would you say has inspired you most on mingle?

you don't have to like me my wine and chocolate like me just fine

do better than me, keep your brother and sister close to you, and pick the right woman and look after her.

not at all

you have a good heart

The one thing that I can't press on enough is that these babies don't deserve to die. It's not fair that they should be denied a life. I know it's hard on these young mom's that had to go through this. They will need lots of councilling and support but killing there babies that is no answer. If they did do that, to Me they would be no better that those terrorists. Those terrorists don't care about life that is why they can take it so easily, a child's life is a special thing it's new and untainted by whatever happened to bring that life about, tthat life is innocent and to kill it would be truly a terrible act just like what those terrorists are doing.

ive seen some of the mens pictures on here and I can safely say the pictures were from the 1970s and some are actually black and white

If a couple to be trapped on a desert island with other people how long would it take do you think before mutations started happening In the children that were born on the island during let's say 5 years
Taking into account the island is big enough for about 5 couples and children born. Also there is a good food sorce. Plus they would spend a lot of time in the water.

following the bible and follow your heart instead, there are certain wrongs like abortion is murder, murder is wrong stealing is wrong, doing anything to hurt somebody else is wrong so why not follow your heart, instead of a book that well its not a good example of human nature. if there was a god would he not judge you on your real intentions not just what you were instructed to do by a book that has been bent to the desires of what man wanted you to read. (when I say man I mean mankind). when you raise kids you have to let them go and make decisions for themselves, you don't give them an instruction book on life and make them read it. the children will go of and be guided by there hearts need and want to be a good person. the ten commandments? is that not just common sense rules. im interested to know what you think about that.

people are really flawed so why would it be appropriate for people to teach other people about god and stuff. does that not mean the bible and the church well there void. but that is for another topic and I don't think you would want to hear what I have to say about that.

I seriously don't do the god thing because ive been burnt really bad by the church. I prefer to take a more natural direction, I give up my life to good eg not doing things to hurt anybody and to be a good humble wife one day hopefully and hopefully wont spend my afterlife roasting in an open bbq lol im only joking I don't need god to tell me to be a good person.

I watched the fault in our stars and I swear down I started crying at the first scene and I didn't stop till the end of the film.

I was just having a go at him because he said in an earlier post that I was a nasty minded person because of some dirty jokes I had done. my views are Christian views and life experience views but im not a Christian and I don't go to church. plus I don't judge anyone because I am as far from perfect as you can get, my flaws are many but my heart is in the right place and I mean well.

ps don't worry your doing a great job

STOP trying to be everything to everyone. remember your human not a machine. while you are raising these kids find short cuts to do things, for example your 15 year old everyday show him or her that you love them by doing something small eg make a sandwich for him or her (it might sound silly but trust me he or she will remember that) then everyday before bed or in the morning say I love you. again he or she will remember that. spend a day with your kids a week or every couple of days a real family day, you don't have to spend loads of money (I stopped doing that also even when they give me the sad eyes lol) the rest of the week show your there by telling them you love them but start concentrating on YOU and your life because if you fall apart what then eh. parenting is not hovering over your kids and giving yourself extra worry making yourself ill, parenting is making sure your kids know you love them regardless of how irritating they are sometimes, parenting is always being there as a stand post your children can come back to if there lost or if they just want comfort. so stop busting your balls and relax nobody is a perfect parent that's why our kids love us even when there shouting I hate you ( my son at the minute) your son loves you he is just more hormones than human at the minute lol. if he is not busting into cars or fighting he will be fine trust me. your kids will see you at your worst and your best because your always there, well it the same for them your just experiencing his worst. don't worry everyone's kids are annoying to them at some point, what your feeling is normal trust me I feel it when ive got no wine or chocolate in lol.

I have plenty of good views, its what make me not a nasty minded person!!!

abortion is murder, the baby didn't ask to be put there and they deserve life. who is anybody to put an end to a life because its not convenient to them raped or not raped. if you don't feel you can love that child then give the child up for adoption, don't end a special deserving life. that is just my view.

if the person watching that was blind all they would hear is squeak squeak squeak

ahhh I just got that lol your worse than me