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      Hi All
 Im usually a pretty upbeat person, but lately Ive just been pretty down- lonely I guess. And Im sure its just a temporary rut, but any tips on how to get out of this rut- or on how to distract oneself while going through it? Thanks | |
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      I think everyone is allowed to have a few lonely moments.....   | |
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      just find a cute neighbor
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|      big hugs       I've heard it's a very common thing around this time of year, since it's not very sunny. Try some light therapy   | |
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      Just know you arent the only one going through it and that it will pass!
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      You're doing it right now Sweets.
  I said "doing it". | |
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|  I feel ya...I just had a killer one tonight. I just took a walk for about an hour. Guess what? Didn't help.   | |
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      I find smashing things with a large 25lb sledge hammer tends to break me from the lonelyness. Mainly fruits, sometimes vegetables, depends on how far i can get them from the hospital.
 I've already said to much.... | |
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      Join in on the forums I promise you won't be sad   | |
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| You're doing it right now Sweets.  I said "doing it". oh baby oh baby | |
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      Actually chatting doesn't help much, but surrounding yourself with other people in person seems to a bit... as long as you're not surrounding yourself with a bunch of happy couples cuz it sucks when I do that.
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|  I feel ya...I just had a killer one tonight. I just took a walk for about an hour. Guess what? Didn't help.    lol!   | |
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|  I feel ya...I just had a killer one tonight. I just took a walk for about an hour. Guess what? Didn't help.   Dave!! I was reading some of your posts from earlier today. My. you were really "on" this afternoon. Wish I had been there. | |
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      whew....
 i seen the word "periods"and it scared me | |
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| Hi All Im usually a pretty upbeat person, but lately Ive just been pretty down- lonely I guess. And Im sure its just a temporary rut, but any tips on how to get out of this rut- or on how to distract oneself while going through it? Thanks This is going to sound odd...but I rearrange furniture. It helps! Its laborous and uses a lot of creativity (esp. when you rearrange you house as often as I do)   | |
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      Wonderfullllllll.....
 my roommate feels the need to webcam with his girlfriend again. Here it comes again.     | |
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| Actually chatting doesn't help much, but surrounding yourself with other people in person seems to a bit... as long as you're not surrounding yourself with a bunch of happy couples cuz it sucks when I do that. hmm..I find the opposite..chatting with the maniacs in the forum makes time fly and distracts me from anything that might be bothering me. | |
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      Thanks so much for all the suggestions. I just have to keep telling myself its only temporary.
 thanks again | |
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      carnal pleasure may work
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|  I feel ya...I just had a killer one tonight. I just took a walk for about an hour. Guess what? Didn't help.   | |
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