Topic: Is flirting on a dating site cheating?
OrangeCat's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:07 AM


if you aint with just one person.

it aint any kind of relationship at all.but too all there own

wiley's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:08 AM
I still think dating should be like ordering a pizza anyways. But that's just me.

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Thu 11/27/08 12:08 AM



First...I have a question about your Part 2 Question: Do all your boyfriends know about eachother?

Only 2 boyfriends. One guy knows because he is all laid back. The other guy doesnt know anything. I guess I better not tell him about the forums then. I only see the guys a few times a year when I travel to them or they travel to me. Im not ready to settle down with one guy right now because there are way too many guys out there in the world that I might like.


I consider what you are calling boyfriends are men that you are dating. To me a boyfriend is someone that is the only man in my life.

Not to me. A boyfriend is any guy that I kiss on the lips often. I do other things but thats the minimum. If Im lip kissing a guy then we are boyfriend girlfriend. I dont even lip kiss the guys who are just friends with benefits because Lip kissing in not a benefit.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:09 AM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Thu 11/27/08 12:10 AM


Scenario: you are in a fullfilling relationship . Why would you spend time in virtual world when real world is right there .
I think time spent away from your significant other is either one of two things , Shopping for something other than you have . Or escape into fantasy . Either one makes me think it's a kind of cheating , with time more than anything else . Hmmm I wonder if I made my case ?

You didnt read all the post in the thread (and I understand, why would you, too much about nothing). I am not in an exclusive relationship. Im in two fun relationships and I dont want to mess up my fun.

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Thu 11/27/08 12:10 AM



if you aint with just one person.

it aint any kind of relationship at all.but too all there own

It is what it is no matter how you define it. You can call my relationship whatever you wish but nothing changes what the guys and I do together.

OrangeCat's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:11 AM
laugh

ok I said to all there own



SharpShooter10's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:11 AM
Edited by SharpShooter10 on Thu 11/27/08 12:16 AM

If you are seeing someone and you find out that person is carrying on an online flirting relationship with some other person 500 miles away is that cheating? If your dating partner doesnt get sexual but just keeps the flirting to the forums does that make a difference in whether or not its cheating? If cows could fly would you have to scrape cottage cheese off your car after parking under a tree?

==============================part 2

All right Im going to add more to this op question.
I travel a lot and I have a couple of boyfriends that are far away. We met in person while I was traveling not on a dating site. I am curious if I flirt with guys on mingle forums if my boyfriends might get offended. Should I tell them I an here? I am afraid they would make an account and start drama. Is online forum flirting even real?
Depends on How it is done, NO it is not cheating if done correctly. Now, If you are trying to cyber bang them or somethin, that's just wrong. I flirt one here, but I sleep with just one. Don't think my flirting crosses any lines though.

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Thu 11/27/08 12:12 AM
Edited by Stacy1987 on Thu 11/27/08 12:12 AM
(4 up) One minute you are making fun of me and the next minute you are being nice so where do I put you on my naughty and nice list?

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:12 AM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Thu 11/27/08 12:16 AM
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Helping you find what it is you seek.

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When you cry.
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Just being there,
Through thick and thin,
All just to say, you are my friend.

wiley's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:13 AM




if you aint with just one person.

it aint any kind of relationship at all.but too all there own
:banana: Not if you ain't just one person.:banana:



rofl

OrangeCat's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:13 AM

(4 up) One minute you are making fun of me and the next minute you are being nice so where do I put you on my naughty and nice list?


I aint making fun of you
where you get this from??


you can put me where you wish.


yaya28's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:14 AM
yes it's cheating, I wouldn't be happy if I had a man and he was flirting with anyone...in person or online.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:14 AM

(4 up) One minute you are making fun of me and the next minute you are being nice so where do I put you on my naughty and nice list?
flowerforyou I believe in angels,flowerforyou

:heart: The kind that heaven sends,:heart:

flowerforyou I am surrounded by angels,flowerforyou

:heart: But I call them friends.:heart:

wiley's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:16 AM
I like cheese. indifferent

OrangeCat's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:16 AM
pickles

papersmile's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:16 AM
Not to me. A boyfriend is any guy that I kiss on the lips often. I do other things but thats the minimum. If Im lip kissing a guy then we are boyfriend girlfriend. I dont even lip kiss the guys who are just friends with benefits because Lip kissing in not a benefit.


you'll have sex with a guy who's nothing but a friend, but refuse to allow him to kiss you??

wow! WOW!! thank God i'm of another generation.

SharpShooter10's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:17 AM

I like cheese. indifferent
Cheddar!

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:17 AM
Frogs

OrangeCat's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:18 AM
toads

wiley's photo
Thu 11/27/08 12:18 AM
Do frogs like cheese too? indifferent