Ok so I was thinking about this earlier. What kind of baggage can someone have in their life to make you not want to date them? Too many kids? Crazy ex? Meddling moms? Discuss!!

Living with a Blow up doll and eating pigs feet are the 2 that come to mind!!

hepatitis C

Didnt they just make a movie about a guy who lived with a blowup doll?? Where he thought it was a real person etc...?

To many suitcases and shoes

too much negativity and indecisiveness.

hey kojack - a woman can never have too many shoes!!!!

I agree. Shoes are my life.

Out of the three, the ex is the only baggage I wouldn't deal with. Moms I know how to handle as for kids, if she can handle me the rest will follow

I've already done all three!!
Never did meddling probation officer though....

......keep going. So much baggage that 8 full sized moving tractor trailers couldn't haul it all. Then there's the skeletons in her closet. She has so many it resembles a freaking graveyard. Oh and while were at it how about her neurotic defensive tendencies that pop up so much you can't even have a normal conversation without her wigging out and A:SCREAMING and/or B:CRYING? How about her constant neurotic insecurities? My boobs too small, my feet too big, my ass too fat and just won't freaking let it GO! Yeah a prozac whore makes me run in the opposite direction. And how about those kids? Why should I be made to feel guilty because you conceived children? Why should I be held responsible for your actions? And why should I have to put up with your retarded ex's? I'm not the one who decided to sleep with the scumbag. WTF?

I like this subject. Shall I continue?

Please do Kyle....you are keeping the day entertaining!!

And how about your being a slut! Um uh if you can count on your fingers and toes how many people you've slept with that's fine. If you need a calculator and a calendar your a f*cking slut! Hello? Unless you are a porn star or have a medical condition such as nymphomania I personally feel sex is not a contest to see how many sleeping partners you can aquire! A big turnoff for me are women with a big rubber stamped EASY! Across their forehead! And we can all agree because every town has an EASY! She's at the bar every friday night, drunk, shakin it, and takes someone new home with her every weekend. Yuk!

someone forget to take their happy pill??

can u say - yup! lol

It would depend, I guess.

Hmmm ... I suppose it isn't any one thing so much as once they start to add up. I can deal with baggage, we all have some, but once enough of it starts to pile up, one has to assume that all of this craziness didn't collect around her by coincidence.

And the #1 baggage I despise and won't tolerate one bit is condescending blamers who refuse to take responsibility for their own actions. If I hear just once that its "Somebody elses fault" for any of YOUR actions or behavior on a date with me- dates over. Because trust me I don't have time to listen to you blame your parents/siblings/ teachers/ counsellors/ freinds/ ex boyfreinds/ ex husbands/ ex lesbian lovers/ your dog/ cat/ guinea pig/ pastor/ mailman/ the "cops"/ the "judge"/ your lawyer/ your electrical appliances FOR YOUR anger/ depression/ DWI's/ pregnancies/ alcohol & drug problems/ weight problems/ freind problems/ health problems/ mental health problems/ feminine hygiene problems/ car problems/ and every other freaking problem you can fathom and imagine and create in your mind!!!!!!! And do you know WHY I refuse to tolerate it? For two reasons. #1 BECAUSE IT MAKES IT EASIER FOR YOU PSYCHOS TO MAKE ME YOUR SCAPEGOAT AND BLAME EVERYTHING IN THE WHOLE ENTIRE UNIVERSE ON ME!!! AND I DON'T PLAY THAT!!! And #2 BECAUSE IT DICTATES HOW YOU ARE GOING TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WASTING IT BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE FOR YOUR MISGIVINGS AND YOUR ACTIONS!!! And I'm sorry I've got better things to do than listen to you whine, complain, and blame. I've got a life to live, to appreciate and love. I have my freedoms I fought so hard for to celebrate. And I've got only one life to live and I intend to live it to its fullest with no regrets.