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Topic: Have you ever
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Tue 01/13/09 04:10 PM
Have you ever loved someone who was slowly self-destructing?

scorpio90's photo
Tue 01/13/09 04:11 PM
Yea...it hurts...

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Tue 01/13/09 04:12 PM
Yes-My sons father -He is deceased now.-Due to self-destuction:angel:

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Tue 01/13/09 04:15 PM
Yes. But luckily hit hit rock bottom and made it back. I hear he is doing well now. One day maybe he can be the dad he should have been.

sensualsweet's photo
Tue 01/13/09 04:17 PM
Yes.. and it's heart-wrenching,.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 01/13/09 04:20 PM

Have you ever loved someone who was slowly self-destructing?


At varying rates of speed. Some were full speed, others slowly wilted. Whether I struggled with them or not, ultimately I just became one of the many things they lost in the process.

TBRich's photo
Tue 01/13/09 04:25 PM
Yeah, I walked in on her and a half empty bottle of vodka. Remember, it is painful, but you can not afford to let them suck you down with them. If you do, I will hunt you down and kick your ass.

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Tue 01/13/09 04:28 PM

Yeah, I walked in on her and a half empty bottle of vodka. Remember, it is painful, but you can not afford to let them suck you down with them. If you do, I will hunt you down and kick your ass.

:laughing:

redneck29's photo
Wed 01/14/09 05:10 AM
yes I have and she is still self-destructing. we are no longer togather. I hope she finds her way before its to late. brokenheart

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Wed 01/14/09 01:44 PM
Yes, it was awful...felt very helpless.flowerforyou

dbh1966's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:17 PM
Yes. It's like going out in the middle of the lake to save them when they are drowning. If you try to save them they can take you down with them. Have to stick to your beliefs, your faith. Must be careful.

AllenAqua's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:19 PM
yeah... not a good situation at all...

mami_chinita's photo
Sat 01/17/09 07:51 PM
yea an alcoholic...i wiped my hands clean of that and left him in colorado ...he can deal with that himself...fo sheeezee!!

aztmom's photo
Sat 01/17/09 08:12 PM
Yes and it is so hard to watch him continue and deny there is anything wrong. The scariest thing is I'm so afraid when he hits bottom the kids will be there.

lovelygyps's photo
Sat 01/17/09 11:53 PM
no, but i have been the one doing so, and have been adored many times while i was self destructive.

Marie55's photo
Sun 01/18/09 01:59 AM
My ex was a hard core violent alcoholic, it was his demise, three times through treatment didn't help. He died at the ripe old age of 45 due to alcoholic cardiomyopathy. No one could make him stop. I divorced him when his daughter was 5 so at least she didn't have to watch it first hand.

So sad when people won't accept the help that is given them. He missed out on two beautiful grandchildren.

livelife68's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:17 AM
yes I have...it eventually changed my life for the better.:smile:

catwoman96's photo
Sun 01/18/09 02:34 AM

yes I have...it eventually changed my life for the better.:smile:


me toooo

but him.....he disingrated...and is in prison a long long long timeindifferent indifferent

prisoner's photo
Sun 01/18/09 05:36 AM

no, but i have been the one doing so, and have been adored many times while i was self destructive.
:smile: i love self destructive women...it's a challenge and never boring...be seeing you

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Sun 01/18/09 06:37 AM

no, but i have been the one doing so, and have been adored many times while i was self destructive.

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