IS IT TRUE ONCE A CHEATER ALLWAYS A CHEATER

yep

anything can change or we are all in big trouble

One a cheater always a cheater. I know from experience!!! Does not work the second time or third time, or any other time!!!

i think this thread has been done too

I guess I have a two strike rule,if it happens once maybe she'll get a warning If it happens again, it'll
be the last.

Guess I'm just to fogiving, Its a curse

amen to this.

i'm a MUCH different person than i was fifteen years ago...MOST of my values have changed...

People change, every situation is unique.

My opinion, what I've experienced, yes, once a cheater, always a cheater.

Good luck to you! ::smiles::

Well I guess when you turn 41 and have had it happen to you, then you do not tolerate it at all. To each their own!!! I now once a cheater always a cheater, like I said before. You choose what you want in life and it you want to deal with it or not. I would not!!!

*shrugs*

i cheated on lots of my earlier boyfriends...all with the same person. he died, life moves on...i got married...

i've never cheated again. sooo...what? 1994? that's a pretty darned long time...

i didn't say one should stay in a cheating relationship....one needs not luck if they do what they want, instead of trying to guess what is right or wrong....smiles

ever seen a ring plug a hole?

yepps
my ex hubby cheated on me before during and after we got married and then when we got divorced, maybe a few yrs later he was with his future wife which there married now, and they were having some issue at that time and they had a baby... well he came down to visit and you can figure what happen next with us... i eventually mailed her and she called me and accused me of lying, why on earth would i lie about that.. it was him that never told her the truth... and i dont know why she still stays with him.

must be west coast post time cause now cst its 353.... more whisky

if two people touch they are both effected....BOTH have the choice of reaction no matter who touched the other....if this is not true than what thing will be liable for it's own behavior

i have been cheated on myself and i won't go back because the trust is gone. I do know that people have made mistakes in their past and as long as they learn from them...I think they can change. My first boyfriend cheated on me, but we were young. I wouldn't go with him ever again but I know he is in a loving relationship now because he learned from his past

to the curb... some thing in life you just dont get a second chance at

for the most part its true,but there is always the chance of change,its just very very rare,but I have from experience seen a few people change,but like I said its very rare

No it's not true, and it's even more ridiculous to believe it.

People grow, their ideals, their self esteem, and self belief..

Besides, what's all this cheating crap anyways?

Takes two to make a relationship, and two to break it... the sooner the whiner who calls the Cheater card, owns their share of the failed relationship... the better.

I dont think it's necessarily the case...I dated this guy for a long time and I completely in love with him and then he broke up with me and decided he wanted nothing to do with me. I started dating another guy and we dated for a couple of weeks and then my ex wanted to get back together and I cheated on the new guy with him...I would never, ever do it again. I just loved the guy and I thought he loved me...which he didnt by the way.
So no I dont think once a cheater, always a cheater....but I do believe that after the first time, it just gets easier.