to Crystal fairy


LOL wow, well you right, I would think it would be about culture and what's accepted.


keep giving me more I like your responses

Debbie1980


wow its sounds like you have a lot of love and trust in your marriage.

way to go.......
don't let anything destroy your rare union....especially stilettos & thongs...lol

to Goofball73

wow we should hang to a strip club maybe the food is great ...I love good food but I like good looking women too.....lol

to Lamwholam1

well that's make you a good woman......the world could use more of you .....lol way to go mommy

to "mrjallenbrown,

you know homie I feel you on that.I always believe if your mate being token care of in every way at home, then it won't be no reason for her look at no other men especially " putting it her face" ...lol

to soufiehere

you would share the entertainment?

wow, where were you when I was dating?...lol

to my brand-new Opinion Minion favorite "Lamwholam1,

well some people don't think anything wrong with adult entertainment like strip clubs & porn is wrong. I found people sometimes watch together. Me , well I would be bothered, I don't think I'm strong enough to stomach my lady going to those events.

I guess you aren't going for that either...lol

unknown _romeo

okay I can see you a man of virtue you won't allow your woman to go to these clubs!

Good Day my friends of M2, your boy is back on top with his hot tea again with a another topic of interest. Now before I start, let me shot out my "Opinion Minions' for posting all kinds of opinions...keep it going its my fuel to post. Okay, this goes out to anybody that may be facing this or we just going to have fun with this & its just coffee house conversation. Scenario!, Okay lets say you dating someone , the chemistry seems to be wonderful. you head over heels( ladies) or Nikes ( us fellas) for your partner. One day, you mate tells you " baby, I'm going out with the girls tonight?" " Hey Baby , me & the boys want to paint the town red tonight". So you okayed it , not thing anything insecure about it or your mate never gave you any reason to think otherwise. Now people, out of every weekend posse there's always one out the bunch that will tell the other party for example" Hey $%^&, your girlfriend or wife going to the club with male strippers, how do you feel about that?" vice versa for us guys. Now you found out your mate is going to a strip club with men Or women putting it all in there face, dry freaking them & more! What would make matters worst, the image in your head showing you things you may not wish to see or vision. You tell yourself I trust my lover , I know they wouldn't do anything to jeopardize our relationship. But once again , how secure are you ? Better Yet let me ask you this my friends, for those who may be curious on how much fun your lover having you decide to call Him or Her) I don't know just see if they okay. You can't help but to hear all the enjoyment among her girls or fellas somebody just holla out something crazy...and now your blood is boiling & depends who you are you may be pissed or maybe you have a "2 can play that game" attitude. Or do you flat out dump them thinking " Oh he /she not for me! that Hoe!" or maybe you new aged, you figure its just entertainment, he/she will be sexually worked up , so by the time she/he gets to you the sex will be " Out The Water" good...So my M2 friends what's your thinking about allowing your mate to go to strip clubs? Is it a taboo in a relationship to attend this type of entertainment? Is It a sex enhancement among consenting adults? or Is a home wrecking, nasty, I have no business at this club , if my mate was to ever found out I was here he/she will get angry & i loose them activity? so spill it.....I 'm dying to hear your response to this one.

P.S. all who respond will defiantly get a response back , don't believe in leaving you hanging...okay!
show me love!

to Friendly_woman


lol...that's a another way at looking at it....lol but no, I think I handle that very civilized. Maybe I would morph to a lion......lol

to cajunman


rrrriiigihhtt......I mean I can compromise on a few things but her wild ways I just can't.

it was like dating a girl from jersey shore....snooki or somebody...lol

to my other favorite "Minion" Lamwholam 1

hey you , well I like how you see that too. thank god I haven't made children with her she was just a casual date which I started liking her but nothing too serious.......

to my boy Cajunman

you know what I feel the same way , let me give you example, you know all Muslims around the world would have to take a trip to the middle east for a huge mass prayer session once in there life. well supposed she wanted to take me with her not to the prayer grounds but afterwards and show me the sites and tourism. then a extreme Muslim or a country that think my faith as a Christian isn't holy and try to cast me out or kill me. I don't think I could accept that kind of treatment. could I honestly fall in love with a woman that her religion looks as mines as a so-call white man's religion, or evil, ot label my Jesus as just a man or prophet? no.....no.....Jesus is my savior, not a prophet! once you get pass the faith part, then its the personality difference. I'm settled, I like to hang with a few close friends, but I don't flirt when I'm involved or dating. I used to drink she drinks like a fish when she's drunk she get real crazy. so can you understand why I had to break it off with her. I mean it s was early so no hearts was broken

to "Mr. Duttoneer "

hi my friend, you know you right that's another way of putting I. I mean I don't have a problem being friends with another religion, I can respect those who are of other faiths but romantically , to me it seem to be a little hard to stay on my faith and learn or fet used to another. now remember I mentioned her fast lifestyle was too wild....so that didn't help much either.

my other favorite " Opinion Minion " cajunman1985,

lol I feel you on that one.....let me ask you this why any other religion than yours?

Hi MotownDowntown

hey you well I don't know, maybe we could of been friends but she was the type if I kept it friends and she was fallen quickly for me If I was to date after her she would feel some kind of way and sabotage my LOVELIFE....

Sassy Euro

well I'm not worry top much of my safety on phone chat I very well trained in martial arts and I have my savior to protect me. really I tried to look past the difference but with her lifestyle the way it was she didn't make things easier neither.

What's Up My Favorite Girl Ms. Harmony,

What's up my friend, I read your responses and you & me are on the right page. yeah it won't work and I truly believe in my lord as a Christian. I know some people who would just done the opposite. I do believe Jesus is mankind savior.......riiiigghhhtt

To Soufiehere

yes she seen my crazy fashion sense she loved it......lol

to ciretom

thank you for your view, I'm totally glad to hear I'm not the only one who stuck to his guns about my decision. don't get me wrong, I respect other religions.....I really do. I even can befriend or co work with Islamic folks rather they traditional middle eastern Muslims or American Muslims but far as being a companion romantically I can't. we would be uneven yolk.