Okay, I won't sugar coat this. I really like this girl from this site. I talk to her quite often but, she doesn't know I like her that way. Today she told me that a guy from my home town showed interest in her today on Mingle....I got upset but, didn't say anything to her about it and kept on talking. What should I do about all this? I'm SOOO scared about telling her I like her and I don't want to chase her away. I don't think she's ready for a relationship right now.... I'm like REALLY confused here....

tell her how your feeling and dont hold back

you can either do this one of two ways-

- tell her how you feel

or

- drop the whole thing and go onto something else.

i'm thinkin' the latter, as it's the least-painful of the two options. you're only gonna open yourself up to a bunch of crap if you try anything else.

i just told her.............hope you don't mind

I think you should go for it otherwise you might always wonder if she isn't interested its her loss

thats tough,but i would suggest you just tell her how you feel about her,but hope it all goes well for you man

what a sick pic

she will never know unless u tell her

Maybe I should just tell her and if she doesn't talk to me anymore cause of it...I guess I deserve the response....

its either all or nothing, gl!

She may want you to make the first move?? I would tell her what and how I felt and explain that she just want's to be friend's you can live with that or not?????Good Luck

You're gonna have to bite the bullet and tell her. Otherwise, you'll never know. If she hurts you I will turn her into a frog.

No doubt. Just tell her. If she feels the same, great. If she doesn't, you're still friends, at least for now. Who knows what he future might bring. At least it will plant the seed in her mind that you are out there and interested.

I think you should just spill you guts out to her and if she likes ya too, great, if not, at least you wont be wondering.

Better to know then not know.Liking someone more than they like you or them not liking you at all does hurt.But when you finally do find true love, theres not much of a better feeling than that.


Give it a try, or youll never know either way.

it's her loss, you don't "deserve it"...for you did nothing wrong, see it's your strength not a weakness, so tell her how you feel, and then if it goes south, then moofooga's got a great idea that can be used in a healing process.

HEY! that's not funny!

you'll never know if you don't ask. Go for it. Even if it doesn't work out do your best to stay friends.

maybe she wouldn't be looking for other guys if you told her the truth...

fly, i agree with this post.

Wise Darkowl1!