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Topic: why are you so rude?????
duckman2921's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:13 PM
Edited by duckman2921 on Sat 03/08/08 01:14 PM
Just a comment If someone emails or initiates a conversation with you on this site and you are interested or not do you reply to them or not... do you ignore them or write back? Do you tell them thanks or no thanks?

Do you build yourself up just to let others down, why are you here if you are not going to communicate with others...after all it is "just say hi"... for example mutual match?????? why bother?mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad mad :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:14 PM
Have the decency to answer an email and say yes or no. It is rude to ignore someone

Be honest, can't hurt

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:14 PM
smokin Who was it? smokin What her name ?smokin

beccaloveslife's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:14 PM
If I don't wanna talk to someone I still just say Hi. Its just polite.

Gumbyvs's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:15 PM
There are quite a few bitter people on here, that are looking for the perfect man, even if you're close, you're still not perfect. So a lot of them don't reply back, and just hope you go away.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:15 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Sat 03/08/08 01:19 PM
smokin Was it a lurker or a forum dweller ??smokin

duckman2921's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:16 PM
just dont understand the internet public>>>>huh huh huh huh huh

no photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:16 PM
I gave up on writing to anyone here ages ago. If I wanted to be ignored, I could have stayed married.




lulu24's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:16 PM
why is it rude to not answer? why do we owe complete strangers our time? why do we feel absolutely compelled to send out words to someone we've never met nor talked to?

i don't always answer...and i never will. i don't always answer my phone, either...nor return messages.

if there's a question or concern about the site, then i'll answer. other than that...it's hit or miss.

Gumbyvs's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:17 PM
Mutual match is kinda like playing russian roulette with a shotgun. No matter what happens, your head is gonna be hurting.

ultimatecountrygirl's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:17 PM
i dont ignore anyone...I answer, but i do let them know if I aint interested right off the bat if they want more than friends...

hunter870's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:17 PM
some people just go on looks and dont bother to try and get to know anyone befor they pass judgement,it happens to all of us.drinker just have a drink and figure oh well their loss and go on looking.thats the easy way of looking at it.smokin drinker

evilolive's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:17 PM
random question... how does mutual match even work... i mean, where do those people come from? they just seem to show up once in awhile and you have to say yes/no/maybe... how can you decide without chatting?
am i missing something?

no photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:17 PM
I right back tell them no thanks sorry and i accept them to do the same but they never do grumble grumble grumble

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:18 PM
lot of people are like that, it's the internet!! Don't bother with the Mutual Match, give it time though, this is a great place, filled with great people..:smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:18 PM
flowerforyou Who was it ??flowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:18 PM
It depends on how the "hi" is delivered, if it is in an email that is polite and non raunchy, yes, I respond, if it is interlaced in trash talk..no.

Besides where is it written that someone has to respond to every e-mail?

Just because I have a phone doesn't mean I have to answer it, and just because I have a front door doesn't mean I have to answer it either.... If someone doesn't answer my e-mail... oh well. NEXT. drinker

misty_57's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:18 PM
Very rude not to at least say hi back. They can always turn out to be a great friend flowerforyou

duckman2921's photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:19 PM
you are in an internet forum of communication to other adults that have joined for the purpose of getting to know others why would you be here if you were not going to communicate too...????????????????????

no photo
Sat 03/08/08 01:19 PM
well i get a lot of emails saying do you fancy a shag etc, and i ignore those. why would i waste my time and talk to men like that.

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