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Fri 05/08/15 11:38 AM

I Came in silently 'through the window'... Walks out 'equally silently' through the 'door'...scared
get into the spirit of things it's a fun game. I played it today with a couple of friends and they go to church laugh

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Fri 05/08/15 11:33 AM


I thought of...Shaw skank redemtion, ghost the spit roast and ghost bootie rider. laugh



These names are of 'PORNO' movies? frustrated
no you have to come up with your own lol

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Fri 05/08/15 11:32 AM


Charlies anals



slaphead
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Fri 05/08/15 11:31 AM
Fifty shades of foreplay laugh

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Fri 05/08/15 11:29 AM
Charlies anals

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Fri 05/08/15 11:27 AM
Fun fun bags milonare laugh

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Fri 05/08/15 05:18 AM

woman I can't even remember my own name this time of morning let alone come up with a dirty name for a movie..or what da hell was this about again

now I gotta go back and re-read

where's my coffee grumble
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Fri 05/08/15 05:08 AM
Edited by mom333 on Fri 05/08/15 05:10 AM
I thought of...Shaw skank redemtion, ghost the spit roast and ghost bootie rider. laugh

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Fri 05/08/15 01:56 AM
everyone has something that makes them tick. mine is living as a 1950s housewife (without the racial abuse lol) cooking cleaning looking after the kids and my man etc. and I know there are a lot of men who think the same as me. im not weird though well I don't think so laugh

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Fri 05/08/15 01:50 AM

what do you think are acceptable age gaps for people in there 30s ?

Doesn't matter what I think.
It matters what you/they can make work.

You can decide you want to go after 60 year old dudes, but there is no guarantee you aren't just picking an older version of the younger people you have been dating.

is going too old though detrimental to the relationship though especially when children are involved?

There is no perfect relationship where it magically works where you are happy every day living in some kind of surreal fog of permanent bliss.

There is no magic person that you can just pick up and stick in your life where everything becomes magic and lollipops.

There are always going to be some favorable contributions and detrimental problems from any decision you make choosing anyone. Older, younger, same age, doesn't matter.

i think i need someone a lot older than me because i have seriously old fashioned views that kind of clash with a lot of people my age. you don't get many 30somethings with old fashioned ways lol

I really wish you started the thread with this.
I wonder what you think are old fashioned values.
Because in my experience this is never true.
At best it's an idealized version of interpreting stereotypes about "old fashioned ways."
Where people pick and choose which "old fashioned ways" work best for them.

you make some valid points. idealized I would say is incorrect though because I know men are not perfect nor women. but I do want to live a certain way. an older man will most likely understand because they might have had parents living that life and so some of the values might have rubbed of on them. im not saying all older men are like it but that is the point of searching for that one who wants the same sort of relationship as me.

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Thu 05/07/15 12:49 PM


what do you think are acceptable age gaps for people in there 30s ?


Well, if I am recommending specifically to you, I would say only consider a feller say 46 or 47.

bigsmile

:laughing: you can't blame a guy for trying!
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Wed 05/06/15 12:25 PM

mom333 stated >>>
its those women who have messed it up really, im thinking some men don't have a clue when it comes to women nowadays. i don't feel sorry for the pigs who think its ok to treat women bad but for those goodies out there it must be daunting now, especially for the ones who believe in the old ways where opening a door was commonplace. i don't care what anyone says when i walk past a building site and get the wolf whistles i start to strut lol. its not a confidence thing cus i know my behind is divine laugh its just nice to know im looking particularly good that day laugh


You 'rock it little woman'; gotta give them something to remember as you stroll down the street! :wink:


you daaaam right glasses laugh

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Wed 05/06/15 12:24 PM

mom333 stated >>>
really a woman without kids should get the equal pay if she don't take multiple days of like a mother, but that would be called discrimination. they just call it a pay gap.


Equal pay and days absent from a job aren't not the same thing, Mom! Yes, it will have an impact on your job evaluation at review time...but the same could be said for those who smoke and those that don't! Smokers were screaming about wanting/needing more smoke breaks then those that didn't during an 8hr shift --- to bad; that wasn't going to happen! Breaks happened at 10am and again at 3pm and then the laws changed and they couldn't smoke in the building they had to go outside {yes, even in the winter}...OMG, they really howled about that! Nothing to be done, either smoke outside or quit smoking that was the LAW!

But lots of places don't pay for any sick time; if you are gone you just don't get paid - period. No work - No pay that's the way it is for lots of hourly jobs and only the salaried/management are awarded those benefits --- but that too has changed greatly in the past 20+ years. Lots of benefits have disappeared.
when i worked in care i worked the odd weekend to create my holidays, i never got paid for sick days. a lot of families though round here the woman stays at home, the man works and soon after she has the baby she is back on the school run.

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Wed 05/06/15 12:09 PM
Edited by mom333 on Wed 05/06/15 12:12 PM


YellowRose stated >>>
You are correct about how the movement started. Like I said in my 1st post here that it seems to have gotten twisted and changed. Seems feminists these days want their cake and eat it too...plus take the man's cake. I think you are defending thr original movement (rightfully so) but others are referring to what it has warped into today JMO


Over on page#5 those 5 listed basic primary issues are still what the Feminist Movement has been & is about; certainly there are the fragmented/splinter groups that have gone 'hard-wired' off to support their own agenda and for some that's all the negative diatribes/rhetoric that they seem to hear {and it gets a lot of media press as well} but the original basis and foundation is still in place and the methods and functions still serve a purpose!
The evolution just seems to keep slipping when the message gets diluted and abused by misinterpretations and angry assumptions instead of factual knowledge and truth.

