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Topic: Is flirting on a dating site cheating?
Stacy1987 Joined Tue 11/25/08 Posts: 216	Thu 11/27/08 12:18 AM
Not to me. A boyfriend is any guy that I kiss on the lips often. I do other things but thats the minimum. If Im lip kissing a guy then we are boyfriend girlfriend. I dont even lip kiss the guys who are just friends with benefits because Lip kissing in not a benefit. you'll have sex with a guy who's nothing but a friend, but refuse to allow him to kiss you?? wow! WOW!! thank God i'm of another generation. Its called a friend with benefits. You never watched sex in the city?

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Thu 11/27/08 12:19 AM
Not to me. A boyfriend is any guy that I kiss on the lips often. I do other things but thats the minimum. If Im lip kissing a guy then we are boyfriend girlfriend. I dont even lip kiss the guys who are just friends with benefits because Lip kissing in not a benefit. you'll have sex with a guy who's nothing but a friend, but refuse to allow him to kiss you?? wow! WOW!! thank God i'm of another generation. Its called a friend with benefits. You never watched sex in the city? Like "Big"

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Thu 11/27/08 12:20 AM
sharp how ya doing bro??

Stacy1987 Joined Tue 11/25/08 Posts: 216	Thu 11/27/08 12:21 AM
(two up) yes like Mr Big but they kissed so that was different.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Thu 11/27/08 12:23 AM
Not to me. A boyfriend is any guy that I kiss on the lips often. I do other things but thats the minimum. If Im lip kissing a guy then we are boyfriend girlfriend. I dont even lip kiss the guys who are just friends with benefits because Lip kissing in not a benefit. you'll have sex with a guy who's nothing but a friend, but refuse to allow him to kiss you?? wow! WOW!! thank God i'm of another generation. Its called a friend with benefits. You never watched sex in the city? haha, i'm not THAT old; i've heard of the term. (but i never have watched the show) i just meant that you'd allow someone the intimacy of being inside you, but refuse to let them kiss you. it sounds backwards to me.

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Thu 11/27/08 12:25 AM
if ya already knew the answer why did you ask in the first place,you dont like none of our answers

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 11/27/08 12:26 AM
I like turtles.

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Thu 11/27/08 12:26 AM
sharp how ya doing bro?? I'm doing great O C, hope you are as well

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 11/27/08 12:26 AM
If you are seeing someone and you find out that person is carrying on an online flirting relationship with some other person 500 miles away is that cheating? If your dating partner doesnt get sexual but just keeps the flirting to the forums does that make a difference in whether or not its cheating? If cows could fly would you have to scrape cottage cheese off your car after parking under a tree? ==============================part 2 All right Im going to add more to this op question. I travel a lot and I have a couple of boyfriends that are far away. We met in person while I was traveling not on a dating site. I am curious if I flirt with guys on mingle forums if my boyfriends might get offended. Should I tell them I an here? I am afraid they would make an account and start drama. Is online forum flirting even real? Flirting with anyone when the first party thinks you are in a relationship is wrong. You not only hurt everyone involved by breaking their confidence in themselves, their trust in you, and your credibility as being an honorable person you are betraying your self respect. Don't expect to end up with a good mate if you can not BE a good mate. Do I think talking in forums on a date site is flirting? Depends what you say and how you say it. I do think it puts the burden on you to prove that is is only fellowship and not flirting. I am not sure I would mess up something promising by just proveing you can get attention.

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Thu 11/27/08 12:27 AM
I like turtles. Me too they have orange meat when you cook 'em

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Thu 11/27/08 12:28 AM
I like turtles. (((((winx)))))

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Thu 11/27/08 12:28 AM
sharp how ya doing bro?? I'm doing great O C, hope you are as well I am doing pretty good here

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 11/27/08 12:28 AM
Not to me. A boyfriend is any guy that I kiss on the lips often. I do other things but thats the minimum. If Im lip kissing a guy then we are boyfriend girlfriend. I dont even lip kiss the guys who are just friends with benefits because Lip kissing in not a benefit. you'll have sex with a guy who's nothing but a friend, but refuse to allow him to kiss you?? wow! WOW!! thank God i'm of another generation. Its called a friend with benefits. You never watched sex in the city? That something is on TV doesn't make it right.

SharpShooter10 Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 11271	Thu 11/27/08 12:29 AM
(two up) yes like Mr Big but they kissed so that was different. Darlin, till you consider yourself in a serious relationship, Enjoy everybit of any and all attention guys give you. Let 'em fall all over themselves spoiling you, you deserve it and nothing wrong with it.

Stacy1987 Joined Tue 11/25/08 Posts: 216	Thu 11/27/08 12:29 AM
If you are seeing someone and you find out that person is carrying on an online flirting relationship with some other person 500 miles away is that cheating? If your dating partner doesnt get sexual but just keeps the flirting to the forums does that make a difference in whether or not its cheating? If cows could fly would you have to scrape cottage cheese off your car after parking under a tree? ==============================part 2 All right Im going to add more to this op question. I travel a lot and I have a couple of boyfriends that are far away. We met in person while I was traveling not on a dating site. I am curious if I flirt with guys on mingle forums if my boyfriends might get offended. Should I tell them I an here? I am afraid they would make an account and start drama. Is online forum flirting even real? Flirting with anyone when the first party thinks you are in a relationship is wrong. You not only hurt everyone involved by breaking their confidence in themselves, their trust in you, and your credibility as being an honorable person you are betraying your self respect. Don't expect to end up with a good mate if you can not BE a good mate. Do I think talking in forums on a date site is flirting? Depends what you say and how you say it. I do think it puts the burden on you to prove that is is only fellowship and not flirting. I am not sure I would mess up something promising by just proveing you can get attention. They are not serious relationships you have to read the follow up post to see me saying that. The men know that I see other guys and they knew it when I started the relationships. What they didnt know was that I was going to get online.

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Thu 11/27/08 12:30 AM Edited by OrangeCat on Thu 11/27/08 12:34 AM


Stacy1987 Joined Tue 11/25/08 Posts: 216	Thu 11/27/08 12:32 AM
(two up) yes like Mr Big but they kissed so that was different. Darlin, till you consider yourself in a serious relationship, Enjoy everybit of any and all attention guys give you. Let 'em fall all over themselves spoiling you, you deserve it and nothing wrong with it. I guess in the future when I make an OP I better put in all the details because most people dont read the follow up post and see the rest of the facts but I cant blame them because I dont read every post in most threads either. Only one of them spoil me but the other one has skills that I like.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 11/27/08 12:32 AM
I like turtles. (((((winx))))) Hi (((OC)))). Reading this thread feels like de je vu to me.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 11/27/08 12:33 AM
I like turtles. Me too they have orange meat when you cook 'em Ewwwww, Sharp.

Stacy1987 Joined Tue 11/25/08 Posts: 216	Thu 11/27/08 12:34 AM Edited by Stacy1987 on Thu 11/27/08 12:36 AM
so is this kinda like a prostitute kinda thing ?? They dont pay me. Is it prostitution if two people have sex and no compensation is given to either party? I think its called two consenting adults having a good time. If you dont go for that then good for you but I sometimes like to have sex with guys. What happened to your post orange cat? You edited it out but I already quoted it.