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Topic: what is it?
Brenda_Darling's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:20 PM
OK I've noticed this in the past couple of years. WHy is it that people ALWAYS go back to the exs? I've seen people go back after they went through head games, or emotinal and mental abuse, and once after physical abuse. they all had real reasons to leave them and never take them back. but WHY Do they go back to exs?

itsmetina's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:21 PM
maybe they cant find any1 better in bed i know mine wont

briank66's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:21 PM
Sam Kinison...!!!! smokin drinker

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:21 PM
Not me! When I've had enough, it's because I've learned enough.

aims84's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:21 PM
I think people go back because they know they can. Some people hate to be alone and would rather be unhappy and with someone than alone.

I just dont understand it.

ujGearhead's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:21 PM
I've never gone back with an ex. If it didn't work the first time why would it the second time?

68chevy's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:21 PM
I just sent mine a nasty email want to read it??? laugh laugh

no photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:22 PM

OK I've noticed this in the past couple of years. WHy is it that people ALWAYS go back to the exs? I've seen people go back after they went through head games, or emotinal and mental abuse, and once after physical abuse. they all had real reasons to leave them and never take them back. but WHY Do they go back to exs?


could it be that they're co-dependent? i think so, at least.

DrX's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:22 PM

maybe they cant find any1 better in bed i know mine wont


This is true, people under estimate the power of really good sex.

Winx's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:22 PM
Maybe it's all about hope. They hope it will be better next time.

wanttachat's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:23 PM
because there was something they fell in love with that they want back
sure I would love to have that feeling and companion again just not the person he turned into

angel_underground's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:24 PM
that's something that always happens:smile:

Queene123's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:24 PM
because there stupid.. im one of them. i was in a relationship for 3yrs even though he had a good heart he was emotional abusive, his step dad was that way so was his mom.. i broke up with him 3 times thinking he would change, and i kept going back the 4th time he came over and wanted to get back together and i told him i didnt think it would work,, 4months later he died...:cry:

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:24 PM

I think people go back because they know they can. Some people hate to be alone and would rather be unhappy and with someone than alone.

I just dont understand it.


what i dont get, is if u have some one who makes u happy and u make them happy, WHY go back to headgames and stuff??

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:25 PM
flowerforyou When its over, its over, for me flowerforyou

CleanBathroom's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:26 PM
An ex is comfortable and secure. Even if the relationship is toxic, people know how to function when they feel secure.

sad but true...

Oh BTW, memo to my ex's next husband: "Man is she screwed up now and YOUR WELCOME. The extra batteries are in the nightstand next to EVERYTHING I USED TO OWN."


itsmetina's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:27 PM
i'm done with all the abuse myself

SharpShooter10's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:28 PM
F the ex's

jonny63's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:30 PM

Maybe it's all about hope. They hope it will be better next time.

Winx, your glass is aways over half full isn't it?
happy flowerforyou

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sat 03/29/08 10:31 PM
every guy i've been with has either abused me in some form or was just looking for a rebound or a way to get his ex back, cuz the realtionship was all about headgames...and i got out of all of them before they got to serious bc of that...and have yet to think about going back...but Seriously, i had to talk one of my friends out of going back out with a guy who "loves Her" when he was sleeping around and messing with her head..

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