Topic: Why do women never approach men?
PublicAnimalNo9's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:47 PM
I dunno man, I get hit on all the time, so I can't help ya theredrinker

chuck366's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:47 PM

they always expect the man to make the 1st move and he might be exactly who they want but since he didnt make the move u let him go. It doesnt make any sense????


Thats not 100% true.

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Mon 02/11/08 04:47 PM
because women suck.

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:48 PM

lol...Ladies, this is our time. Walk up to the man, buy him a beer, make conversation, ask him to dance. Be bold and straight up with it.







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Fade2Black's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:48 PM

they always expect the man to make the 1st move and he might be exactly who they want but since he didnt make the move u let him go. It doesnt make any sense????


I think it makes perfect sense glasses

chuck366's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:48 PM

I never approach a man when I am out, I want a strong and confident man... if he's not, I'll throw him back in the pond anyway.... this just weeds the weak ones out.


Strong confident men get hit on, so u should start. You snooze u lose:wink:

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Mon 02/11/08 04:50 PM


I'm 5'3" if you are intimidated by me..... you are intimidated by alot.


I just have to say this..and PLEASE its NOT meant in a bad way..hopefully in the advise it is meant....

Some very strong guys can be shy and even a little insecure when it comes to women..its a natural and very common thing.

I think many men MAY not approach you due to attitude and the "chip" that is rather apparent on your shoulder.

Again, just an observation..not a cutdown or ANYTHING meant bad. bigsmile flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 02/11/08 04:51 PM

because women suck.



and that's a BAD thing!!!??? noway noway noway :tongue: :tongue: drinker drinker laugh laugh flowerforyou


OK. I'll TRY to behave now... bigsmile drinker laugh flowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:51 PM


I never approach a man when I am out, I want a strong and confident man... if he's not, I'll throw him back in the pond anyway.... this just weeds the weak ones out.


Strong confident men get hit on, so u should start. You snooze u lose:wink:


I am sure they do, but if they aren't willing to walk across the bar to talk to me.... oh well.... someone else will..so they snooze they lose.

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Mon 02/11/08 04:53 PM

I am sure they do, but if they aren't willing to walk across the bar to talk to me.... oh well.... someone else will..so they snooze they lose.

Because you're worth their time, but they're not worth yours? Way to be a selfish jerk!

Lily0923's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:55 PM



I'm 5'3" if you are intimidated by me..... you are intimidated by alot.


I just have to say this..and PLEASE its NOT meant in a bad way..hopefully in the advise it is meant....

Some very strong guys can be shy and even a little insecure when it comes to women..its a natural and very common thing.

I think many men MAY not approach you due to attitude and the "chip" that is rather apparent on your shoulder.

Again, just an observation..not a cutdown or ANYTHING meant bad. bigsmile flowerforyou flowerforyou


It's funny that someon who doesn't know me from Adam thinks I have a chip on my shoulder, if you ask my friends or people who really know me, they will tell you that I am kind, and sweet and always willing to talk to anyone who would approach me...except the cheesy "hey baby" types.

however I am also very confident, and alot of time it comes across as a "chip" to the ones who don't have the inner strength and courage to aproach me, and again I am ok with that.

hellkitten54's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:57 PM
I got sick of waiting on someone to approach me, gotta go after what you want.devil smokin

jtitol's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:57 PM
see the thing is if a man approaches most of the time we just wants to sleep wiv u and then when he achieve his goal see ya.

Lily0923's photo
Mon 02/11/08 04:58 PM


I am sure they do, but if they aren't willing to walk across the bar to talk to me.... oh well.... someone else will..so they snooze they lose.

Because you're worth their time, but they're not worth yours? Way to be a selfish jerk!


they are worth my time, when they have made that walk...

I'm selfish because I expect a man to approach me...so be it then...I'm selfish...and what is wrong with that? At least I admit it.... I know what I want in a man, and I'm not willing to sacrifice it...just to be with "someone" and not "the one"

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Mon 02/11/08 04:59 PM

they are worth my time, when they have made that walk...

I'm selfish because I expect a man to approach me...so be it then...I'm selfish...and what is wrong with that? At least I admit it.... I know what I want in a man, and I'm not willing to sacrifice it...just to be with "someone" and not "the one"

THE WORLD NEEDS MORE SELFISH PEOPLE LIKE YOU!

Lily0923's photo
Mon 02/11/08 05:00 PM

see the thing is if a man approaches most of the time we just wants to sleep wiv u and then when he achieve his goal see ya.


well, good thing I don't sleep with random guys I meet at a bar...unless that is all I want....but if I do sleep with a guy from a bar... I don't call or answer the next day....

chuck366's photo
Mon 02/11/08 05:00 PM



I never approach a man when I am out, I want a strong and confident man... if he's not, I'll throw him back in the pond anyway.... this just weeds the weak ones out.


Strong confident men get hit on, so u should start. You snooze u lose:wink:


I am sure they do, but if they aren't willing to walk across the bar to talk to me.... oh well.... someone else will..so they snooze they lose.


Or you could be alone a long time, I like the odds otherwise

chuck366's photo
Mon 02/11/08 05:01 PM

I got sick of waiting on someone to approach me, gotta go after what you want.devil smokin


drinker

hellkitten54's photo
Mon 02/11/08 05:01 PM


they always expect the man to make the 1st move and he might be exactly who they want but since he didnt make the move u let him go. It doesnt make any sense????


I'm pretty sure that if you get up off the couch in your momma's basement? You're chances will greatly improve in this department.


laugh laugh laugh

Lily0923's photo
Mon 02/11/08 05:01 PM


they are worth my time, when they have made that walk...

I'm selfish because I expect a man to approach me...so be it then...I'm selfish...and what is wrong with that? At least I admit it.... I know what I want in a man, and I'm not willing to sacrifice it...just to be with "someone" and not "the one"

THE WORLD NEEDS MORE SELFISH PEOPLE LIKE YOU!


It would make life alot easier that is for sure..... no head games, no wishy washy people...know what you want and don't settle for less..... I can see it now..... the angels would sing I think.