Sorry Shadow is says nothing except he got screwed over so he's generalizing all women... As a matter of fact I'd say he's one of those a$$hole guys he says ALL women like.. Let's see how many dates he gets from this post...

......you forget. We are not nice guys and noone wants us. Everyone close to us won't even talk to us or reply. What a joke.

What the hell is this? The First Official Church of Low Self-Esteem?

What the hell is this? The First Official Church of Low Self-Esteem?

And what about your answer princess?

What the hell is this? The First Official Church of Low Self-Esteem?

Dude I don't know but it's just stupid.. I'm only staying to defend ALL WOMEN b/c ALL WOMEN are B*TCHES...

to what question waterloo I've been typing my a$$ off over here..

what is the tith.... self emasculation???

longhair what about the women that want you that you don't want????? come back with that answer

As I look over the many profiles here, the one thing that I see a lot is: Where are all the nice guys, or just looking for a nice guy, or are all the nice guys taken, etc… you get the idea.

So what happened to all the nice guys?

The answer is simple: You did.

Think back, really hard and maybe you will vaguely remember a nice guy who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He would tag along with you when you went shopping. He would stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely, but didn't feel like going out. He would even sit there and hold you and listen while you sobbed and told him about how much of an asshole the other guy that you were ****ing was.

Perhaps at the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how much he was like a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him.

They may have even teased you a little because they thought he had a crush on you. Of course you denied having any romantic feelings for him, and claimed that you were "just friends."

Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was maybe a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your nice guy buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, since you weren’t dating him.

More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship.

So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, What happened to all the “nice guys“?

Well, once again, It was you.

You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive “nice guy“.

Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open, or make dinners just because, or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned that you really wanted five months ago, or listen when you were upset, or held you when you cried.

He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the asshole boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be.

Fact is now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that.

I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of "nice guys" in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of “nice guys” stumble into their lives, if that.

So ladies, if you're looking for the “nice guy“, here's what you should do:

1.) Build a time machine.
2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.
3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab a hold of it.

I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a “nice guy“, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

That is, if you were five years younger.

So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've ****ed yourself over. After all your getting older. It's time to can the bull**** and deal with the reality.

You didn't want a “nice guy” then, and he certainly doesn't ****ing want you now.

On the other hand. The nice guy might still be right here, perpetrating a badass just to see what you will do.


The Outlaw Wolf

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