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Take this how ever you want to
 This makes me  I see this alot on this site and it's something i have no respect for when a Man/Women is trying to date someone knowing there taken. Where is the respect in this?If the Man/Women had respect for the person there interested in and knowing there in a relationship. They leave that situation alones untill the person has delt with it. I think it's messed up that someone put themselves in between a relationship and that it's self well cause the person thats in the relationship to make uncertain choices and it's not fair to the third party. If you respect the person then you will leave them to make there own choices. You want to know what respect is? Last night I was at a friends house and enjoying a bomb fair and a couple drinks. There this girl that he has known for a few years and been wanting the friendship to become more but doesn't know how she feels about him, if it would go further or not. Long story, but I was getting at is. I showed up there and after talking to her for a bit and even he noticed and we talked aboiut it. I could of if I really wanted to, had sex with her. Did I flirt with her, NO did I lead the conversation that way, No. What i'm getting at, is i gave my friend the respect of being a friend and i could of done what some of his so call friends have done already. I have no interest in putting myself in between any relationshp. No matter if the person wants me or not. So before you make an choices if your in this situation. Think about if your the third party and how would deal knowing someone is moving on you othere half  |
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Take this how ever you want to This makes me I see this alot on this site and it's something i have no respect for when a Man/Women is trying to date someone knowing there taken. Where is the respect in this?If the Man/Women had respect for the person there interested in and knowing there in a relationship. They leave that situation alones untill the person has delt with it. I think it's messed up that someone put themselves in between a relationship and that it's self well cause the person thats in the relationship to make uncertain choices and it's not fair to the third party. If you respect the person then you will leave them to make there own choices. You want to know what respect is? Last night I was at a friends house and enjoying a bomb fair and a couple drinks. There this girl that he has known for a few years and been wanting the friendship to become more but doesn't know how she feels about him, if it would go further or not. Long story, but I was getting at is. I showed up there and after talking to her for a bit and even he noticed and we talked aboiut it. I could of if I really wanted to, had sex with her. Did I flirt with her, NO did I lead the conversation that way, No. What i'm getting at, is i gave my friend the respect of being a friend and i could of done what some of his so call friends have done already. I have no interest in putting myself in between any relationshp. No matter if the person wants me or not. So before you make an choices if your in this situation. Think about if your the third party and how would deal knowing someone is moving on you othere half  Absolutely on target babe. 
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very well put shadow...
I have noticed that not only here but all over the place, including off the net. people just don't seem to give a rat's ass any more (generally speaking) about that third person. It's a total shame. |
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very well put shadow... I have noticed that not only here but all over the place, including off the net. people just don't seem to give a rat's ass any more (generally speaking) about that third person. It's a total shame. It is a sham! yeah it's on and off the net and in todays world people take life as a joke untill it smakes them in the face. |
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I completely agree. What is very sad is people in here, who are obviously taken and only here for the forums... get mails from members asking if they are interested, or even just send flirtacious messages with compliments and not just friendly overtures. Sometimes they guise it in the form of friendship, and others are blatant and say to "hit them up" if things don't work out.
That is in such poor taste. What happened to the golden rule? 
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bravo
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And people wonder what the real reason is for the divorce rate being so high any more...
I am glad to know you did not step on your friends toes last night. At least there's two of us that believe that way... |
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I completely agree. What is very sad is people in here, who are obviously taken and only here for the forums... get mails from members asking if they are interested, or even just send flirtacious messages with compliments and not just friendly overtures. Sometimes they guise it in the form of friendship, and others are blatant and say to "hit them up" if things don't work out. That is in such poor taste. What happened to the golden rule? Lilith -- Ironically enough (or perhaps not?), the "Date Married Women" ad showed up above your post when I clicked on this thread. I'm no fan of marriage, but this sort of advertising just seems really cheap and sleazy.... |
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What happened to the golden rule? noway lol the golden rule has been changed to the following: whoever has the gold, makes the rules |
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What happened to the golden rule? noway lol the golden rule has been changed to the following: whoever has the gold, makes the rules Interesting you joke about that. In psychological testing, that answer is known as the "sociopath's response". 
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absoulutely 100% agree.
the other thing is,the people who aretrying to take them away, they dont think about the fact that even if they were to leave you for the new person, what would then stop them from leaving the new person for someone else. ONCE A CHEETER ALWAYS A CHEETER. so why would you encourage that behaviour?? very well stated shadow. |
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i flirt, i act silly, etc.... hell, i even act silly/flirt with the ladies. its all in fun. but never and i mean never would even think of pursuing someone who is taken nor would i pursue someone who i know someone else is interested in them or they are interested in someone else. i would never want to put any confusion into the situation and i think its just wrong.
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i flirt, i act silly, etc.... hell, i even act silly/flirt with the ladies. its all in fun. but never and i mean never would even think of pursuing someone who is taken nor would i pursue someone who i know someone else is interested in them or they are interested in someone else. i would never want to put any confusion into the situation and i think its just wrong.  and you lick my pants... well stated madame
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I have MUCH respect for u Shadow, i have seen the same situation with others and myself, and have seen it go both ways. I was married for 13 years and I never cheated and as far as I know, niether did my ex ( we both had chances and even though our marriage wasnt the best at the time, we both chose respect for each other and walked away!)there are PLENTY of singles out there to pick from, why cross that line of stabbing someone in the back!!!
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I completely agree. What is very sad is people in here, who are obviously taken and only here for the forums... get mails from members asking if they are interested, or even just send flirtacious messages with compliments and not just friendly overtures. Sometimes they guise it in the form of friendship, and others are blatant and say to "hit them up" if things don't work out. That is in such poor taste. What happened to the golden rule? I agree with you. Well where I stand on all of this is, i have no respect for anyone on here thats puts themself in this situation. This is one of the reason why the internet is a little hard to actually meet people. |
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i flirt, i act silly, etc.... hell, i even act silly/flirt with the ladies. its all in fun. but never and i mean never would even think of pursuing someone who is taken nor would i pursue someone who i know someone else is interested in them or they are interested in someone else. i would never want to put any confusion into the situation and i think its just wrong. and you lick my pants... well stated madame hmmmm did i just lie since i told brad he had to share? lmao
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nonono, thats different.
i flirt, i act silly, etc.... hell, i even act silly/flirt with the ladies. its all in fun. but never and i mean never would even think of pursuing someone who is taken nor would i pursue someone who i know someone else is interested in them or they are interested in someone else. i would never want to put any confusion into the situation and i think its just wrong. and you lick my pants... well stated madame hmmmm did i just lie since i told brad he had to share? lmao |
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good stuff hun
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i agree-
thank you for the post and sharing your feelings |
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Edited by
TheShadow
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Tue 03/04/08 08:58 AM
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i flirt, i act silly, etc.... hell, i even act silly/flirt with the ladies. its all in fun. but never and i mean never would even think of pursuing someone who is taken nor would i pursue someone who i know someone else is interested in them or they are interested in someone else. i would never want to put any confusion into the situation and i think its just wrong. Thats the way i am. So when i see post that say I have a Guy/Girl that is taken and I want to inertfere with it. I say get a life |
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