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Topic: Why do you guy's
shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Mon 07/07/08 07:34 PM
come close and spend alot of time with a woman(a week, overnight's, calling often) and then back off?

sandra0607 Joined Mon 03/17/08 Posts: 250	Mon 07/07/08 07:36 PM
im curious too

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Mon 07/07/08 07:36 PM
cuz we women give in too damn easy

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Mon 07/07/08 07:37 PM
Yeah!! Give with it!!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 07/07/08 07:38 PM


Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 07/07/08 07:39 PM
As Janet Jackson, would say, That's the way love goes,

Texanese Joined Wed 06/27/07 Posts: 87	Mon 07/07/08 07:39 PM
come close and spend alot of time with a woman(a week, overnight's, calling often) and then back off? It's been my experience that guys like the chase. Once they get comfortable, they start looking for something/someone else to chase. When they're ready to settle down, they do with whoever they're comfortable with at that time. Doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason to it. At least, that's how it seems to me.

Alterego1961 Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 828	Mon 07/07/08 07:40 PM
I'v not had that opportunity myself, but I would guess they were either looking for something in a woman they did not find, or they were looking to get lucky and once they were satisfied they went on to new conquests!

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 07/07/08 07:40 PM
come close and spend alot of time with a woman(a week, overnight's, calling often) and then back off? for me it was the other way around

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Mon 07/07/08 07:41 PM
Not me but some men prefer the thrill of the chase. When they've caught someone. It's time for another chase

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 07/07/08 07:43 PM
Hmm. not me either, once I think I've found the one woman I'm meant to be with for the rest of my life that's it. I don't see a reason to back off etc, if it's meant to be then it is. However if it doesn't work out then it may be best to slowly move away who knows though.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Mon 07/07/08 07:44 PM
Actually that is a self experience. May be when the guys find out what the exact nature of that woman is.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Mon 07/07/08 07:44 PM
Not me but some men prefer the thrill of the chase. When they've caught someone. It's time for another chase This has been going on between us. We spend the week together, the weekend come's and he's gone. It doesn't help that I work weekend's.

pjdh1952 Joined Sat 02/09/08 Posts: 1161	Mon 07/07/08 08:04 PM
come close and spend alot of time with a woman(a week, overnight's, calling often) and then back off? Its a challenge to see if they can get what they cant have! Then for some, they get scared of giving up the freedom to do as they please.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Mon 07/07/08 08:06 PM
Maybe we don't want to give the impression of being clingy, needy, trying to smother, etc.

30andbored Joined Mon 06/16/08 Posts: 658	Mon 07/07/08 08:08 PM
don't really like the chase . . don't tend to chase . . but can't deny I like being comfortable

TheMissile Joined Wed 07/02/08 Posts: 395	Mon 07/07/08 08:15 PM
don't really like the chase . . don't tend to chase . . but can't deny I like being comfortable What he said

monkdog8888 Joined Sat 04/28/07 Posts: 783	Mon 07/07/08 08:17 PM
Not me but some men prefer the thrill of the chase. When they've caught someone. It's time for another chase This has been going on between us. We spend the week together, the weekend come's and he's gone. It doesn't help that I work weekend's. Then the week starts and he's back. Right. That's not running. Unless he has something going on on the weekends on the side. Then he's not runnin, he's cheatin.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Mon 07/07/08 08:21 PM
Not me but some men prefer the thrill of the chase. When they've caught someone. It's time for another chase This has been going on between us. We spend the week together, the weekend come's and he's gone. It doesn't help that I work weekend's. .......well it just seems you just answered your own question then.