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Topic: once cheater always a cheater?
LadyOfMagic's photo
Fri 03/14/08 11:20 PM
I don't believe in that "Once A Cheater Always A Cheater" thing..because I have a relative that cheated on his first wife the entire time they were together..the cheating even resulted in children being born..BUT..Now that he is with his latest wife(The one he cheated WITH)..He doesn't cheat anymore..It all depends on how much you care for someone as to if you are willing to change for them.

davidben1's photo
Fri 03/14/08 11:44 PM

seems blame, excuses are the only suspect that make anything stay the same, and not change to find it's own happiness

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Sat 03/15/08 12:02 AM

I don't believe in that "Once A Cheater Always A Cheater" thing..because I have a relative that cheated on his first wife the entire time they were together..the cheating even resulted in children being born..BUT..Now that he is with his latest wife(The one he cheated WITH)..He doesn't cheat anymore..It all depends on how much you care for someone as to if you are willing to change for them.
how do you know he isnt cheating on this one???? a leopard doesnt change his spots........eventually he will...if he isnt already!!!

adj4u's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:16 AM
i have not cheated on a partner

but i do not necessarily agree with the title of this thread

there may be many reasons for someone to cheat

just as it takes two to make it work

it usually takes two to screw it up


the key word is usually

if both are happy then maybe they would not of cheated in the first place

and one key element is the only person you can withhold sex from is yourself

just a thought but hey what do i know

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:17 AM
flowerforyou If you cheat once it doesnt neccesarily mean you will do it again.flowerforyou

wickedlluccy's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:24 AM
frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown frown ...cheating is about the person cheating....not the one cheated on ! The "will they do it again" still always is about, did they resolve the issue in them/self that made it happen in the first place....a weakness in character is just that, nothing more nothing less.......indifferent indifferent indifferent indifferent



:heart:~wicked~:heart:

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:25 AM

I don't think you can ever generalize about anything about anyone. People make mistakes; people change.



glasses Agreed. Sh*t happens. Yanno?

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Sat 03/15/08 11:27 AM
I heard somewhere that there is a "cheating" gene!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

bad_girl's photo
Sat 03/15/08 11:36 AM
Cheating happens and if the partner that was cheated on can forgie then so be it

I was cheated on and couldn't forgive because it was my "so called best friend" and she laughed about ithuh

But all ended well, they now have three laugh laugh snot nosed brats and three snot nosed grandkids as well, so I am glad it ended like it did.

Whoops did I sound happy about that, yep I didlaugh

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Sat 03/15/08 12:59 PM

So when you start talking to someone online, do you ever ask or tell about how their previous relationship ended? do you ask if they were unfaithful? do you tell them if you were? does it matter? what if it was once? does that make a difference?

Give me your opinions! I want to know. :)


and then demand before the two of you get together that they must be willing to take a lie detector test given by a tester of your choice and they must be willing to pay for all test fees incurred

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 03/15/08 01:35 PM
Your mate can drive you into the arm's of another...looking for what you are not recieving. Then again, how important is it to you to not do what you believe is wrong?

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