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Topic: Time to get deep here...
challengingmind's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:06 PM
let's put it this way...i have to go to court for a harrassment order against landlord tomorrow and I don't know if even that would work

Queene123's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:08 PM

How do you stop verbal abuse from occuring in any type of relationship?


you cant really stop it.. i was in a verable abuse relationship for 3yrs. the only reason he was like that was because his step dad and his mom were that way.. i pointed it out to him and he ignored it.. he thought i needed counsling for the way i was acting, so i went to see a counselor and he pointed out what i needed to know, i broke up with him 3 differnt times thinking he would change, which he didnt. he died a little over 2yrs ago. he died on thanksgiving. i still talk to his mom every now and then...and i have a mp3 that he made so i listen to that every so often

Winx's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:09 PM

How do you stop verbal abuse from occuring in any type of relationship?


Leave the relationship. You can't change people.

challengingmind's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:09 PM
I tried calling animal control to come fetch but the animal has to have four legs lmao

Queene123's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:10 PM

let's put it this way...i have to go to court for a harrassment order against landlord tomorrow and I don't know if even that would work


now why do you have to go to court over the landlord for harrassment..(thats not legal for the landlord to do that)
they even have to give you 24hour notice before they can walk in your place when your not there

darkowl1's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:12 PM
that book has even helped me diffuse stuff on here, nasty stuff, bullies, without getting into trouble. civily.

challengingmind's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:12 PM
I'm moving in april but want the landlord to leave us alone until after we move out

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:14 PM

WHEN HE FALLS ASLEEP ..... IS PRETTY EASY
1) TAKE A SOCK
2)TAKE A BAR OF SOAP
3) STICK THE SOAP IN THE SOCK
4) TUCK THE BLANKET TIGHT UNDER THE BED SO HOMIE CANT MOVE
5)HAVE FUNN
YEA ..... I WAS KIDDIN LEAVE DA SUKKA
XOXO





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challengingmind's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:20 PM
landlord doesn't follow the landlord/tenant act,has verbally assaulted me and kids and I had to have a year worth of documentation to prove it which I do

Winx's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:22 PM

landlord doesn't follow the landlord/tenant act,has verbally assaulted me and kids and I had to have a year worth of documentation to prove it which I do


Then everything should work out in your favor in court tomorrow.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:23 PM

yeah I know kung fu and six other japenese words lol




:tongue: Do you know any ninjas?:tongue:

challengingmind's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:30 PM
hehehe sure..let me find my black pj's

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:32 PM

landlord doesn't follow the landlord/tenant act,has verbally assaulted me and kids and I had to have a year worth of documentation to prove it which I do



Good luck in court... Good for you not letting him push you around...

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:39 PM

hehehe sure..let me find my black pj's



bigsmile you sleep in ninja PJs?:tongue:

challengingmind's photo
Thu 03/05/09 07:47 PM
hehehehe I'm not telling (Mirror)

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 03/05/09 08:33 PM

If it is a relationship by choice such as a boyfriend/girlfriend, you walk away and leave.

If it is a family member, you make it clear that you will not be subjected to verbal abuse. If they do not stop or don't try to get help, you may have to walk away from that relationship too.


Try that when you are just a kid. Doesn't work very well.grumble

Citizen_Joe's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:20 PM

How do you stop verbal abuse from occuring in any type of relationship?


Stop participating in the relationship.

tessa68's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:23 PM
act like a deaf...or DEADMA!

74Drew's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:43 PM
Edited by 74Drew on Thu 03/05/09 11:43 PM

How do you stop verbal abuse from occuring in any type of relationship?


think before you speak

maintain your calm

try to remove emotion from the conversation.

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