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Topic: Would you stay married?
MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 07/04/08 06:17 PM
:smile: Would you stay married to someone you love but no longer find attractive? :smile:

kutiepie31's photo
Fri 07/04/08 06:17 PM
Edited by kutiepie31 on Fri 07/04/08 06:20 PM
hmmmmmm well if you love someone it shouldnt matter what they look like!

no photo
Fri 07/04/08 06:18 PM
do you mean like if she was in a car crash and she lost her hair?

YeaBigsexy's photo
Fri 07/04/08 06:18 PM
Isnt that an oxymoron?<EBONICShuh

kayak69's photo
Fri 07/04/08 06:19 PM
I sure would, if I was married, that means that I give my word and I don't go back on my word for anything.

Jules0565's photo
Fri 07/04/08 06:20 PM
of course.. everyone's appearance changes over time, as we age. did you marry the person based on their looks? I think not.. you married them for the person that they are..complete package.

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Fri 07/04/08 06:31 PM
of course...i wouldnt marry him for his looks...looks might change but inside he would still be the same..

iceprincess's photo
Fri 07/04/08 06:33 PM

:smile: Would you stay married to someone you love but no longer find attractive? :smile:


If you truly love them you'll find them attractive.

timo1026's photo
Fri 07/04/08 06:35 PM


:smile: Would you stay married to someone you love but no longer find attractive? :smile:


If you truly love them you'll find them attractive.


I agreedrinker drinker flowerforyou

flame1cutie's photo
Fri 07/04/08 06:38 PM
I wouldn't marry a person for their looks, their beauty is on the inside. You don't look on the outside for their good looks and strength it's all on the inside.bigsmile

iceprincess's photo
Fri 07/04/08 06:44 PM
Edited by iceprincess on Fri 07/04/08 06:45 PM
Looks fade with time just as some memories sharpen and dull with age. You find that what you once found attractive when you were young no longer appeals to you and what you once shied from now does. If you truly love someone somthing about them will always draw you in when that stops your in trouble so in answer to your ? if you no longer find someone attractive on some level then you no longer love them and no i wouldn't stay married

TheMissile's photo
Fri 07/04/08 09:07 PM


:smile: Would you stay married to someone you love but no longer find attractive? :smile:


If you truly love them you'll find them attractive.


+1 flowerforyou

bastet126's photo
Fri 07/04/08 09:10 PM
i take this to mean more than looks, attractive is so much more. some people can do very hurtful things that make them no longer attractive to us. so, speaking from experience, no i could not stay married to him. ohwell

Drivinmenutz's photo
Fri 07/04/08 10:04 PM
I see myself taking every other avenue of approach before ending a marriage. I guess the question is, why do i not find her attractive anymore? Did she let herself go physically to the point where she doubled in weight, wears sweats all the time, doesn't put on makeup anymore and always wears her hair up? Or is it because of some accident? Because i don;t think i would let my spouse let herself go to that extreme. I'd find ways to encourage her to still put some effort in maintaining her physical appearence. If worse comes to worse there is always counseling. If it were some accident.... honestly i really don't think it would effect my opinion...

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Sat 07/05/08 07:43 AM
i deff would. if i loved that person enough to marry him, then i would love him no matter what, and i would still stay with him.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 07/05/08 07:44 AM

:smile: Would you stay married to someone you love but no longer find attractive? :smile:


Of course I will stay married to you Mirror!laugh laugh flowerforyou

Tommo's photo
Sat 07/05/08 07:46 AM

:smile: Would you stay married to someone you love but no longer find attractive? :smile:


But surely if you love sombody, their inner beauty shines bright in your eyes and the physical beauty wouldn't be that relevent

Def03's photo
Sat 07/05/08 07:55 AM
If you truly loved that person that wouldnt matter. You would see all past that. Go for a walk and explain why so many people are still together

no photo
Sat 07/05/08 08:00 AM

:smile: Would you stay married to someone you love but no longer find attractive? :smile:

Ouch ....did you say LOVE...?.
Yes ,yes ......yes .

no photo
Sat 07/05/08 08:04 AM

i take this to mean more than looks, attractive is so much more. some people can do very hurtful things that make them no longer attractive to us. so, speaking from experience, no i could not stay married to him. ohwell

Some times ugly comes from the core out.....

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