Thank you all. And yeah, of course I'm good with female friends. I just like friends.

I looked at your profile and clearly says there that you're looking for a man. So the only other obvious thing to check is your search settings. I've seen that happen before. If that's not the problem, then I would suggest a note to Mike or one of the other admins.

As I understand it, Mutual Match works off the search settings, and not the mail filters (those are strictly to deal with incoming mail). You should ONLY get MM candidates from outside your search settings if that person has already pre-rated you as a Maybe or a Yes.

cause you are gorgeous and i intentionally over rode system to be only guy you see hjahaha

Thank you, Lex. That information explains a bit more. It's nice to understand what precisely is going on, and I'm sorry to say, I'm pretty computer illiterate.

it knows what your really interested in, dont fight the feeling!

lol thanks dark. and nice try Kalamazoo, I knew that was gonna come from some corner. It was inevitable.