It definitely isn't a 'One Size Fits All Bandage'...that's for sure! I can remember friends getting pissed at me for allowing male co-workers the opportunity to open a door for me to walk through; --- Jesus, those women were just always looking for a reason to be mad about something! slaphead whoa
its those women who have messed it up really, im thinking some men don't have a clue when it comes to women nowadays. i don't feel sorry for the pigs who think its ok to treat women bad but for those goodies out there it must be daunting now, especially for the ones who believe in the old ways where opening a door was commonplace. i don't care what anyone says when i walk past a building site and get the wolf whistles i start to strut lol. its not a confidence thing cus i know my behind is divine laugh its just nice to know im looking particularly good that day laugh

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Wed 05/06/15 12:02 PM

mom333 stated >>>
feminism means the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of the equality of the sexes. that means complete equality. women get paid less because they/we are more likely to take days of to look after family, also mothers get paid less also because they have to take multiple days of to raise babies. im all for women getting treated with respect because I myself am a woman, but if I were an employer I would pay mothers less than the men because they are going to have to take time of and cost me money.


Part of the reason why we have the 'Family Medical Leave Act': fathers wanted to be able to stay home with sick/new babies as much as the mother was expected too! Shared parenting...so the 'sick days' just don't fall against one parents absentee check list and not the others --- doesn't always work out that way but for the most part it has improved shared responsibility 100% since the 80's IMHO
shared sick days for a couple that seems okay because the employers are not loosing out really

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Wed 05/06/15 11:58 AM


mom333 state >>>
If women want complete equality then you should be treated as a man would. That includes hearing the word slut because that is equal to a man with the word dog. You cannot demand to be treated like a lady then get offended when a man sees you as a lady. Men a d women are different that's just the way nature intended. I personally wouldn't want to live in a world where i was expected to spit like a man and open doors for him or use the same toilet cubicle. A man is a man and a woman is a woman . That is just my opinion though.


Geeze...not quite sure how the 'EQUALITY' for pay equated to standing at a urinal and spitting became the translation for what the 5 issues that the Feminist movement was about and has been but that's just really - really way off base!

Equal pay means exactly that; nothing more nothing less! There have been many instances where a highly qualified woman was hired to replace a male counter part and found out that her salary was lowered for no other reason then just her gender! If this happened to the male species of our human race --- well, I dare say that this wouldn't be tolerated and there'd be repercussions.

White collar jobs or blue collar jobs: if any one of any gender meets the qualifications for that position then they need to be paid accordingly - period.

Certainly there are job duties that not all body types are able to do: hence the reason that fire fighters have such rigid strength requirements for their jobs --- but there are women that pass those physical tests and many men that fail them...it's just part of the skill set.

Foul language and the use of ugly verbiage is a social issue and a personal choice; it most assuredly won't enhance getting ahead in any work place - especially with management but in a social setting among friends and what you call one another out of the work place is totally different then what one refers to a co-worker at the job! And yes, we've changed 'Polite Vocabulary' a lot in the past 40+ years; even my generation uses words now that we never would have thought to print growing up let alone mumble/mutter under our breath! LOL Getting our mouth washed out with soap for evening saying - 'CRAP' was lesson enough! LOL


You are correct about how the movement started. Like I said in my 1st post here that it seems to have gotten twisted and changed. Seems feminists these days want their cake and eat it too...plus take the man's cake. I think you are defending thr original movement (rightfully so) but others are referring to what it has warped into today

JMO
I just don't see how complete equality can work, men and women are way to different. some things yes but then things get blurred because we want to be treated like the ladies we are by the men we want to be equal with. it don't make any sense.

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Wed 05/06/15 11:54 AM

really a woman without kids should get the equal pay if she don't take multiple days of like a mother, but that would be called discrimination. they just call it a pay gap now because every woman is affected.

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Wed 05/06/15 11:52 AM
really a woman without kids should get the equal pay if she don't take multiple days of like a mother, but that would be called discrimination. they just call it a pay gap.

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Wed 05/06/15 11:43 AM
feminism means the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of the equality of the sexes. that means complete equality. women get paid less because they/we are more likely to take days of to look after family, also mothers get paid less also because they have to take multiple days of to raise babies. im all for women getting treated with respect because I myself am a woman, but if I were an employer I would pay mothers less than the men because they are going to have to take time of and cost me money.

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Wed 05/06/15 10:30 AM
Edited by mom333 on Wed 05/06/15 10:31 AM
If women want complete equality then you should be treated as a man would. That includes hearing the word slut because that is equal to a man with the word dog. You cannot demand to be treated like a lady then get offended when a man sees you as a lady. Men a d women are different that's just the way nature intended. I personally wouldn't want to live in a world where i was expected to spit like a man and open doors for him or use the same toilet cubicle. A man is a man and a woman is a woman . That is just my opinion though.