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Topic: Verbal Abuse
IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 12/29/08 03:15 PM
women are known to verbally abuse as well. The intent was "anyone" not directed at a specific gender...

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Mon 12/29/08 03:17 PM
Put up with it from a few different women. Since it was illegal to slit their throats, I just left.

lizwakl01 Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 1	Mon 12/29/08 03:17 PM
I was also in a abuse relationship until I left it. It took to much out of me. It took a lot to be who I am right now. My self exteem was to low but I survived. So, I say no I don't forqive anybody who is abusive (verbal or physical).

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 03:18 PM
women are known to verbally abuse as well. The intent was "anyone" not directed at a specific gender... Thats right

OneMoreTimeAround Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 3649	Mon 12/29/08 03:19 PM
Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you? Have you ever? I've forgiven, but I have no respect for anyone who abuses another in any way and when I allowed it to be done to me, I lost respect for myself also...so forgive, yes, allow it again, NO!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 12/29/08 03:24 PM
Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you? Have you ever? I've forgiven, but I have no respect for anyone who abuses another in any way and when I allowed it to be done to me, I lost respect for myself also...so forgive, yes, allow it again, NO! wise decision

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 12/29/08 03:25 PM
I didnt know you knew my boss Mirror, I just give it right back

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 12/29/08 03:47 PM
Shut the fukc up! You little loser...you will never amount to anything...... I'm sorry will you forgive me???? Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you? Have you ever?

evian001 Joined Fri 10/17/08 Posts: 1162	Mon 12/29/08 04:00 PM
Shut the fukc up! You little loser...you will never amount to anything...... I'm sorry will you forgive me???? oh no if they say it in the same breath...thats definatly a NO..

work2live247 Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 143	Mon 12/29/08 04:19 PM
Shut the fukc up! You little loser...you will never amount to anything...... I'm sorry will you forgive me???? oh no if they say it in the same breath...thats definatly a NO.. Hey don't discriminate just because he/she has a terrett syndrome.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 12/29/08 04:53 PM
Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you? Have you ever? In my professional life this is common and I don't take it personally. In my private life I have been verbally as well as physically abused. I believe the verbal took a lot longer to heal from than the broken bones. I also have forgiven them sure since I refuse to let something like that fester in me and gain any control of my life. Now I will not tolerate it period if and when the boundaries are crossed they get only one warning then I remove myself from the situation and I don't go back.

SweetnFunny Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 687	Mon 12/29/08 04:56 PM
Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you? Have you ever? Yes, I could and did.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Tue 12/30/08 04:37 AM
Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you? Have you ever? I have. There's a fine line between verbal and psychological/emotional abuse. I'm not sure I should have forgiven; and, certainly NOT forgotten.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 03/24/09 05:55 PM
Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you? Have you ever? I have. There's a fine line between verbal and psychological/emotional abuse. I'm not sure I should have forgiven; and, certainly NOT forgotten.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Tue 03/24/09 05:58 PM
I have before. I won't in the future.

Dancere Joined Sun 04/06/08 Posts: 14561	Tue 03/24/09 05:59 PM
... Just say NO to whack crack!

Duffy Joined Sat 10/07/06 Posts: 3775	Tue 03/24/09 06:02 PM
verbal abuse is a cycle... violence is a cycle... go to your local YMCA and take a class. it will arm you and teach u how to defend yourself...it gives you power...

moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Tue 03/24/09 06:03 PM
Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you? Have you ever? Not really as that's typically an indication of something more serious, including domestic violence and other forms of physical violence. And no- I haven't forgiven anybody for partaking in such shenanigans.

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Tue 03/24/09 06:07 PM
For me this is a big no, never again, bruises heal memories you never lose~

ReddBeans Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 6930	Tue 03/24/09 06:08 PM
I put up with verbal abuse for 10 yrs by my exhusband. I finally got a divorce. I will no longer tolerate that kind of behavior from any man. Either fight fair or I walk. And yes, there is a way to fight and do it fairly. Have I forgiven? I've forgiven and moved on.