Topic: Is flirting on a dating site cheating?
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Wed 11/26/08 02:13 PM
But you're saying you don't want to tell Boyfriend #2 now...sounds like a guilty conscience.

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Wed 11/26/08 02:13 PM

Burnt like toast kid,


noway


but hey whatever floats your boat,

it is what it is, flowerforyou

I see you are one of those real deep thinking men.

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Wed 11/26/08 02:13 PM
I think it's ok for other people but for myself if I was seeing someone I wouldn't dream of flirting with another man.

If I had a boyfriend I wouldn't want him flirting online either.

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Wed 11/26/08 02:14 PM

But you're saying you don't want to tell Boyfriend #2 now...sounds like a guilty conscience.

no guilt. biggrin

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Wed 11/26/08 02:18 PM


But you're saying you don't want to tell Boyfriend #2 now...sounds like a guilty conscience.

no guilt. biggrin



Hmm...no guilt. Then perhaps this IS a rhetorical question? People only hide their actions when they feel it is wrong or it may hurt the other person's feelings. Sound like you have more on your plate than just wondering if online flirting is cheating...

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Wed 11/26/08 02:21 PM

I say NO!noway
Nuthin wrong with HARMLESS flirting.....!:wink:

There's no such thing as HARMLESS flirting.

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Wed 11/26/08 02:22 PM
Yes...is my answer.

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Wed 11/26/08 02:23 PM



But you're saying you don't want to tell Boyfriend #2 now...sounds like a guilty conscience.

no guilt. biggrin



Hmm...no guilt. Then perhaps this IS a rhetorical question? People only hide their actions when they feel it is wrong or it may hurt the other person's feelings. Sound like you have more on your plate than just wondering if online flirting is cheating...

Nope. Just a simple question or two. I dont want to hurt others feelings because I am not a bad person and I was just curious of others opinions.

Be careful, I think if you try to analyze someone on the basis of a few post you will just make a fool of yourself. People are complicated and they cant be dissected by the use of a few forum post. Its best if you just give your opinion on the topic and not try to talk about what you dont know.bigsmile

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Wed 11/26/08 02:26 PM
your 21. and seem to like to play the field so to speak. if the other guy doesnt know about the other guy well that is pretty much considering cheating.. as for flirting on online with others no its not consider cheating. but in your case i would say yes....:angry:

hope your friends dont introduce you to anyone

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Wed 11/26/08 02:26 PM

If you are seeing someone and you find out that person is carrying on an online flirting relationship with some other person 500 miles away is that cheating? If your dating partner doesnt get sexual but just keeps the flirting to the forums does that make a difference in whether or not its cheating? If cows could fly would you have to scrape cottage cheese off your car after parking under a tree?

==============================part 2

All right Im going to add more to this op question.
I travel a lot and I have a couple of boyfriends that are far away. We met in person while I was traveling not on a dating site. I am curious if I flirt with guys on mingle forums if my boyfriends might get offended. Should I tell them I an here? I am afraid they would make an account and start drama. Is online forum flirting even real?


do you BOYFRIENDS know about each other...or is that a secret too?

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Wed 11/26/08 02:28 PM




But you're saying you don't want to tell Boyfriend #2 now...sounds like a guilty conscience.

no guilt. biggrin



Hmm...no guilt. Then perhaps this IS a rhetorical question? People only hide their actions when they feel it is wrong or it may hurt the other person's feelings. Sound like you have more on your plate than just wondering if online flirting is cheating...

Nope. Just a simple question or two. I dont want to hurt others feelings because I am not a bad person and I was just curious of others opinions.

Be careful, I think if you try to analyze someone on the basis of a few post you will just make a fool of yourself. People are complicated and they cant be dissected by the use of a few forum post. Its best if you just give your opinion on the topic and not try to talk about what you dont know.bigsmile
Don't ya hate it when things are analyzed to death and when you're judgedflowerforyou I get ya honey

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Wed 11/26/08 02:29 PM


First...I have a question about your Part 2 Question: Do all your boyfriends know about eachother?

Only 2 boyfriends. One guy knows because he is all laid back. The other guy doesnt know anything. I guess I better not tell him about the forums then. I only see the guys a few times a year when I travel to them or they travel to me. Im not ready to settle down with one guy right now because there are way too many guys out there in the world that I might like.


I found my answer......so what your saying is your loose?

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Wed 11/26/08 02:33 PM
I think it just depends.......I have been with my husband for 29 years....and I have always been a flirt.....He loved that about me before he married me and would never change that about me. So I think it just depends on the situation. I also know of a lot of couple that are here and have just gotten married and love to flirt.....when in it's proper context then I think ok.....And you will know when the line has been crossed.

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Wed 11/26/08 02:34 PM
Hope you don't catch anything. Don't say you use protection...cause you can get HERPES from kissing. I'd be careful if I were you. You might find yourself with NO MAN in the long run or a life threatening disease.

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Wed 11/26/08 02:34 PM
Hope you don't catch anything. Don't say you use protection...cause you can get HERPES from kissing. I'd be careful if I were you. You might find yourself with NO MAN in the long run or a life threatening disease.

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Wed 11/26/08 02:35 PM

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Wed 11/26/08 02:37 PM
I don't really think flirting online is cheating. Now having multiple boyfriends that you see, well, that could be construed as cheating.

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Wed 11/26/08 02:38 PM
My b/f knows Im still on here..heck he is too. But he always knows I do flirt.. its just who I am. I would never do anything with another guy! But I don't see why it would hurt...as long as he knows an can trust you.

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Wed 11/26/08 02:38 PM
Here's a guide line......... If you wouldn't do it in front of your partners face, then don't do it behind his back!

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Wed 11/26/08 02:44 PM

I don't really think flirting online is cheating. Now having multiple boyfriends that you see, well, that could be construed as cheating.
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